how to know if a girl wants you or if she just friendly?

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a lot of dudes mistake a girl being nice for ioi. so how do u differniate between ioi and kindess?
 
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a lot of dudes mistake a girl being nice for ioi. so how do u differniate between ioi and kindess?
Almost everytime she would make it very obvious. Foids make the whole process easier when they are into a guy
 
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Its obvious if she likes you, just ask her out as a joke and see her response
 
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Its obvious if she likes you, just ask her out as a joke and see her response

shes my boss at work i cant really ask her out. i caught her staring at my dih and she always comes to "check on how im doing" every 5 mins finds any excuse to talk to me always smily and very touchy gets realll close. we're the same age too
 
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shes my boss at work i cant really ask her out. i caught her staring at my dih and she always comes to "check on how im doing" every 5 mins finds any excuse to talk to me always smily and very touchy gets realll close. we're the same age too
Prolly into you lol
 
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Prolly into you lol
i was thinking she was but she has way higher SMV she has multiple degrees and is really young to be in the position she's in. shes succesful and im just a nd bum im so confused
 
i was thinking she was but she has way higher SMV she has multiple degrees and is really young to be in the position she's in. shes succesful and im just a nd bum im so confused
Just do what youre currently doing and see if the situation maybe evolves by itself
 
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if shes friendly with everyone u shouldnt date her at the first place
 
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fuk
 
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Depends on you. If you’re attractive, it’s an IOI. If you’re not, it’s her being nice.
 
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shes my boss at work i cant really ask her out. i caught her staring at my dih and she always comes to "check on how im doing" every 5 mins finds any excuse to talk to me always smily and very touchy gets realll close. we're the same age too
whats ur job
 
Depends on you. If you’re attractive, it’s an IOI. If you’re not, it’s her being nice.
i mean if shes being atleast nice that guy is definetly above average
 
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i dont find myself attractive but ive had many women come talk to me and call me attractive. ive been with many girls as well idk what they see in me ngl
 
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i dont find myself attractive but ive had many women come talk to me and call me attractive. ive been with many girls as well idk what they see in me ngl
u been with many girls and u have to ask this question? larp as fuck
 
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a lot of dudes mistake a girl being nice for ioi. so how do u differniate between ioi and kindess?
Socrates and Plato used to debate this
 
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It’s pretty obvious, most aren’t intelligent enough to mask it well
 
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just go on omegle to see if you are attractive lol
 
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More deliberate and obvious, constant IOIs not just occasional, and usually more touchy
 
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u been with many girls and u have to ask this question? larp as fuck
yes but with those girls they made it either very easy for me or i had enough alcohol in me to be low inhib and be bold. apart from that i got hundreds of matches on dating apps but ruin it each time cuz im so nd and autistic when it comes to speaking:feelswhy:
 
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how is she being close to you
for example we got this device that we use to scan items that has a big ass screen and i wanted to show her something on it. she practically puts her entire body against me and her boobs are fully squished on my arm to see this thing on the screen thats very easy to read. she stays in that position for like 5 seconds
 
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Eye contact, touchiness, likes to be around you a lot

Bro like idk you just know


And you also have to take inconsideration of her looks level and yours
 
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for example we got this device that we use to scan items that has a big ass screen and i wanted to show her something on it. she practically puts her entire body against me and her boobs are fully squished on my arm to see this thing on the screen thats very easy to read. she stays in that position for like 5 seconds
is she more attractive than u
 
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is she more attractive than u
in terms of psl and appeal id say im a tad bit higher, but she's blonde and in good shape and has higher smv imo in the real world that counts more than just simple psl rating
 
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Eye contact, touchiness, likes to be around you a lot

Bro like idk you just know


And you also have to take inconsideration of her looks level and yours
imagine im certain that she wants me. how would i go about making my move? she's my boss at work if i fuck up making my move in the slightest i could straight up get fired. should i just do nothing since the coochie is too high risk?
 
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imagine im certain that she wants me. how would i go about making my move? she's my boss at work if i fuck up making my move in the slightest i could straight up get fired. should i just do nothing since the coochie is too high risk?
man you losing a job at walmart who cares go for it
 

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