How to know if you’re GL by female attention?

[bradpittshairline]

What are signs of different levels of looks

 

[Deleted member 42577]

getting a footjob in a restaurant

 

[Deleted member 47699]

What are signs of different levels of looks

man fuck is this question, use ur last chromosome or didnt u ever go in a club or on a house party?

 

[Razeb]

What are signs of different levels of looks

damn we created our accounts on the exact same day

 

[autistic_tendencies]

They give you sort of a blank stare , eyes wide open

 

[bradpittshairline]

damn we created our accounts on the exact same day

Inshallah habibi

 

[bradpittshairline]

man fuck is this question, use ur last chromosome or didnt u ever go in a club or on a house party?

I mean in terms of Ltn mtn htn etc

 

[Deleted member 25056]

By attention from the opposite gender.

 

[bradpittshairline]

By attention from the opposite gender.

I get that but it doesn’t mean I’m chad lol

 

[GuyFromSingapore]

They give you sort of a blank stare , eyes wide open

That's a major ioi.

Has this happened to you btw?

 

[bradpittshairline]

That's a major ioi.

Has this happened to you btw?

it did to me at house parties and bars

 

[lovemaxer]

If she likes u theres no question

Attraction ambiguity problem

The attraction ambiguity problem, or "how do I know if she/he's interested in me?" is an issue commonly experienced by those who are not very experienced in the...

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The attraction ambiguity problem, or "how do I know if she/he's interested in me?" is an issue commonly experienced by those who are not very experienced in the dating realm.

Usually, people are either bad at reading faces[1] (possibly due to autism), or are genuinely not getting definite indicators of interest.

There is a great controversy surrounding the ambiguity problem, with some saying it is a death knell and the person will never be interested in you, and others claiming that you need to know for sure, and the only way to do that is to ask the person out. Regardless, there are certain indicators of when ambiguity is irrelevant or it is actually a negative sign.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

That's a major ioi.

Has this happened to you btw?

Yeah or look down after

 

[Allornothing]

At mid-HTN girls will look at you a lot and above that you will start getting approached.

 

[bradpittshairline]

At mid-HTN girls will look at you a lot and above that you will start getting approached.

I’ve gotten approached 5-6 times times irl since 2022 is that good?

 

[Allornothing]

I’ve gotten approached 5-6 times times irl since 2022 is that good?

What I said kind of applies if you look unapproachable/non NT with a resting bitch face and low trust features etc. The standards are probably lower if you are higher trust. You definitely look somewhat attractive though.

 

[bradpittshairline]

What I said kind of applies if you look unapproachable/non NT with a resting bitch face and low trust features etc. The standards are probably lower if you are higher trust. You definitely look somewhat attractive though.

I have RBF and dead eyes maybe that’s why most of this happened to me at night

 

[HumidVent]

Women will be giving a guy a blowjob and they would be thinking in their mind if the guy likes them. A man will be walking on the street and will happen to accidentally lock eyes with a woman he finds attractive and will imagine the rest of his life with her.

It's extremely obvious when women find you attractive, if you have to ask then it's already over for you.

 

[bradpittshairline]

Women will be giving a guy a blowjob and they would be thinking in their mind if the guy likes them. A man will be walking on the street and will happen to accidentally lock eyes with a woman he finds attractive and will imagine the rest of his life with her.

It's extremely obvious when women find you attractive, if you have to ask then it's already over for you.

I got women who simp for me but I’m too autistic to be self assured more so after being on this form a lot the past month

 

[Allornothing]

Women will be giving a guy a blowjob and they would be thinking in their mind if the guy likes them. A man will be walking on the street and will happen to accidentally lock eyes with a woman he finds attractive and will imagine the rest of his life with her.

It's extremely obvious when women find you attractive, if you have to ask then it's already over for you.

No. It’s just that if you never have women who are clearly interested in you then statistically speaking very few are ever interested in you. Many girls don’t show attraction clearly though. Big IOIs are a measure of attractiveness, not the only indicator of it.

 

[PMF1]

Wide smiles, chicks nervous around you, they generally say hello first when you see each other, them telling you you're cute.

 

[bradpittshairline]

No. It’s just that if you never have women who are clearly interested in you then statistically speaking very few are ever interested in you. Many girls don’t show attraction clearly though. Big IOIs are a measure of attractiveness, not the only indicator of it.

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[futureashtray]

They look at you then they pull up they leggings nd shit and looks back at u and etc

 

[bradpittshairline]

They look at you then they pull up they leggings nd shit and looks back at u and etc

Who tf wearing leggings

 

[cyberpunk2075]

So it basically depends on how "friendly"/"approachable" your face is and how attractive you are overall (are you attractive by conventional male beauty standards? are you unconventionally attractive, e.g. feminine facial features? do you have a unique style? are you tall? are you a pretty boy or masculine male? (these are the only 2 highly attractive male types imo, feminine and hypermasculine men don't do too well from my observations) etc.). The reason I list these things is because something like having good feminine facial features can make you extremely intimidating, e.g. having a perfect feminine facial features (e.g. feminine nose, eyebrows, etc) can trigger insecurities in women whose features are not as good and therefore they will not look at you at all/behave weirdly around you/hate on you). I've found that men who have facial flaws, e.g. a slightly crooked nose or slight asymmetry but are still physically attractive (tall, dress well/has style, has an attractive face minus some flaws, good physique) generate more attention than those who are facially gorgeous and I think it's because a lot of women don't feel they're good enough for someone of that calibre of beauty.

from personal experience climbing the ranks and also observations with attractive friends varying from 7 - 10 (not PSL bullshit btw, going by ratings given from strangers passing by me and my friends)

7/10 - women will make eye contact with you, smile, be really friendly
8/10 - women will do all of the above and also be really nervous or excited around you, you'll have women approach you at bars and buy you a drink, eye contact from every woman, you'll occasionally have older women flirt with you and even seduce you (that's if you appear to lack confidence/self-esteem), you'll make female friends super easy
9/10 - you'll get the above, eye contact from every woman, hunger stares (women will stare at you with a blank face for a long period of time), people will compliment you (not "you're handsome" but... "you're absolutely gorgeous", "you are such a beautiful beautiful man", "you're sexy", "you're so fucking hot", "you should be gay"), you'll get followed around by girls on the street, you'll have women staring at you sexually and licking/biting their lips (sometimes aggressively) and sometimes they can't control it, they'll walk or sit up with good posture around you, you'll see hair flicks/flips when you walk into a room, some women will look away quickly if you look at them, some will freeze completely and not move an inch, women will run away/hide from you, e.g. once I walked into a store and all of the women ran out of the store, a lot of women (usually below an 8) will not make eye contact with you at all
10/10 - all of the above, you'll see womens jaw drop (I mean that literally) more often than a 9 does, you'll get the attention of the entire room (smiles and stares from almost every single woman), you'll get surrounded by women in a pub, sometimes you'll get cornered by a group of girls who will heavily flirt with you, girls will make out with you without really speaking to them much

that should give you a good idea... there's more but it's late and I cbf writing any more. what I will say, is that these are the positives. when you enter 9 - 10 territory, there are a shit load of negatives. personally I would say being an 8 is the sweet spot. when you cross 8, you'll start experiencing a fuck load of jealousy and hatred from other dudes and even women, *especially* if you're a pretty boy. Also, at 9 - 10, a lot of people are afraid of you. Expect to start 99.9% of interactions during your day to day, because rarely will anyone initiate an interaction with you.

 

[DelonLover1999]

They give you sort of a blank stare , eyes wide open

feels pretty accurate honestly

 

[owlofathena]

No. It’s just that if you never have women who are clearly interested in you then statistically speaking very few are ever interested in you. Many girls don’t show attraction clearly though. Big IOIs are a measure of attractiveness, not the only indicator of it.

I still think men are expected to do the approaching. It's very rare that a woman will approach a man directly unless she is at a club or the guy has some kind of special status. The most common ways are through IOIs for example staring at you from a far and stuff.

 

[Allornothing]

I still think men are expected to do the approaching. It's very rare that a woman will approach a man directly unless she is at a club or the guy has some kind of special status. The most common ways are through IOIs for example staring at you from a far and stuff.

Idk man I always see stories of users here who get approached.

 

[owlofathena]

Idk man I always see stories of users here who get approached.

You have to take every story you see here with a grain of salt.

 

[Allornothing]

You have to take every story you see here with a grain of salt.

It can’t all be tales. Though I have literally never seen anyone approach anyone irl. Then again, good looking men are super rare.

 

[user123456]

It can’t all be tales. Though I have literally never seen anyone approach anyone irl. Then again, good looking men are super rare.

Only me 6"6 htn and one guy I used to know 6"7 mtn got approached the mtn only got approached in clubs and bars u did I the streets

 

[owlofathena]

It can’t all be tales. Though I have literally never seen anyone approach anyone irl. Then again, good looking men are super rare.

The chads according to blackpillers are extremely rare. Although the term chad just gets thrown around for any attractive man. Attraction can be both objective and subjective. An example here would be somebody might say Gandy is better than Sean opry and then another person says Gandy is old looking for his age and has big nose.

 

[bradpittshairline]

Idk man I always see stories of users here who get approached.

ive been approached but its rare, say max 3 times in 6 months, so yes it happens but its not enough to translate to success dating

 

[Allornothing]

ive been approached but its rare, say max 3 times in 6 months, so yes it happens but its not enough to translate to success dating

Meanwhile there's some people who have literally never been approached.

You have appeal to women, some guys just don't.

 

[NationalWarrior]

if they see you at night and screaming you are good to go

 

[try2beme]

What are signs of different levels of looks

If many women pointed out ur facial attractiveness

 

[bradpittshairline]

Meanwhile there's some people who have literally never been approached.

You have appeal to women, some guys just don't.

yeah but my hair was my rizz now i just put it in a bun and got approached only once last semester at a party