How to live a productive life (get rid of friends)

[Jesus_ist_König]

The biggest step of this is to isolate yourself. Friends are shit. Friends are worthless -they come and go! Friends also heavily impact your way of thinking.

Leisure ("Muße" in german) only exists when you do it alone, since everyone knows that friends influent your lifestyle. So leisure is the goal to ultimate productivity.

I have a good example. I started hanging out with certain ppl and cuz of them I started wearing baggy jeans which -since I don't hang around with them anymore- have got rid of. That's why there is the saying "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are".

They are a distraction that keep you from fulfilling your own desires your own thoughts -they judge you!

That is why I think that they are useless. Also see how may well known scientists were anti social to get shit done and to work productive.

What are your thoughts?
The biggest thing for me is that these ppl always come and go, nobody stays. I don't see the worth in it.

 

[user20266741]

The biggest step of this is to isolate yourself. Friends are shit. Friends are worthless -they come and go! Friends also heavily impact your way of thinking.

Leisure ("Muße" in german) only exists when you do it alone, since everyone knows that friends influent your lifestyle. So leisure is the goal to ultimate productivity.

I have a good example. I started hanging out with certain ppl and cuz of them I started wearing baggy jeans which -since I don't hang around with them anymore- have got rid of. That's why there is the saying "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are".

They are a distraction that keep you from fulfilling your own desires your own thoughts -they judge you!

That is why I think that they are useless. Also see how may well known scientists were anti social to get shit done and to work productive.

What are your thoughts?
The biggest thing for me is that these ppl always come and go, nobody stays. I don't see the worth in it.

Yea and usually they dont want you to mog them in any way, so they might grief you

 

[BigBallsLarry]

i'm friendless so i'll use this thread as cope that it's a good thing

 

[Scarlet]

Usefull read boi so tuff

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

i'm friendless so i'll use this thread as cope that it's a good thing

It always was a good thing? Im not even joking. Am I the only one or dont you hate hanging out with ppl?? I just dont see the worth in it -i dont enjoy it at all!

 

[Soda_Pepsi]

The biggest step of this is to isolate yourself. Friends are shit. Friends are worthless -they come and go! Friends also heavily impact your way of thinking.

Leisure ("Muße" in german) only exists when you do it alone, since everyone knows that friends influent your lifestyle. So leisure is the goal to ultimate productivity.

I have a good example. I started hanging out with certain ppl and cuz of them I started wearing baggy jeans which -since I don't hang around with them anymore- have got rid of. That's why there is the saying "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are".

They are a distraction that keep you from fulfilling your own desires your own thoughts -they judge you!

That is why I think that they are useless. Also see how may well known scientists were anti social to get shit done and to work productive.

What are your thoughts?
The biggest thing for me is that these ppl always come and go, nobody stays. I don't see the worth in it.

Now this is what I look for in this forum

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Now this is what I look for in this forum

Thanks

 

[BigBallsLarry]

It always was a good thing? Im not even joking. Am I the only one or dont you hate hanging out with ppl?? I just dont see the worth in it -i dont enjoy it at all!

yeah i'm antisocial and hate having friends, i always posted threads that solitude is the best way of living life, still, society brainwashed everyone into believing that not having friends is being a lonely loser.

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

yeah i'm antisocial and hate having friends, i always posted threads that solitude is the best way of living life, still, society brainwashed everyone into believing that not having friends is being a lonely loser.

It depends. There are ppl that enjoy hanging out -let them hang out. I personally just dont really enjoy it.

 

[HaileyWelshMogs]

The biggest step of this is to isolate yourself. Friends are shit. Friends are worthless -they come and go! Friends also heavily impact your way of thinking.

Leisure ("Muße" in german) only exists when you do it alone, since everyone knows that friends influent your lifestyle. So leisure is the goal to ultimate productivity.

I have a good example. I started hanging out with certain ppl and cuz of them I started wearing baggy jeans which -since I don't hang around with them anymore- have got rid of. That's why there is the saying "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are".

They are a distraction that keep you from fulfilling your own desires your own thoughts -they judge you!

That is why I think that they are useless. Also see how may well known scientists were anti social to get shit done and to work productive.

What are your thoughts?
The biggest thing for me is that these ppl always come and go, nobody stays. I don't see the worth in it.

i feel this like 95% of the time its just shitty when u want to go out

 

[2ndAscension]

You're not a sigma blud lone wolf, you're just easily influenced and make bad friends that use you as a lolcow because you hate yourself

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

You're not a sigma blud lone wolf, you're just easily influenced and make bad friends that use you as a lolcow because you hate yourself

Okay bro

 

[2ndAscension]

Okay bro

But get real man, you're not beyond biology, you're a social creature who's shielding yourself from the world because of negative prior experiences

 

[Cash💸]

i'm friendless so i'll use this thread as cope that it's a good thing

It’s ok I’m ur friend

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

But get real man, you're not beyond biology, you're a social creature who's shielding yourself from the world because of negative prior experiences

I do sometimes get lonely. I then hang out, i dont enjoy the hang out really and then since I hung out i have the desire to be lonely again.
And talking to ppl is already being social.

The difference between ppl is how big their social battery is.

 

[2ndAscension]

I do sometimes get lonely. I then hang out, i dont enjoy the hang out really and then since I hung out i have the desire to be lonely again.
And talking to ppl is already being social.

The difference between ppl is how big their social battery is.

Social battery is cope, you're with the wrong people
There's people on similar enough wavelengths out there but it's obviously not easy to find them, especially when you're not some normie that bonds over Love Island or Champions League

 

[Luquier]

Agreed

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Agreed

Based
avi reminds me of @Hess

 

[Luquier]

Based
avi reminds me of @Hess

The colours stimulate my autism

 

[horseman.]

But get real man, you're not beyond biology, you're a social creature who's shielding yourself from the world because of negative prior experiences

I really dont understand this common myth, This is under the assumption that every single person shares the same temperament which we do not, there are always outliers like neurodivergence and such. I agree that everyone should always have some level of human interaction but the idea that every single person needs a close friends/good friend groups is just plain wrong

 

[Hess]

Based
avi reminds me of @Hess

I rly like @Luquier 's avi

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

I really dont understand this common myth, This is under the assumption that every single person shares the same temperament which we do not, there are always outliers like neurodivergence and such. I agree that everyone should always have some level of human interaction but the idea that every single person needs a close friends/good friend groups is just plain wrong

same

 

[Lemur]

The biggest step of this is to isolate yourself. Friends are shit. Friends are worthless -they come and go! Friends also heavily impact your way of thinking.

Leisure ("Muße" in german) only exists when you do it alone, since everyone knows that friends influent your lifestyle. So leisure is the goal to ultimate productivity.

I have a good example. I started hanging out with certain ppl and cuz of them I started wearing baggy jeans which -since I don't hang around with them anymore- have got rid of. That's why there is the saying "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are".

They are a distraction that keep you from fulfilling your own desires your own thoughts -they judge you!

That is why I think that they are useless. Also see how may well known scientists were anti social to get shit done and to work productive.

What are your thoughts?
The biggest thing for me is that these ppl always come and go, nobody stays. I don't see the worth in it.

No, friends make me

i enjoy the person that my friends push me to become

i enjoy the company they bring

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

No, friends make me

i enjoy the person that my friends push me to become

i enjoy the company they bring

okay then dont do it.

bro rep me i want to see if the notis i turned off work

 

[Lemur]

okay then dont do it.

bro rep me i want to see if the notis i turned off work

did it

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

did it

didnt get any noti it works

 

[Luquier]

No, friends make me

i enjoy the person that my friends push me to become

i enjoy the company they bring

Ngl they do push you. Better than rotting alone

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Ngl they do push you.

ASS

Better than rotting alone

Peak

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Still my theory is worth gold. I know a guy for some months and I got well along with him. I gifted him smth for his birthday. Afterwards I found out that he didn’t invite me to his party (I wouldn’t have gone anyways I don’t like crowded places) and he even invited ppl he barely talks to. Maybe he didn’t invite me cuz he knew that I wasn’t gonna come, but hey it doesn’t hurt sending me an invite letter at least even if you know that I won’t come. I think he just didn’t want to have me there. But it’s also a bit my fault cuz when I get invited I never go because I don’t like hanging out, but sending that invite letter is a sign of friendship imo regardless if you go. Having friends is a meme imo. At some point they will always leave or not care abt u.

The only dude that ever hung out with me will move away this year and become a monk. I might turn into the low iq version of Terry A. Davis.

What do yall think? @yyk117 @Nodal @Navity @Niebvll @goonterrr

 

[Navity]

The biggest step of this is to isolate yourself. Friends are shit. Friends are worthless -they come and go! Friends also heavily impact your way of thinking.

Leisure ("Muße" in german) only exists when you do it alone, since everyone knows that friends influent your lifestyle. So leisure is the goal to ultimate productivity.

I have a good example. I started hanging out with certain ppl and cuz of them I started wearing baggy jeans which -since I don't hang around with them anymore- have got rid of. That's why there is the saying "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are".

They are a distraction that keep you from fulfilling your own desires your own thoughts -they judge you!

That is why I think that they are useless. Also see how may well known scientists were anti social to get shit done and to work productive.

What are your thoughts?
The biggest thing for me is that these ppl always come and go, nobody stays. I don't see the worth in it.

Don't-have-any-friends-to-begin-with Pill

I somewhat disagree, your problem isn't having friends, it's the people whom you're friends with, imo

ND person will resonate with other ND people

https://looksmax.org/threads/the-search-for-rationalism-open-for-debate.2152712/

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Don't-have-any-friends-to-begin-with Pill

I somewhat disagree, your problem isn't having friends, it's the people whom you're friends with, imo

No, i have one good friend but as I said he will move away. Aka friends will never be there

ND person will resonate with other ND people

Maybe

https://looksmax.org/threads/the-search-for-rationalism-open-for-debate.2152712/

 

[Navity]

Still my theory is worth gold. I know a guy for some months and I got well along with him. I gifted him smth for his birthday. Afterwards I found out that he didn’t invite me to his party (I wouldn’t have gone anyways I don’t like crowded places) and he even invited ppl he barely talks to. Maybe he didn’t invite me cuz he knew that I wasn’t gonna come, but hey it doesn’t hurt sending me an invite letter at least even if you know that I won’t come. I think he just didn’t want to have me there. But it’s also a bit my fault cuz when I get invited I never go because I don’t like hanging out, but sending that invite letter is a sign of friendship imo regardless if you go. Having friends is a meme imo. At some point they will always leave or not care abt u.

The only dude that ever hung out with me will move away this year and become a monk. I might turn into the low iq version of Terry A. Davis.

What do yall think? @yyk117 @Nodal @Navity @Niebvll @goonterrr

I was only invited to like 1 B'day party this year(That too by a complete looser who only invited me and his brother)

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

I was only invited to like 1 B'day party this year(That too by a complete looser who only invited me and his brother)

Over

 

[J.bass]

True I just have 2 friends irl cuz sometimes being lonely in places like uni is weird but I don’t really care about having friends

 

[Niebvll]

Find 1 or 2 people that stay, at all times they wont pull you down

 

[JporkFoid]

The biggest step of this is to isolate yourself. Friends are shit. Friends are worthless -they come and go! Friends also heavily impact your way of thinking.

Leisure ("Muße" in german) only exists when you do it alone, since everyone knows that friends influent your lifestyle. So leisure is the goal to ultimate productivity.

I have a good example. I started hanging out with certain ppl and cuz of them I started wearing baggy jeans which -since I don't hang around with them anymore- have got rid of. That's why there is the saying "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are".

They are a distraction that keep you from fulfilling your own desires your own thoughts -they judge you!

That is why I think that they are useless. Also see how may well known scientists were anti social to get shit done and to work productive.

What are your thoughts?
The biggest thing for me is that these ppl always come and go, nobody stays. I don't see the worth in it.

i just rot all day and cry

 

[Nodal]

Still my theory is worth gold. I know a guy for some months and I got well along with him. I gifted him smth for his birthday. Afterwards I found out that he didn’t invite me to his party (I wouldn’t have gone anyways I don’t like crowded places) and he even invited ppl he barely talks to. Maybe he didn’t invite me cuz he knew that I wasn’t gonna come, but hey it doesn’t hurt sending me an invite letter at least even if you know that I won’t come. I think he just didn’t want to have me there. But it’s also a bit my fault cuz when I get invited I never go because I don’t like hanging out, but sending that invite letter is a sign of friendship imo regardless if you go. Having friends is a meme imo. At some point they will always leave or not care abt u.

The only dude that ever hung out with me will move away this year and become a monk. I might turn into the low iq version of Terry A. Davis.

What do yall think? @yyk117 @Nodal @Navity @Niebvll @goonterrr

It's just your nd nature your not actively holding any socially wanted value that people your age would want

Your a pretty smart guy which usually comes with nd behavior

That the only reason you hold this opinion

Friends are one of the most important things in life for any goal

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Find 1 or 2 people that stay, at all times they wont pull you down

U never know if they stay

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

i just rot all day and cry

Yes

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

It's just your nd nature your not actively holding any socially wanted value that people your age would want

Your a pretty smart guy which usually comes with nd behavior

That the only reason you hold this opinion

Friends are one of the most important things in life for any goal

I’m not smart my IQ test recently was average.

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

It's just your nd nature your not actively holding any socially wanted value that people your age would want

Your a pretty smart guy which usually comes with nd behavior

That the only reason you hold this opinion

Friends are one of the most important things in life for any goal

If I would see any worth in them I would like them. My opinion about friends didn’t come from nothing, it came from 17 years of experience, you probably have other experience

 

[Niebvll]

U never know if they stay

You do

 

[yyk117]

my family started doing this aswell but obviously until I go to uni I am stuck.

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

my family started doing this aswell but obviously until I go to uni I am stuck.

Doing what ?

 

[yyk117]

Doing what ?

preventing me from being productive. my dad took my chess books and my chess set. hes telling me to study for school when its only been 1 week since school ended

 

[reyik]

show me your friends and i'll show you why you're still ngmi

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

show me your friends and i'll show you why you're still ngmi

Ngmi?
The only friend I have is a guy from church that soon will be a monk

 

[reyik]

Ngmi?
The only friend I have is a guy from church that soon will be a monk

never gonna make it

 

[81xa]

Isolation is not natural humans need connection
Friends are important for wellbeing and to get ahead in life

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Isolation is not natural humans need connection
Friends are important for wellbeing and to get ahead in life

For most, some can be longer alone