How to look low inhib at concerts?

[terachadchaddy]

Yesterday my parents took me to a concert, and the entire time, while everyone was dancing like normie faggots, I was standing there like a dumbass, just looking at the stage. I need a way to fix this and blend in with these people, and seem more normal

 

[mandibleisblamed]

alcohol

 

[terachadchaddy]

alcohol

I’m 14 and I don’t like the taste of it

 

[mandibleisblamed]

nobody likes the taste of vodka

 

[terachadchaddy]

nobody likes the taste of vodka

Once when I was 12 I drank some beer and threw up after a while

 

[Willyourememberme?]

You’re just being shy; you’re not used to or comfortable in such places. Usually, those people who hang out like crazy just don’t give a damn, they dance and have fun (which is exactly what you’re supposed to do), or they’re drunk. If it was your first time at a concert, that’s completely normal — after all, you and your brain aren’t used to this kind of environment.

 

[terachadchaddy]

You’re just being shy; you’re not used to or comfortable in such places. Usually, those people who hang out like crazy just don’t give a damn, they dance and have fun (which is exactly what you’re supposed to do), or they’re drunk. If it was your first time at a concert, that’s completely normal — after all, you and your brain aren’t used to this kind of environment.

It’s my first concert since october of last year

 

[yemen]

You drink alcohol, throw up and go home

 

[tenmoreminutes]

Yesterday my parents took me to a concert, and the entire time, while everyone was dancing like normie faggots, I was standing there like a dumbass, just looking at the stage. I need a way to fix this and blend in with these people, and seem more normal

pregab

 

[terachadchaddy]

You drink alcohol, throw up and go home

Are there any options not involving alcohol? I fucking despise the taste of any alcoholic drink

 

[yemen]

Are there any options not involving alcohol? I fucking despise the taste of any alcoholic drink

Well if you’re not an alcoholic you’re gonna hate the taste of alcohol im sorry, maybe smoke some weed? No cigarettes keep your fingers away from that. Or you could gaslight yourself that no one cares what you do which is most definetly true.

You’re 14 you should live life instead of obsessing over your looks and what others think of you

 

[terachadchaddy]

Well if you’re not an alcoholic you’re gonna hate the taste of alcohol im sorry, maybe smoke some weed? No cigarettes keep your fingers away from that. Or you could gaslight yourself that no one cares what you do which is most definetly true.

You’re 14 you should live life instead of obsessing over your looks and what others think of you

Thanks man, but my brain doesn’t let me accept the fact that nobody cares. I always feel like somebody is laughing at me or recording me, and I can never relax

 

[yemen]

Thanks man, but my brain doesn’t let me accept the fact that nobody cares. I always feel like somebody is laughing at me or recording me, and I can never relax

I understand, i was the same at 14. I used to lock myself in my room too scared to step outside, actively ghost friends who texted me cause i know they’d try to get me to leave my home. If i did end up getting ready and my hair wasnt how i wanted it to be, my clothes werent sitting right or i just felt ugly i would end up staying home. It takes alot of courage to overcome anxiety and its definetly not gonna happen on its own. Go to the concert and dance, its gonna be awkward at first but you’ll get accustomed to it.