How to lose your virginity small guide

My brother I am short ugly ND and oldcel. I’m gonna have to pay up if I wanna get it over with but cool guide regardless
 
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So you lose your virginity to a whore foid? That doesn't seem to align w whatever you said in the thread about how it's damaging to your self esteem to lose your virginity to a whore.
I didn't mean it in that way. If that's the only thing in your mind put in the effort and go get the girl you want
 
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My brother I am short ugly ND and oldcel. I’m gonna have to pay up if I wanna get it over with but cool guide regardless
You'll ascend one day bro
 
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First things first: It is 100% normal to still be a virgin between 18 and 21. Anyone who tells you otherwise is coping or straight up retarded. A lot of guys and even quite a few girls beleive it or not in this age range haven't gone all the way yet. May not always be full blown KVs like maybe did some fooling around but haven't gone full 9 yards.

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Yes there are always early birds who lost it in high school or even earlier but that doesn't make the rest of you weird or broken. The stats and real life both show this is extremely common especially among NDs who aren't chasing every party or social circle like it's their full time job. You as a late teen and young adult have a bigger priorities in life and if putting your dick inside a hole is your number 1 priority then you need re evaluate your life.

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It only starts becoming a genuine problem imo if you're deep into your mid to late 20s with zero progress. That's when the gap can widen and the mental toll gets too heavy.

One more thing to address. Don't rush on losing your virginity. There's no moment of epiphany you'll have after getting your dick wet. Nothing changes. Your life will still be miserable you might get a temporary high and confidence boost of touching a woman but that high fades rather quickly. What does matter is who you loose your virginity too and how you do it.

Rushing with the wrong girl or in the wrong situation can leave you feeling emptier than before. Sex by itself is a very intimate and vulnerable act and losing it to someone you don't love and respect can deeply scar your self esteem and confidence so pick this wisely. Don't pick the first woman and plunge your dick inside her. Build up options and pick the one you genuinely love

Ideally this has to be another virgin and you both can take each others virginities. This is the healthiest way to go about it. That mutual inexperience means less judgments and less ego involved. This is the best way to lose your virginity



If you don't have the opportunity for a virgin that's not ideal but still fine. What matters is. Does she have feelings for you? Does she love you? Will she just lay down like a dead fish and you have to do the work or will she enthusiastically engage in it. Will she cuddle with you after sex or kick you to curb after she satisfied her lust

All this is what will determine if you leave losing your virginity with satification feeling loved and desired or getting humiliated and degraded. Strictly avoid whores and dismissive bitchy women. Don't make the mistake I did.

Avoid women whose only motivation is calming her hormones and scratching the itch. The ones addicted to attention from OnlyFans, Instagram, or rotating through guys will make you feel used and worthless afterward. That emotional void is already bad but it hits ever harder when it's your first time. Pick someone who sees you as more than just a dick and a warm body.

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If you're uncircumcised your first time can come with extra challenges because the glans is naturally more sensitive. It's been protected by the foreskin its whole life so contact will feel painful. Try stretching your foreskin in shower everyday until you are comfortable leaving it out in the open and masturbate. Masturbate with the foreskin pulled back sometimes to build some tolerance gradually.

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You can also use gels to desensitize. Also take viagra or cilias as a preventive thing. Nothing more humiliating than losing an erection.

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Also for your first time go slow as fuck. No need to try any porn star tier fucking you've seen. Also use plenty of water based lubes wear a condom. Your first time probably won't be amazing fireworks but if you follow these steps it can be enjoyable and non traumatizing and actually feel good.

TLDR- 1) Being virgin between 18-21 normal.2)Timing not important as much as your partner who takes
3) Avoid whores and dead fish energy choose enthusiasm and real feelings.
4) Go in with preparation lube, desensitize, pills if needed and temper your expectations and go

Fire unironically i am scared of connecting like that had two girlfriends at 18 but i had to breakup. Shit just horrifies me weirdly it’s like I’m opposed to connection like a magnet. Can’t even hangout with my really good friends without work being done cause I’m horrified of smt. It’s so weird.
 
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First things first: It is 100% normal to still be a virgin between 18 and 21. Anyone who tells you otherwise is coping or straight up retarded. A lot of guys and even quite a few girls beleive it or not in this age range haven't gone all the way yet. May not always be full blown KVs like maybe did some fooling around but haven't gone full 9 yards.

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Yes there are always early birds who lost it in high school or even earlier but that doesn't make the rest of you weird or broken. The stats and real life both show this is extremely common especially among NDs who aren't chasing every party or social circle like it's their full time job. You as a late teen and young adult have a bigger priorities in life and if putting your dick inside a hole is your number 1 priority then you need re evaluate your life.

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It only starts becoming a genuine problem imo if you're deep into your mid to late 20s with zero progress. That's when the gap can widen and the mental toll gets too heavy.

One more thing to address. Don't rush on losing your virginity. There's no moment of epiphany you'll have after getting your dick wet. Nothing changes. Your life will still be miserable you might get a temporary high and confidence boost of touching a woman but that high fades rather quickly. What does matter is who you loose your virginity too and how you do it.

Rushing with the wrong girl or in the wrong situation can leave you feeling emptier than before. Sex by itself is a very intimate and vulnerable act and losing it to someone you don't love and respect can deeply scar your self esteem and confidence so pick this wisely. Don't pick the first woman and plunge your dick inside her. Build up options and pick the one you genuinely love

Ideally this has to be another virgin and you both can take each others virginities. This is the healthiest way to go about it. That mutual inexperience means less judgments and less ego involved. This is the best way to lose your virginity



If you don't have the opportunity for a virgin that's not ideal but still fine. What matters is. Does she have feelings for you? Does she love you? Will she just lay down like a dead fish and you have to do the work or will she enthusiastically engage in it. Will she cuddle with you after sex or kick you to curb after she satisfied her lust

All this is what will determine if you leave losing your virginity with satification feeling loved and desired or getting humiliated and degraded. Strictly avoid whores and dismissive bitchy women. Don't make the mistake I did.

Avoid women whose only motivation is calming her hormones and scratching the itch. The ones addicted to attention from OnlyFans, Instagram, or rotating through guys will make you feel used and worthless afterward. That emotional void is already bad but it hits ever harder when it's your first time. Pick someone who sees you as more than just a dick and a warm body.

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If you're uncircumcised your first time can come with extra challenges because the glans is naturally more sensitive. It's been protected by the foreskin its whole life so contact will feel painful. Try stretching your foreskin in shower everyday until you are comfortable leaving it out in the open and masturbate. Masturbate with the foreskin pulled back sometimes to build some tolerance gradually.

View attachment 4870300

You can also use gels to desensitize. Also take viagra or cilias as a preventive thing. Nothing more humiliating than losing an erection.

View attachment 4870305View attachment 4870307

Also for your first time go slow as fuck. No need to try any porn star tier fucking you've seen. Also use plenty of water based lubes wear a condom. Your first time probably won't be amazing fireworks but if you follow these steps it can be enjoyable and non traumatizing and actually feel good.

TLDR- 1) Being virgin between 18-21 normal.2)Timing not important as much as your partner who takes
3) Avoid whores and dead fish energy choose enthusiasm and real feelings.
4) Go in with preparation lube, desensitize, pills if needed and temper your expectations and go slow.

bro got 1 body and dosent know how to act
 
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First things first: It is 100% normal to still be a virgin between 18 and 21. Anyone who tells you otherwise is coping or straight up retarded. A lot of guys and even quite a few girls beleive it or not in this age range haven't gone all the way yet. May not always be full blown KVs like maybe did some fooling around but haven't gone full 9 yards.

View attachment 4870278

Yes there are always early birds who lost it in high school or even earlier but that doesn't make the rest of you weird or broken. The stats and real life both show this is extremely common especially among NDs who aren't chasing every party or social circle like it's their full time job. You as a late teen and young adult have a bigger priorities in life and if putting your dick inside a hole is your number 1 priority then you need re evaluate your life.

View attachment 4870282

It only starts becoming a genuine problem imo if you're deep into your mid to late 20s with zero progress. That's when the gap can widen and the mental toll gets too heavy.

One more thing to address. Don't rush on losing your virginity. There's no moment of epiphany you'll have after getting your dick wet. Nothing changes. Your life will still be miserable you might get a temporary high and confidence boost of touching a woman but that high fades rather quickly. What does matter is who you loose your virginity too and how you do it.

Rushing with the wrong girl or in the wrong situation can leave you feeling emptier than before. Sex by itself is a very intimate and vulnerable act and losing it to someone you don't love and respect can deeply scar your self esteem and confidence so pick this wisely. Don't pick the first woman and plunge your dick inside her. Build up options and pick the one you genuinely love

Ideally this has to be another virgin and you both can take each others virginities. This is the healthiest way to go about it. That mutual inexperience means less judgments and less ego involved. This is the best way to lose your virginity



If you don't have the opportunity for a virgin that's not ideal but still fine. What matters is. Does she have feelings for you? Does she love you? Will she just lay down like a dead fish and you have to do the work or will she enthusiastically engage in it. Will she cuddle with you after sex or kick you to curb after she satisfied her lust

All this is what will determine if you leave losing your virginity with satification feeling loved and desired or getting humiliated and degraded. Strictly avoid whores and dismissive bitchy women. Don't make the mistake I did.

Avoid women whose only motivation is calming her hormones and scratching the itch. The ones addicted to attention from OnlyFans, Instagram, or rotating through guys will make you feel used and worthless afterward. That emotional void is already bad but it hits ever harder when it's your first time. Pick someone who sees you as more than just a dick and a warm body.

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If you're uncircumcised your first time can come with extra challenges because the glans is naturally more sensitive. It's been protected by the foreskin its whole life so contact will feel painful. Try stretching your foreskin in shower everyday until you are comfortable leaving it out in the open and masturbate. Masturbate with the foreskin pulled back sometimes to build some tolerance gradually.

View attachment 4870300

You can also use gels to desensitize. Also take viagra or cilias as a preventive thing. Nothing more humiliating than losing an erection.

View attachment 4870305View attachment 4870307

Also for your first time go slow as fuck. No need to try any porn star tier fucking you've seen. Also use plenty of water based lubes wear a condom. Your first time probably won't be amazing fireworks but if you follow these steps it can be enjoyable and non traumatizing and actually feel good.

TLDR- 1) Being virgin between 18-21 normal.2)Timing not important as much as your partner who takes
3) Avoid whores and dead fish energy choose enthusiasm and real feelings.
4) Go in with preparation lube, desensitize, pills if needed and temper your expectations and go slow.

going to university is the easiest way unless your like hiring a prostute
 
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me reading ts knowing im a retarded high inhib shortcel ass chud
 
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great thread but this girl ik that i was somewhat interested in got fingered now i dont wanna fuck her u think im too bitchy abt it :feelswat: i could make it go somewhere but after the incident idk
 
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First things first: It is 100% normal to still be a virgin between 18 and 21. Anyone who tells you otherwise is coping or straight up retarded. A lot of guys and even quite a few girls beleive it or not in this age range haven't gone all the way yet. May not always be full blown KVs like maybe did some fooling around but haven't gone full 9 yards.

View attachment 4870278

Yes there are always early birds who lost it in high school or even earlier but that doesn't make the rest of you weird or broken. The stats and real life both show this is extremely common especially among NDs who aren't chasing every party or social circle like it's their full time job. You as a late teen and young adult have a bigger priorities in life and if putting your dick inside a hole is your number 1 priority then you need re evaluate your life.

View attachment 4870282

It only starts becoming a genuine problem imo if you're deep into your mid to late 20s with zero progress. That's when the gap can widen and the mental toll gets too heavy.

One more thing to address. Don't rush on losing your virginity. There's no moment of epiphany you'll have after getting your dick wet. Nothing changes. Your life will still be miserable you might get a temporary high and confidence boost of touching a woman but that high fades rather quickly. What does matter is who you loose your virginity too and how you do it.

Rushing with the wrong girl or in the wrong situation can leave you feeling emptier than before. Sex by itself is a very intimate and vulnerable act and losing it to someone you don't love and respect can deeply scar your self esteem and confidence so pick this wisely. Don't pick the first woman and plunge your dick inside her. Build up options and pick the one you genuinely love

Ideally this has to be another virgin and you both can take each others virginities. This is the healthiest way to go about it. That mutual inexperience means less judgments and less ego involved. This is the best way to lose your virginity



If you don't have the opportunity for a virgin that's not ideal but still fine. What matters is. Does she have feelings for you? Does she love you? Will she just lay down like a dead fish and you have to do the work or will she enthusiastically engage in it. Will she cuddle with you after sex or kick you to curb after she satisfied her lust

All this is what will determine if you leave losing your virginity with satification feeling loved and desired or getting humiliated and degraded. Strictly avoid whores and dismissive bitchy women. Don't make the mistake I did.

Avoid women whose only motivation is calming her hormones and scratching the itch. The ones addicted to attention from OnlyFans, Instagram, or rotating through guys will make you feel used and worthless afterward. That emotional void is already bad but it hits ever harder when it's your first time. Pick someone who sees you as more than just a dick and a warm body.

View attachment 4870295

If you're uncircumcised your first time can come with extra challenges because the glans is naturally more sensitive. It's been protected by the foreskin its whole life so contact will feel painful. Try stretching your foreskin in shower everyday until you are comfortable leaving it out in the open and masturbate. Masturbate with the foreskin pulled back sometimes to build some tolerance gradually.

View attachment 4870300

You can also use gels to desensitize. Also take viagra or cilias as a preventive thing. Nothing more humiliating than losing an erection.

View attachment 4870305View attachment 4870307

Also for your first time go slow as fuck. No need to try any porn star tier fucking you've seen. Also use plenty of water based lubes wear a condom. Your first time probably won't be amazing fireworks but if you follow these steps it can be enjoyable and non traumatizing and actually feel good.

TLDR- 1) Being virgin between 18-21 normal.2)Timing not important as much as your partner who takes
3) Avoid whores and dead fish energy choose enthusiasm and real feelings.
4) Go in with preparation lube, desensitize, pills if needed and temper your expectations and go slow.

inb4 BOTB :ICANT:
 
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First things first: It is 100% normal to still be a virgin between 18 and 21. Anyone who tells you otherwise is coping or straight up retarded. A lot of guys and even quite a few girls beleive it or not in this age range haven't gone all the way yet. May not always be full blown KVs like maybe did some fooling around but haven't gone full 9 yards.

View attachment 4870278

Yes there are always early birds who lost it in high school or even earlier but that doesn't make the rest of you weird or broken. The stats and real life both show this is extremely common especially among NDs who aren't chasing every party or social circle like it's their full time job. You as a late teen and young adult have a bigger priorities in life and if putting your dick inside a hole is your number 1 priority then you need re evaluate your life.

View attachment 4870282

It only starts becoming a genuine problem imo if you're deep into your mid to late 20s with zero progress. That's when the gap can widen and the mental toll gets too heavy.

One more thing to address. Don't rush on losing your virginity. There's no moment of epiphany you'll have after getting your dick wet. Nothing changes. Your life will still be miserable you might get a temporary high and confidence boost of touching a woman but that high fades rather quickly. What does matter is who you loose your virginity too and how you do it.

Rushing with the wrong girl or in the wrong situation can leave you feeling emptier than before. Sex by itself is a very intimate and vulnerable act and losing it to someone you don't love and respect can deeply scar your self esteem and confidence so pick this wisely. Don't pick the first woman and plunge your dick inside her. Build up options and pick the one you genuinely love

Ideally this has to be another virgin and you both can take each others virginities. This is the healthiest way to go about it. That mutual inexperience means less judgments and less ego involved. This is the best way to lose your virginity



If you don't have the opportunity for a virgin that's not ideal but still fine. What matters is. Does she have feelings for you? Does she love you? Will she just lay down like a dead fish and you have to do the work or will she enthusiastically engage in it. Will she cuddle with you after sex or kick you to curb after she satisfied her lust

All this is what will determine if you leave losing your virginity with satification feeling loved and desired or getting humiliated and degraded. Strictly avoid whores and dismissive bitchy women. Don't make the mistake I did.

Avoid women whose only motivation is calming her hormones and scratching the itch. The ones addicted to attention from OnlyFans, Instagram, or rotating through guys will make you feel used and worthless afterward. That emotional void is already bad but it hits ever harder when it's your first time. Pick someone who sees you as more than just a dick and a warm body.

View attachment 4870295

If you're uncircumcised your first time can come with extra challenges because the glans is naturally more sensitive. It's been protected by the foreskin its whole life so contact will feel painful. Try stretching your foreskin in shower everyday until you are comfortable leaving it out in the open and masturbate. Masturbate with the foreskin pulled back sometimes to build some tolerance gradually.

View attachment 4870300

You can also use gels to desensitize. Also take viagra or cilias as a preventive thing. Nothing more humiliating than losing an erection.

View attachment 4870305View attachment 4870307

Also for your first time go slow as fuck. No need to try any porn star tier fucking you've seen. Also use plenty of water based lubes wear a condom. Your first time probably won't be amazing fireworks but if you follow these steps it can be enjoyable and non traumatizing and actually feel good.

TLDR- 1) Being virgin between 18-21 normal.2)Timing not important as much as your partner who takes
3) Avoid whores and dead fish energy choose enthusiasm and real feelings.
4) Go in with preparation lube, desensitize, pills if needed and temper your expectations and go slow.

won't need this, i plan to fuck a prostitute or sum
 
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1) Having sex with someone who isn't a virgin is abnormal. A girl should remain a virgin until marriage, unless she's some kind of disgusting effeminate person.

2)Lol why lose your virginity at all, a man without virginity is like a lion without a mane
Прежде всего: совершенно нормально оставаться девственником в возрасте от 18 до 21 года. Любой, кто говорит обратное, либо обманывает, либо просто идиот. Многие парни, и даже немало девушек, в этом возрасте ещё не дошли до конца. Возможно, это не всегда полноценные сексуальные отношения, например, немного пошалили, но ещё не дошли до конца.

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Да, всегда найдутся те, кто сошел с ума еще в старшей школе или даже раньше, но это не делает остальных странными или сломленными. Статистика и реальная жизнь показывают, что это чрезвычайно распространенное явление, особенно среди тех, кто не гонится за каждой вечеринкой или кругом общения, как за работой на полный рабочий день. У вас, как у подростка и молодого человека, есть более важные приоритеты в жизни, и если для вас на первом месте стоит засовывать свой член в отверстие, то вам нужно переосмыслить свою жизнь.

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На мой взгляд, настоящая проблема начинает возникать только в середине или конце двадцатых годов, когда нет никакого прогресса. Именно тогда разрыв может увеличиться, и психологическая нагрузка становится слишком тяжелой.

Ещё один момент, который стоит обсудить. Не спешите терять девственность. После того, как вы возбудитесь, у вас не будет никакого озарения. Ничего не изменится. Ваша жизнь по-прежнему будет несчастной, вы можете получить временное чувство эйфории и прилив уверенности от прикосновения к женщине, но это чувство довольно быстро пройдёт. Важно то, с кем вы потеряете девственность и как вы это сделаете.

Спешка с неподходящей девушкой или в неподходящей ситуации может оставить вас с чувством опустошения. Секс сам по себе — очень интимный и уязвимый акт, и потерять его с человеком, которого вы не любите и не уважаете, может глубоко ранить вашу самооценку и уверенность в себе, поэтому выбирайте с умом. Не выбирайте первую попавшуюся женщину и не вонзайте в неё свой член. Расширьте свой выбор и выберите ту, которую вы искренне любите.

В идеале это должен быть другой девственник, и вы оба можете лишить друг друга девственности. Это самый здоровый подход. Взаимная неопытность означает меньше осуждений и меньше эгоизма. Это лучший способ потерять девственность.



Если у вас нет возможности заняться сексом с девственницей, это не идеально, но всё равно нормально. Важно другое: испытывает ли она к вам чувства? Любит ли она вас? Будет ли она просто лежать как дохлая рыба, и вам придётся всё делать самой, или же она с энтузиазмом примет в этом участие? Будет ли она обниматься с вами после секса или вышвырнет вас вон после удовлетворения своей похоти?

Всё это определит, почувствуете ли вы себя любимой и желанной после потери девственности или же будете унижены и оскорблены. Строго избегайте проституток и пренебрежительных, сварливых женщин. Не повторяйте моей ошибки.

Избегайте женщин, единственная мотивация которых — успокоить гормоны и удовлетворить свои сексуальные желания. Те, кто зависим от внимания на OnlyFans, Instagram или от постоянной смены парней, заставят вас почувствовать себя использованным и никчемным. Эта эмоциональная пустота и так неприятна, но она становится еще сильнее, когда это происходит впервые. Выберите ту, кто видит в вас нечто большее, чем просто член и теплое тело.

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Если вы не обрезаны, ваш первый раз может быть сопряжен с дополнительными трудностями, потому что головка полового члена от природы более чувствительна. Она всю жизнь была защищена крайней плотью, поэтому контакт с ней будет болезненным. Попробуйте растягивать крайнюю плоть в душе каждый день, пока не почувствуете себя комфортно, оставляя ее открытой, и мастурбируйте. Иногда мастурбируйте с оттянутой крайней плотью, чтобы постепенно выработать толерантность.

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Также можно использовать гели для снижения чувствительности. В качестве профилактики можно принимать виагру или реснички. Нет ничего более унизительного, чем потеря эрекции.

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Также, если вы делаете это в первый раз, делайте это очень медленно. Не нужно пытаться заниматься сексом, как это делают порнозвезды. Используйте много смазки на водной основе и надевайте презерватив. Ваш первый раз, вероятно, не будет потрясающим фейерверком, но если вы будете следовать этим шагам, это может быть приятно, не травмирующе и даже приятно.

Вкратце: 1) Быть девственником в возрасте от 18 до 21 года – это нормально. 2) Время не так важно, как то, кто занимается сексом с партнером.
3) Избегайте проституток и энергии дохлой рыбы, выбирайте энтузиазм и настоящие чувства.
4) Подготовьтесь, используя смазку, проведите десенсибилизацию, при необходимости примите таблетки, снизьте свои ожидания и действуйте медленно.
 
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great thread but this girl ik that i was somewhat interested in got fingered now i dont wanna fuck her u think im too bitchy abt it :feelswat: i could make it go somewhere but after the incident idk
I can't assess and tell you what to do. Do what you like and do what makes you happy?
 
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Ourside west it's impossible to lose innocence before marriage unless escort or sum
 
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I can't assess and tell you what to do. Do what you like and do what makes you happy?
thats my issue idk what to do:feelscry: it already feels over and done with but i still have somewhat feelings for her still, i mean at the end of the day all shes ever done sexually is gotten fingered so should i stop being a whiny bitch
 
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Ourside west it's impossible to lose innocence before marriage unless escort or sum
turkey has some of lowest ages of people losing their virginity
 
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NZK but ill bookmark just incase its a good thread
 
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I'm not turkish, I mean I'm flattered, but I'm not. Why does everyone think I'm Turkish??
We all know what you are doing with that avi and your turanid glaze
 
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First things first: It is 100% normal to still be a virgin between 18 and 21. Anyone who tells you otherwise is coping or straight up retarded. A lot of guys and even quite a few girls beleive it or not in this age range haven't gone all the way yet. May not always be full blown KVs like maybe did some fooling around but haven't gone full 9 yards.

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Yes there are always early birds who lost it in high school or even earlier but that doesn't make the rest of you weird or broken. The stats and real life both show this is extremely common especially among NDs who aren't chasing every party or social circle like it's their full time job. You as a late teen and young adult have a bigger priorities in life and if putting your dick inside a hole is your number 1 priority then you need re evaluate your life.

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It only starts becoming a genuine problem imo if you're deep into your mid to late 20s with zero progress. That's when the gap can widen and the mental toll gets too heavy.

One more thing to address. Don't rush on losing your virginity. There's no moment of epiphany you'll have after getting your dick wet. Nothing changes. Your life will still be miserable you might get a temporary high and confidence boost of touching a woman but that high fades rather quickly. What does matter is who you loose your virginity too and how you do it.

Rushing with the wrong girl or in the wrong situation can leave you feeling emptier than before. Sex by itself is a very intimate and vulnerable act and losing it to someone you don't love and respect can deeply scar your self esteem and confidence so pick this wisely. Don't pick the first woman and plunge your dick inside her. Build up options and pick the one you genuinely love

Ideally this has to be another virgin and you both can take each others virginities. This is the healthiest way to go about it. That mutual inexperience means less judgments and less ego involved. This is the best way to lose your virginity



If you don't have the opportunity for a virgin that's not ideal but still fine. What matters is. Does she have feelings for you? Does she love you? Will she just lay down like a dead fish and you have to do the work or will she enthusiastically engage in it. Will she cuddle with you after sex or kick you to curb after she satisfied her lust

All this is what will determine if you leave losing your virginity with satification feeling loved and desired or getting humiliated and degraded. Strictly avoid whores and dismissive bitchy women. Don't make the mistake I did.

Avoid women whose only motivation is calming her hormones and scratching the itch. The ones addicted to attention from OnlyFans, Instagram, or rotating through guys will make you feel used and worthless afterward. That emotional void is already bad but it hits ever harder when it's your first time. Pick someone who sees you as more than just a dick and a warm body.

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If you're uncircumcised your first time can come with extra challenges because the glans is naturally more sensitive. It's been protected by the foreskin its whole life so contact will feel painful. Try stretching your foreskin in shower everyday until you are comfortable leaving it out in the open and masturbate. Masturbate with the foreskin pulled back sometimes to build some tolerance gradually.

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You can also use gels to desensitize. Also take viagra or cilias as a preventive thing. Nothing more humiliating than losing an erection.

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Also for your first time go slow as fuck. No need to try any porn star tier fucking you've seen. Also use plenty of water based lubes wear a condom. Your first time probably won't be amazing fireworks but if you follow these steps it can be enjoyable and non traumatizing and actually feel good.

TLDR- 1) Being virgin between 18-21 normal.2)Timing not important as much as your partner who takes
3) Avoid whores and dead fish energy choose enthusiasm and real feelings.
4) Go in with preparation lube, desensitize, pills if needed and temper your expectations and go slow.

step one
be mmtn+
have money
6 feet+
nt
 
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tannor stage 67 btw and like 0 friends :feelsrope:
Tanner stage means puberty development right? I was tanner stage 3.5 when I made an account here. I was late bloomer
 
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Solid tips. A note to add is that if you're going to do it via an escort, then make sure to pay good money (no cheap bs) and do it in a good hotspot, otherwise there is a huge chance of fucking it up.
 
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