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sooo i got a date on sunday with one of the girls i made out with at the club, we didnt do much speaking due to the 110 decibal music but when we did i wasnt overly great at making conversation. Now that were going to an auctual date to get food n shit im going to have to speak like alot. I do have basic social skills but thats about it i know some basics like 60/40 let her speak most since foids love to self glaze and to ask questions about herself. But with the homies it comes natrual you kinda just speak about whats up in the moment idk how im going to go with a girl especially since im not good with awkard silence and i dont want to bore her and make her think im just going out with her for sex. Which is why im going out.
 
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i dont want to bore her and make her think im just going out with her for sex. Which is why im going out.
was going to clown you for trying to find a girlfriend at a club
 
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as long as she doesn't think your nd it doesn't matter what you talk about, just say generic shit
 
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was going to clown you for trying to find a girlfriend at a club
this is kinda pathethic ngl, as long as shes not a slut this foids bodycount is 2 does it really matter where you meet them as long as there bad asf?
 
Show up, order a tremendous amount of food, then hand her the bill. Chicks love a hard-to-get fella.
 
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sooo i got a date on sunday with one of the girls i made out with at the club, we didnt do much speaking due to the 110 decibal music but when we did i wasnt overly great at making conversation. Now that were going to an auctual date to get food n shit im going to have to speak like alot. I do have basic social skills but thats about it i know some basics like 60/40 let her speak most since foids love to self glaze and to ask questions about herself. But with the homies it comes natrual you kinda just speak about whats up in the moment idk how im going to go with a girl especially since im not good with awkard silence and i dont want to bore her and make her think im just going out with her for sex. Which is why im going out.
Mostly ask questions, people love to talk about themselves.
 
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as long as she doesn't think your nd it doesn't matter what you talk about, just say generic shit
how does one be NT while being highly ND without a stimulant, my pregab is late :feelswhy:
Show up, order a tremendous amount of food, then hand her the bill. Chicks love a hard-to-get fella.
believeable with that rep to post ratio
 
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cringe
 
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this is kinda pathethic ngl, as long as shes not a slut this foids bodycount is 2 does it really matter where you meet them as long as there bad asf?
you kinda just contradicted yourself, if you only want sex what does it matter if her bodycount is high?
 
you kinda just contradicted yourself, if you only want sex what does it matter if her bodycount is high?
because i can be a slut she cant, its the princess theory
 
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you kinda just contradicted yourself, if you only want sex what does it matter if her bodycount is high?
also how are you calling me pathetic when you're on a forum asking how to talk to women on a date:forcedsmile:
 
also how are you calling me pathetic when you're on a forum asking how to talk to women on a date:forcedsmile:
Difference of having subhuman social skills, and a sub human world view

You see women as objects for sex since your incel.

I see all women as possible partners or fuck buddies depending on personailty.
 
Difference of having subhuman social skills, and a sub human world view
I thought not looking for long-term relationships with women at clubs that will make out with you before having a conversation was common sense, sorry
 
I thought not looking for long-term relationships with women at clubs that will make out with you before having a conversation was common sense, sorry
no one said this i literally said in the orignal post i just want to fuck her again :lul:. Obviously at a club im NT and drunk you cant do that shit on an auctual date setting and enviroment is different one has to adapt to stay the fittest in the wild. if there were clubs running everynight i would be slaying everynight where i live theres hardly any events.
 
Just be your self:):)
 
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no one said this i literally said in the orignal post i just want to fuck her again :lul:. Obviously at a club im NT and drunk you cant do that shit on an auctual date setting and enviroment is different one has to adapt to stay the fittest in the wild.
as long as shes not a slut this foids bodycount is 2 does it really matter where you meet them as long as there bad asf?
you literally were saying it doesn't matter where you meet women, which it does
 
Or js larp about sm bs like what your doing in your life eg education hobbies
 
you literally were saying it doesn't matter where you meet women, which it does
care to explain? Whats the difference of meeting a woman through school,clubbing,skatepark,any public event at the end of the day its just a social gathering none the less just different reasons of being there im auctually so confused by your statement here
 
care to explain? Whats the difference of meeting a woman through school,clubbing,skatepark,any public event at the end of the day its just a social gathering none the less just different reasons of being there im auctually so confused by your statement here
different reasons of being there
you explained it, different reasons for being there. what do you think the difference is between a woman that spends her time at the gym or a park vs a woman that clubs every other night?
 
you explained it, different reasons for being there. what do you think the difference is between a woman that spends her time at the gym or a park vs a woman that clubs every other night?
ts is retarded asf, so are you a shinigami and see what niggas do all day? JFLLLL. If you auctually went outside and socialised you would realise not every foid is just tryna slay as many guys as possible unlike us forum rotters are. Yes many foids do that but hence you select the non slutty ones but i honestly DGAF a foid is a foid htb> could have 80 bodies im still tapping if that BW is clean.
 
ts is retarded asf, so are you a shinigami and see what niggas do all day? JFLLLL. If you auctually went outside and socialised you would realise not every foid is just tryna slay as many guys as possible unlike us forum rotters are. Yes many foids do that but hence you select the non slutty ones but i honestly DGAF a foid is a foid htb> could have 80 bodies im still tapping if that BW is clean.
as long as shes not a slut this foids bodycount is 2
caught in a contradiction again, do you like slutty foids or not:forcedsmile:
 
sooo i got a date on sunday with one of the girls i made out with at the club, we didnt do much speaking due to the 110 decibal music but when we did i wasnt overly great at making conversation. Now that were going to an auctual date to get food n shit im going to have to speak like alot. I do have basic social skills but thats about it i know some basics like 60/40 let her speak most since foids love to self glaze and to ask questions about herself. But with the homies it comes natrual you kinda just speak about whats up in the moment idk how im going to go with a girl especially since im not good with awkard silence and i dont want to bore her and make her think im just going out with her for sex. Which is why im going out.
Approach interactions with genuine interest and respect. Instead of relying on specific scripts, focus on active listening and thoughtful responses. When someone is speaking, give them your full attention, making eye contact and using brief, encouraging interjections to show you're engaged. Don't be afraid of moments of silence; use them to observe and reflect, which can make subsequent conversation feel more meaningful. When asking questions, aim to understand the other person's perspective or feelings rather than just gathering facts. Speak clearly and considerately, allowing your genuine thoughts and appreciation to guide the conversation. Good manners and chivalry can create a positive and respectful atmosphere, making the other person feel valued and important.

Austin Butler is what you want to sound like, I put a link below so you can understand how to make valuable conversations copy his mannerisms etc, the pause before reply and yah

 
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