How to make friends?

[User49]

I don’t have a single friend and it’s driving me insane

 

[Deleted member 24278]

By becoming more NT

 

[User49]

By becoming more NT

I am NT.

I just don’t like most people, i miss my old friend group everyday tbh.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000000]

if you have normal experiences then just talk to people, what's the big deal

the only problem is when you're a giga incel because it's impossible to relate to ppl who've been fucking since they were in middle school

 

[User49]

if you have normal experiences then just talk to people, what's the big deal

the only problem is when you're a giga incel because it's impossible to relate to ppl who've been fucking since they were in middle school

I don’t have any hobbies, i just talk to classmates about school stuff. some reach out to me after school but i don’t like them tbh

 

[turbocuckcel_7000000]

I don’t have any hobbies, i just talk to classmates about school stuff. some reach out to me after school but i don’t like them tbh

ok well whatever you do try to match with people who really like you too, because when i was in school i tried to talk to the smartest/coolest/etc ppl and while they sort of accepted me they didn't become my real friends and we didn't hang out much outside of school, so it was basically a waste of time in the end

 

[User49]

ok well whatever you do try to match with people who really like you too, because when i was in school i tried to talk to the smartest/coolest/etc ppl and while they sort of accepted me they didn't become my friends and we didn't hang out much outside of school, so it was basically a waste of time in the end

it’s done for me. I will never have my old friend groups back.

 

[Splinter901]

it’s done for me. I will never have my old friend groups back.

What if you just contact them back?

 

[User49]

What if you just contact them back?

psl autism has made me think they’ll judge my recessed chin, after being blackpilled it’s just brutal talking to chad friends. i can’t believe they’re genuinely happy just travelling and fucking

 

[Deleted member 15067]

Start a convo with people and make a joke and after the convo ask for their social media that’s what works

 

[User49]

Start a convo with people and make a joke and after the convo ask for their social media that’s what works

i deleted my social media after going insane and thinking i need to cut everyone off

 

[Deleted member 15067]

i deleted my social media after going insane and thinking i need to cut everyone off

Damn bro icl it’s gonna be weird if u make a new one with barely any followers but it’s fine make a new acocunt and say ur old one got hacked

 

[User49]

Damn bro icl it’s gonna be weird if u make a new one with barely any followers but it’s fine make a new acocunt and say ur old one got hacked

just broke down in the shower and started crying. It’s just over for me, i’m beyond recovery.

I think my mom dying when i was 4 has made me incapable of love, i don’t know how it truly feels. I feel empty

 

[Deleted member 15067]

just broke down in the shower and started crying. It’s just over for me, i’m beyond recovery.

I think my mom dying when i was 4 has made me incapable of love, i don’t know how it truly feels. I feel empty

Please boyo carry on. What are you in school? It’s too early to say if it’s over for you or not way too early sorry about your mother as well thats messed up

 

[User49]

Please boyo carry on. What are you in school? It’s too early to say if it’s over for you or not way too early sorry about your mother as well thats messed up

yea i’m in hs. No real friends, no hobbies, no ambition, no relationship. It’s done

 

[Deleted member 15067]

yea i’m in hs. No real friends, no hobbies, no ambition, no relationship. It’s done

Looked through ur post history and we were in the exact same position a year ago honestly I was going insane and missing my old friend group. I made a post here ranting about ending it but that’s an exaggeration university was literally a life changer for me most likely it will recover back to before where suddenly I made lots of friends and got female attention so hold on because I was thinking the same earlier as well

 

[User49]

Looked through ur post history and we were in the exact same position a year ago honestly I was going insane and missing my old friend group. I made a post here ranting about ending it but that’s an exaggeration university was literally a life changer for me most likely it will recover back to before where suddenly I made lots of friends and got female attention so hold on because I was thinking the same earlier as well

yea man, i have a bit of money ima blow on surgery too. i don’t really care and i don’t know what else to do with this money (inheritance). i might travel a bit too. Idk. Life sucks man hopefully college is a game changer, or i’ll just rope

 

[7zyzz7]

some reach out to me after school but i don’t like them tbh

Dude are you a fucking idiot? You have people reaching out to hang out with you? Just Look at those invitations as opportunities to do something and meet new people. If you want to make friends you have to put yourself out there in every opportunity. If a Random guy from school is asking you to hang out? then go. doesn't matter if hes not as "cool" as your old friend group. You have to put yourself out there at every possible opportunity without being judgmental and just talk to people then you will eventually meet people as chill and cool as your old friend group.
"Judge not, that you may not be judged," -Matthew, 7

 

[User49]

Dude are you a fucking idiot? You have people reaching out to hang out with you? Just Look at those invitations as opportunities to do something and meet new people. If you want to make friends you have to put yourself out there in every opportunity. If a Random guy from school is asking you to hang out? then go. doesn't matter if hes not as "cool" as your old friend group. You have to put yourself out there at every possible opportunity without being judgmental and just talk to people then you will eventually meet people as chill and cool as your old friend group.
"Judge not, that you may not be judged," -Matthew, 7

no they just message me sometimes. maybe once every 3 months but not to hangout. those “friends” are people who never leave their house

 

[Deleted member 15067]

Dude are you a fucking idiot? You have people reaching out to hang out with you? Just Look at those invitations as opportunities to do something and meet new people. If you want to make friends you have to put yourself out there in every opportunity. If a Random guy from school is asking you to hang out? then go. doesn't matter if hes not as "cool" as your old friend group. You have to put yourself out there at every possible opportunity without being judgmental and just talk to people then you will eventually meet people as chill and cool as your old friend group.
"Judge not, that you may not be judged," -Matthew, 7

100% correct bro i fucked up so many opportunities BECAUSE I THOUGHT EXACTLY LIKE THIS ONCE. Then those people ended up growing a social circle with so many others and I was simply not part of it and watched from the sidelines. Hang out with them bro

 

[User49]

100% correct bro i fucked up so many opportunities BECAUSE I THOUGHT EXACTLY LIKE THIS ONCE. Then those people ended up growing a social circle with so many others and I was simply not part of it and watched from the sidelines. Hang out with them bro

They don’t even do anything, they just play video games u can’t even hang out with them

and study all day

 

[Deleted member 15067]

yea man, i have a bit of money ima blow on surgery too. i don’t really care and i don’t know what else to do with this money (inheritance). i might travel a bit too. Idk. Life sucks man hopefully college is a game changer, or i’ll just rope

Don’t blow on surgery bro it’s all mental and surgery can make you look worse after as well

 

[User49]

Don’t blow on surgery bro it’s all mental and surgery can make you look worse after as well

it’s not all mental, i’ve dug way too deep into aesthetics, more than 99% of users here, which is also a reason for my depression, i’ll never be enough. and anyway i have bite problems

 

[Deleted member 15067]

They don’t even do anything, they just play video games u can’t even hang out with them

and study all day

It’s better than nothing any social activity mogs nothing trust me. I thought of people like this as losers and turns out they randomly had another friend group I could’ve gotten to know

 

[User49]

It’s better than nothing any social activity mogs nothing trust me. I thought of people like this as losers and turns out they randomly had another friend group I could’ve gotten to know

you misunderstood what i meant by them messaging me, they just ask something about homework sometimes or happy new year. I didn’t get a single message on my birthday last year tho. It’s done. i’m a nobody. People don’t even n’oit ice when i don’t show up to school

 

[Deleted member 15067]

you misunderstood what i meant by them messaging me, they just ask something about homework sometimes or happy new year. I didn’t get a single message on my birthday last year tho. It’s done. i’m a nobody. People don’t even n’oit ice when i don’t show up to school

One thing I learnt is you also have to make an effort. If they start a convo with u start more with them back then it’s grows from there

 

[7zyzz7]

Life sucks man hopefully college is a game changer, or i’ll just rope

LMFAO you still in fucking high school man are you fucking retarded? You litterally have 2000 people of the same age range in your proximity for 8 hours, just litterally talk to someone, sounds like you have confidence issues stemming from an energy deficiency, you should fix your diet and listen to positive music and do things you enjoy instead of rotting and maybe you can change your frame of mind and chillout and not be a sperg in class and talk to some people. Trust me man I went through the same shit as you, If you think its over in high school itll just get 100x worse in college if you keep that mentality. Why wait to begin your life in college?

 

[7zyzz7]

you misunderstood what i meant by them messaging me, they just ask something about homework sometimes or happy new year. I didn’t get a single message on my birthday last year tho. It’s done. i’m a nobody. People don’t even n’oit ice when i don’t show up to school

Ok, its done. What now? are you man enough to rope?

 

[User49]

LMFAO you still in fucking high school man are you fucking retarded? You litterally have 2000 people of the same age range in your proximity for 8 hours, just litterally talk to someone, sounds like you have confidence issues stemming from an energy deficiency, you should fix your diet and listen to positive music and do things you enjoy instead of rotting and maybe you can change your frame of mind and chillout and not be a sperg in class and talk to some people. Trust me man I went through the same shit as you, If you think its over in high school itll just get 100x worse in college if you keep that mentality. Why wait to begin your life in college?

no i don’t lol. It doesn’t work like that where i’m from. You go to class with the same 28 people. I dont know anyone in this class and i’ve been with them for 2 years and have one year left now

 

[User49]

Ok, its done. What now? are you man enough to rope?

just gonna ldar and eat fast food

 

[7zyzz7]

just gonna ldar and eat fast food

pussy

 

[7zyzz7]

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[Deleted member 15067]

no i don’t lol. It doesn’t work like that where i’m from. You go to class with the same 28 people. I dont know anyone in this class and i’ve been with them for 2 years and have one year left now

It will be waaaay easier in college and that’s because no one knows eachother unlike in HS where there have been friendships for years. I literally had to try to not make friends the first week of college everyone is nice and willing to talk and I’m naturally socially anxious and high inhibition as well

 

[User49]

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idc if i die

 

[7zyzz7]

So theres 28 people in your entire grade level at your high school what shit is this? If youre so based and redpilled and looksmaxxed pill then you should just try to become a clever class clown and have some fun. Stop being a fucking sperg lmfao. Just rant about the jews and hitler in class and debate the girl with blue hair on abortion, be controversial draw attention to yourself. lol

 

[User49]

So theres 28 people in your entire grade level at your high school what shit is this? If youre so based and redpilled and looksmaxxed pill then you should just try to become a clever class clown and have some fun. Stop being a fucking sperg lmfao. Just rant about the jews and hitler in class and debate the girl with blue hair on abortion, be controversial draw attention to yourself. lol

they’re leftist asf. all boys school aswell. and yes i never meet anyone except these 28 people

 

[Deleted member 23218]

I had friend in hoghscool but none in college I rejects invitations to parties freshman year cause I was too high inhib. I have ascended a decent amount since then but I am a lot more autistic. I have no friends don’t be like me op, it’s already brutally over for me

 

[7zyzz7]

I had friend in hoghscool but none in college I rejects invitations to parties freshman year cause I was too high inhib. I have ascended a decent amount since then but I am a lot more autistic. I have no friends don’t be like me op, it’s already brutally over for me

He's realize this when its too late

 

[7zyzz7]

they’re leftist asf. all boys school aswell. and yes i never meet anyone except these 28 people

Damn no friends at an all boys school you must be fucking ugly and autistic as fuck, its ovER just end it man im sorry

 

[Deleted member 23218]

He's realize this when its too late

Sophomore year it’s too late, not possible to run social circle game because most cliques are formed the first few months. Only thing I can do is become a mogger.

 

[7zyzz7]

Sophomore year it’s too late, not possible to run social circle game because most cliques ar ends win the first few months. Only thing I can do is become a mogger.

I just graduated college, similar position as you, im not ugly but im not a mogger either, Im goffypilled and based IRL and im low inhib when it comes to talking to dudes, I had a lot of dudes reach out to me all throughout college but I denied them. Its really brutal man, I litterally could have ascended on the NT pill alone if I accepted their invitations to parties and just talked to a few girls and practiced. Now that Ive graduated college and I have nothing to do I jsut eat my meals and bodybuilding and I just day dream about axeing people to death like in gore videos. Its really a terible state to be in I wish I didnt have this much hatred but this is the end result of severe social isolation. I literally had cool frat bros begging me to hang out with them cause I would have deep conversations with them on philosophy politics religion and I was an all around cool guy but I thought it was so over in my head beacuse I was balding then I became to high inhib to even talk to guys. Nobody even ever called me ugly but I had it in my head it was over so it really was over. Now ive become to low inhib I litterally dancing in public to hardstyle music and talking to everyone and making eye contact and ever girls but its over beacuse I cant find any ways to make friends.

 

[User49]

Damn no friends at an all boys school you must be fucking ugly and autistic as fuck, its ovER just end it man im sorry

not autistic or ugly

 

[7zyzz7]

not autistic or ugly

sounds like cope

 

[User49]

sounds like cope

I used to have a large friend group and i don’t struggle on tinder.

There’s a lot of people who regret going to all boys school like i did, the people are weird

 

[7zyzz7]

i deleted my social media after going insane and thinking i need to cut everyone off

psl autism has made me think they’ll judge my recessed chin, after being blackpilled it’s just brutal talking to chad friends. i can’t believe they’re genuinely happy just travelling and fucking

bro i was in this exact position but I was balding brutally and I could never look people the same.

 

[7zyzz7]

I used to have a large friend group and i don’t struggle on tinder.

you dont struggle on tinder? then why do you need friends?

 

[User49]

you dont struggle on tinder? then why do you need friends?

incel retard. it’s not like it’s easy either but it’s not incel tier. Does Amnesia seem happy to you

 

[7zyzz7]

incel retard. it’s not like it’s easy either but it’s not incel tier. Does Amnesia seem happy to you

Spoiler

 

[Deleted member 23218]

I just graduated college, similar position as you, im not ugly but im not a mogger either, Im goffypilled and based IRL and im low inhib when it comes to talking to dudes, I had a lot of dudes reach out to me all throughout college but I denied them. Its really brutal man, I litterally could have ascended on the NT pill alone if I accepted their invitations to parties and just talked to a few girls and practiced. Now that Ive graduated college and I have nothing to do I jsut eat my meals and bodybuilding and I just day dream about axeing people to death like in gore videos. Its really a terible state to be in I wish I didnt have this much hatred but this is the end result of severe social isolation. I literally had cool frat bros begging me to hang out with them cause I would have deep conversations with them on philosophy politics religion and I was an all around cool guy but I thought it was so over in my head beacuse I was balding then I became to high inhib to even talk to guys. Nobody even ever called me ugly but I had it in my head it was over so it really was over. Now ive become to low inhib I litterally dancing in public to hardstyle music and talking to everyone and making eye contact and ever girls but its over beacuse I cant find any ways to make friends.

I have similar experience I am curry but I was invited by frat bros to psrties but did not go. I was probably ltn then because looksminned by acne and bloat but I have ascended to 6’2.5 (frauded) mtn lightskin prettyboy fringe with hazel eyes (eye contact), but alas it is over because I have autism. I went to an all boys school I have rarely talked to a woman. Only thing I can do is gymcel, enlarge my penis to run bulge game, and run a supplement stack for redder undertones. I studycel in the meantime and if these don’t work I will fuck escorts

 

[Solar]

bro you are still in school

listen to me, you have to give it your best and try to find friends and get into a social circle no matter what

because after school it might be hard as fuck to find new people

im in the same situation except I moved to a different city after I finished hs, I had a good social circle I had to leave behind

now im rotting without friends