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works obviously only if you’re at least relatively good looking. if you’re ugly, the same behavior will just be perceived as creepy and forced
but there’s a difference between slaying and actually making yourself memorable enough that she starts obsessing over you
girls don’t fall in love with you, they fall in love with how they feel around you.
they want everything around them to reinforce their ego. having a very good looking boyfriend isn’t just “he’s attractive and i want to fuck him.” the bigger ego boost is “i actually got HIM.”
so figure out what kind of person she wants to be perceived as and compliment exactly that
if she wants to be a model, tell her she looks like a model. if she wants to be intelligent, notice something intelligent about her. if she wants to be mysterious, tell her she has that kind of aura
generic compliments are useless. you want her to think you actually see her
also don’t be available 24/7. talk to her, flirt, give her attention, then go do your own thing. disappear for a while and come back like nothing happened
the point is to make your attention feel valuable
eventually she starts associating you with feeling attractive, interesting and special
and that’s when she stops thinking “he’s hot”
and starts thinking
“why the fuck do i care so much about this guy?”
but there’s a difference between slaying and actually making yourself memorable enough that she starts obsessing over you
girls don’t fall in love with you, they fall in love with how they feel around you.
they want everything around them to reinforce their ego. having a very good looking boyfriend isn’t just “he’s attractive and i want to fuck him.” the bigger ego boost is “i actually got HIM.”
so figure out what kind of person she wants to be perceived as and compliment exactly that
if she wants to be a model, tell her she looks like a model. if she wants to be intelligent, notice something intelligent about her. if she wants to be mysterious, tell her she has that kind of aura
generic compliments are useless. you want her to think you actually see her
also don’t be available 24/7. talk to her, flirt, give her attention, then go do your own thing. disappear for a while and come back like nothing happened
the point is to make your attention feel valuable
eventually she starts associating you with feeling attractive, interesting and special
and that’s when she stops thinking “he’s hot”
and starts thinking
“why the fuck do i care so much about this guy?”