how to move out of abusive household with no money

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:( i think im fucked i genually dont know what to do i need tips ima prob be homeless
 
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Did you spend all your money on that Bimax??
 
Do you have a highschool diploma? Are you attending a university or college? How old are you? I need more info
no not in college. just turned 18. got 3k and 400$ coming in monthly fro mthis bussiness kinda thing im doing. Basically kinda part time work. I live in one of most expensive cities so it is impossible to rent. Im so fucked my plan is just to go in the woods or something and try survive.
 
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Get help from a family member or friend
i dont have any family, only parents. My moms side is ukrainian and my grandad is moving into the house too cuz of the war. As for family on my dads side they are all over europe i have no contact with them.

Any of my friends are living with their parents too, to just move into a friends house, i need his parents to allow , me his sister and i just feel like a dickhead doing that anyway, im not entitled to their shelter.
 
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Did you spend all your money on that Bimax??
No the bimax im splitting between mom and i was gonna pay her off and get work after bimax but now this shit happend im uncertain if the bimax will even happen at all. We were both gonna take out loans
 
i dont have any family, only parents. My moms side is ukrainian and my grandad is moving into the house too cuz of the war. As for family on my dads side they are all over europe i have no contact with them.

Any of my friends are living with their parents too, to just move into a friends house, i need his parents to allow , me his sister and i just feel like a dickhead doing that anyway, im not entitled to their shelter.
Im guessing ur family wont let u get a job?
 
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No the bimax im splitting between mom and i was gonna pay her off and get work after bimax but now this shit happend im uncertain if the bimax will even happen at all. We were both gonna take out loans
Huh, so getting surgery isn’t as easy as you were saying
 
Huh, so getting surgery isn’t as easy as you were saying
no it would 100% be done had this issue with my dad had not erose. None the less what ever happens as soon as i get shelter or this blows over bimax is my number 1 priority
 
no not in college. just turned 18. got 3k and 400$ coming in monthly fro mthis bussiness kinda thing im doing. Basically kinda part time work. I live in one of most expensive cities so it is impossible to rent. Im so fucked my plan is just to go in the woods or something and try survive.
Cool, what Business you doing?

If you’re decent looking, have already looksmaxxed i’d suggest finding a high rated party university in a state over, finding a major with job prospects like law, business, and applying. Should you get in, request student loans(saddle yourself in debt to escape theory) and go live on campus. Let your parents curse you, shame you, cut you off as narcissistic households will threaten to, but stay the course.

Once settled in dorms, begin socializing and attend the best frat’s rush. Try to get in, act neurotypical and you’ve secured yourself the next 4 years for partying, fun, lifelong memories and a degree that will allow you to be independent afterwards.

On the side pick up a part time job, look for ones on campus like IT support, Dorm watch, whatever as long as it pays. There’s your fun money.
 
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Im guessing ur family wont let u get a job?
dude i dont wanna fucking work in some disgusting mcdonalds full time in a shitty city until it gets dark, go thru the ringer with interviews, ive done this shit b4. I cant even socialize as it is im never gonna get work at this rate. Imagine going to a mcdonalds u work 12 to like 9, u need to take a train there in some disgusting unsafe metropolis. I dont know why the moment i turn 18 shit has to hit the fan, and i have to work a job so i can get a 1 room, get a career.

Fucking brutal man. I know this may be my fate, but only if im literally freezing on verge of death outside will I go get work for a 1 room apartment. I dont know why im meant to be working dead end jobs to just survive. At this point i have no interest living if thats my fate

This shit im doing doesnt require any of that thats the only reason i got a bit of cash flow.
 
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Try to get a job that also gives you a place to stay. Where I live it’s d2d sales, or going abroad and working like on a fishing boat etc
This is actual good advice. I dont think I'd get hired for that though? As in working on a trade convoy ship? Yeah man I might just have to do that. I just never dealt with any like shit as real as this, if im left with no option I will probably do this.

Fuck though man idk why as a 18 year old im probably gonna have to take up a job working with other ogres on a trade convoy ship or something
 
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dude i dont wanna fucking work in some disgusting mcdonalds full time in a shitty city until it gets dark, go thru the ringer with interviews, ive done this shit b4. I cant even socialize as it is im never gonna get work at this rate. Imagine going to a mcdonalds u work 12 to like 9, u need to take a train there in some disgusting unsafe metropolis. I dont know why the moment i turn 18 shit has to hit the fan, and i have to work a job so i can get a 1 room, get a career.

Fucking brutal man. I know this may be my fate, but only if im literally freezing on verge of death outside will I go get work for a 1 room apartment. I dont know why im meant to be working dead end jobs to just survive. At this point i have no interest living if thats my fate

This shit im doing doesnt require any of that thats the only reason i got a bit of cash flow.
I know that shit sounds ass and that u dont wanna live that way but tbh its the best option u have,u can try reselling fake airpods on marketplace,idk selling weed dude the most important part is just to make money.the good part in life is gonna come one day
 
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Cool, what Business you doing?

If you’re decent looking, have already looksmaxxed i’d suggest finding a high rated party university in a state over, finding a major with job prospects like law, business, and applying. Should you get in, request student loans(saddle yourself in debt to escape theory) and go live on campus. Let your parents curse you, shame you, cut you off as narcissistic households will threaten to, but stay the course.

Once settled in dorms, begin socializing and attend the best frat’s rush. Try to get in, act neurotypical and you’ve secured yourself the next 4 years for partying, fun, lifelong memories and a degree that will allow you to be independent afterwards.

On the side pick up a part time job, look for ones on campus like IT support, Dorm watch, whatever as long as it pays. There’s your fun money.
idk man im prob mtn at best and white i live in the Uk this campus shit just isnt real here, the education is much different. If it was like US colleges and shit in where u get ur own dorm, get friends like that its possible I''d do it, even then my social skills are literally pisspoor and have literally spent whole summer and now almost whole september neeting not leaving outside other than to do driving lessons.

theres no frats here bro its over lol
 
I know that shit sounds ass and that u dont wanna live that way but tbh its the best option u have,u can try reselling fake airpods on marketplace,idk selling weed dude the most important part is just to make money.the good part in life is gonna come one day
the good part may never come lol. And yes i do resellthats how i make 400-600 a month. Its quite easy, i just list shit, go to the post office and drop it off.
 
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This is actual good advice. I dont think I'd get hired for that though? As in working on a trade convoy ship? Yeah man I might just have to do that. I just never dealt with any like shit as real as this, if im left with no option I will probably do this.

Fuck though man idk why as a 18 year old im probably gonna have to take up a job working with other ogres on a trade convoy ship or something
I’m in the same position as you are pretty much. Will myself do d2d sales again, then during this time search for fishermen jobs in Norway. The pay in d2d usually isn’t the best if your not good but where I will work they pay for hotel and breakfast.

Then If you get lucky and you find a job that’s pays somewhat good salary or with commission then you won’t pay for any housing cost. As for me I won’t be paying any housing cost since they pay for hotel, and breakfast is included. Then the rest of the salary is for savings etc
 
the good part may never come lol. And yes i do resellthats how i make 400-600 a month. Its quite easy, i just list shit, go to the post office and drop it off.
what country do u live in
 
im 18 and last time my dad did soem shit was lay hands on my mom was months ago. I dont know how my mom will feel about that and im so high inhib to do that and my mom for some reason just doesnt wanna let it go (probably because she owns assets together with my dad like property) so she wants to stay together
 
im 18 and last time my dad did soem shit was lay hands on my mom was months ago. I dont know how my mom will feel about that and im so high inhib to do that and my mom for some reason just doesnt wanna let it go (probably because she owns assets together with my dad like property) so she wants to stay together
kill ur dad
 
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Do u go to uni?
no u go sixth form or college then uni. I went sixth form for some time but I just never ever liked it knew no one and it was so brutal, didnt have any interest studying the course, was like sub5 when i attended too, pisspoor social skills and ofc my parents will pin it on me being lazy or some shit
 
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no u go sixth form or college then uni. I went sixth form for some time but I just never ever liked it knew no one and it was so brutal, didnt have any interest studying the course, was like sub5 when i attended too, pisspoor social skills and ofc my parents will pin it on me being lazy or some shit
Well man i dont have much advice other than moving in with ur friend until u save up enough to have a good appartement and try to get back on ur feet from there,i wish u the best of luck
 
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Well man i dont have much advice other than moving in with ur friend until u save up enough to have a good appartement and try to get back on ur feet from there,i wish u the best of luck
true i dont know how niggas can even do all that. Ima prob just go into the forest , come back when dad is gone, finish my driving, get a car, then start sleeping in my car and shit and just find a nice spot.

Sounds way better than wageslaving, in that way i can save up money, operate my bussiness kinda thing more and hopefully earn like 1k a month and then get a bimax or some shit.
 
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i dont have any family, only parents. My moms side is ukrainian and my grandad is moving into the house too cuz of the war. As for family on my dads side they are all over europe i have no contact with them.

Any of my friends are living with their parents too, to just move into a friends house, i need his parents to allow , me his sister and i just feel like a dickhead doing that anyway, im not entitled to their shelter.
Brutal. I would offer you shelter but I live 2000 km away from you.
 
no not in college. just turned 18. got 3k and 400$ coming in monthly fro mthis bussiness kinda thing im doing. Basically kinda part time work. I live in one of most expensive cities so it is impossible to rent. Im so fucked my plan is just to go in the woods or something and try survive.
yeah going to the woods sounds real smart
 

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