How to not get friend zoned

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So I have this one mtb that I got close with and went on “two man” one time. We got kinda close but I feel like it was in the friend way. we didn’t itiniate any skinship or like anything romantic . This is my first girl I ever got close with so I don’t wanna fuck this up. I need help
 
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look good

be tall

be nt
 
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So I have this one mtb that I got close with and went on “two man” one time. We got kinda close but I feel like it was in the friend way. we didn’t itiniate any skinship or like anything romantic . This is my first girl I ever got close with so I don’t wanna fuck this up. I need help
Be more good looking and don’t act needy
 
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bro I look decent but am very nd

Bruh
if you looked decent enough you wouldn’t be getting friendzoned

you are most likely not ND, if you are just socially anxious then you need to find the root of that and fix it because social anxiety is not being ND, you’re still NT. if you are diagnosed with like autism that’s different
 
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if you looked decent enough you wouldn’t be getting friendzoned

you are most likely not ND, if you are just socially anxious then you need to find the root of that and fix it because social anxiety is not being ND, you’re still NT. if you are diagnosed with like autism that’s different
I’m not rlly anxious I act pretty weird around ppl but anyway I don’t even know if am getting friendzone cuz it’s the first girl I ever talk to. Is there are any hint or smt I should look for? Also yeah how do I know if she’s sees me as option or wtv
 
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by telling her how you feel about her right away instead of acting like a friend
 
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Like Js straight up telling her I like her?
yeah, if youre gonna act like you have friendship intentions she will assume you want to be friends lol
 
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yeah, if youre gonna act like you have friendship intentions she will assume you want to be friends l
Yeah u right. I was gonna ask her to like hang out will it be enough to like kind of hint her and like if she says yes does that mean she sees me as guy
 
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Yeah u right. I was gonna ask her to like hang out will it be enough to like kind of hint her and like if she says yes does that mean she sees me as guy
what do you mean by kind of hint her? give an example
 
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what do you mean by kind of hint her? give an example
I mean like by asking her to hangout with me, does it kinda shows my intention?
 
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I mean like by asking her to hangout with me, does it kinda shows my intention?
just ask her man she either wants you or she doesn't. sure you could get close and show her what a great guy you are but man let's be real, you don't want to end up in the friend zone. if she doesn't want you right away then it's just a waste of time. you should give her time tho, you could say your intentions and then tell her that you guys can get to really know eachother first, but she should know your intentions if you don't want to end up in the friendzone. and this way you won't waste any time
 
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just ask her man she either wants you or she doesn't. sure you could get close and show her what a great guy you are but man let's be real, you don't want to end up in the friend zone. if she doesn't want you right away then it's just a waste of time. you should give her time tho, you could say your intentions and then tell her that you guys can get to really know eachother first, but she should know your intentions if you don't want to end up in the friendzone. and this way you won't waste any time
Ohhh yeah fs u are fucking right appreciate it bro.
 
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no problem brother, I wish you best luck, tell me how it went once you tell her :HYPERSL:
Thanks man I’ll let u know u might have saved me from being a cuck
 
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Thanks man I’ll let u know u might have saved me from being a cuck
yeah honestly, being rejected is better than being friendzoned :feelswhy:
speaking from experience btw

tho remember, let her know that you guys can get to know eachother first and then she can decide, especially if she barley knows you
 
yeah honestly, being rejected is better than being friendzoned :feelswhy:
speaking from experience btw

tho remember, let her know that you guys can get to know eachother first and then she can decide, especially if she barley knows you
oh yh acctually we only hangout like once would it be better if we go on date and ask during the date?
 
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oh yh acctually we only hangout like once would it be better if we go on date and ask during the date?
yeah ask her to hang out and then tell her, hope everything goes well
 
You have to move quickly

And then once you get a yes, you can try to get married

If it’s a no, just move on and say “all good, man, have a nice life, I need to move on with - on to the next”
 

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