How to overcome rejection

[Deleted member 5927]

Shit hurts bruh lmao someone save me it’s a blow to ur ego and fucks up everything jfl

 

[turkproducer]

it would help if the situation was explained, because different advice is needed for different situations

completely different advice to take when you straight up approach like an autist and get laughed at for asking stacy out in HS, or when you fumbled an easy slay

 

[Deleted member 6538]

looksmax and approach girls who give you choosing signals. You can play numbers game now but it takes a toll on your self esteem. Have you roided? Did you get a full sleeve tattoo? No! Then looksmax

 

[Bignuts]

How did she reject you? Because from what i remember you're pretty autistic and probably took way too long to make a move.

 

[Deleted member 10524]

Didn’t you fuck around and talk to her all night without making a single move

 

[Deleted member 5927]

How did she reject you? Because from what i remember you're pretty autistic and probably took way too long to make a move.

That’s exactly what happens and now she’s mad dismissive of me. She won. Now she treats me like a friend

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Didn’t you fuck around and talk to her all night without making a single move

Yea dude. I had never chilled with a girl before. I’ll make a move next time, but it can’t be with this girl

 

[Bignuts]

That’s exactly what happens and now she’s mad dismissive of me. She won. Now she treats me like a friend

Dont talk to her. Be dismissive and act busy. Do this for a month or more. Dont be her friend or you'll totally fuck it forever.
Wait for her to reach out to you saying she likes you OR organise to meet her again, alone.
Whatever you do, dont hang around and be her friend

 

[Deleted member 11748]

Not surprised

 

[Deleted member 10524]

Yea dude. I had never chilled with a girl before. I’ll make a move next time, but it can’t be with this girl

Yea you’ll be alright just remember this next time, Dw about this one

 

[Bignuts]

Yea you’ll be alright just remember this next time, Dw about this one

Yeah actually just move on. Dont listen to what I wrote before. Just forget about her.

 

[ReverseNorwoodPill]

Dont talk to her. Be dismissive and act busy. Do this for a month or more. Dont be her friend or you'll totally fuck it forever.
Wait for her to reach out to you saying she likes you OR organise to meet her again, alone.
Whatever you do, dont hang around and be her friend

This

 

[Bignuts]

This

That's if he really wants her and likes her. If he just wants to get his dick wet then it would be easier to move on. Idk what hes thinking though

 

[Deleted member 7753]

just think of how much you dont have to prove to her, and how much she has to lose by rejecting you and going with chad

 

[MostGLSlayer]

I must have missed your recent posts, what happened and how did she reject you?
Just ghost her and distract yourself from her. Find something else to occupy yourself with and you’ll get over it quick since its not like some ltr, thats different

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Dont talk to her. Be dismissive and act busy. Do this for a month or more. Dont be her friend or you'll totally fuck it forever.
Wait for her to reach out to you saying she likes you OR organise to meet her again, alone.
Whatever you do, dont hang around and be her friend

Dude she’s fucked. She completely relies on all the guys around me to carry her around. The best part is, all of them are leaving. It’s just going to be me and her lmao. She has no other allies here. Nobody here even has a car. All of her orbiters are leaving. She’s fucked. I just found out today.

how should I play my cards from here? Ignore her and force her to start coming my way just because she has no other option?

 

[Bignuts]

Dude she’s fucked. She completely relies on all the guys around me to carry her around. The best part is, all of them are leaving. It’s just going to be me and her lmao. She has no other allies here. Nobody here even has a car. All of her orbiters are leaving. She’s fucked. I just found out today.

how should I play my cards from here? Ignore her and force her to start coming my way just because she has no other option?

Yes that's ideal. Make her come to you. Dont chase her, really is such a turn off to women (even if they claim it isnt)

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Yes that's ideal. Make her come to you. Dont chase her, really is such a turn off to women (even if they claim it isnt)

Ok but how do I recover this shit when she does come around? Is it even possible?

worst case scenario I can’t get this chick (most likely given how shit went, kinda went negative and i got visibly unhappy with her).

but worst case scenario i just end up “friends” with this chick. what do i do then? how can I get the most amount of experience out of this girl? im no longer enchanted by women anymore. i see them as humans now and can talk to them. but what else do i need social skills wise?

 

[Bignuts]

Ok but how do I recover this shit when she does come around? Is it even possible?

worst case scenario I can’t get this chick (most likely given how shit went, kinda went negative and i got visibly unhappy with her).

but worst case scenario i just end up “friends” with this chick. what do i do then? how can I get the most amount of experience out of this girl? im no longer enchanted by women anymore. i see them as humans now and can talk to them. but what else do i need social skills wise?

You need to be more forward with what you want. Despite what's said on this site, behaviour matters. You need to take charge and tell her what you want. Have you even tried to kiss her? Have you even told her you like her? What stage did you get with this girl?

 

[Deleted member 6475]

Heroin

 

[Deleted member 5927]

You need to be more forward with what you want. Despite what's said on this site, behaviour matters. You need to take charge and tell her what you want. Have you even tried to kiss her? Have you even told her you like her? What stage did you get with this girl?

I’m a dumbass. I never expressed interest despite her giving me literally over 50 chances. I can’t even list how many times she gave me opportunities. Maybe she just realized I’m inexperienced as fuck and never going to make a move, so she gave up. That’s probably exactly what it is. I can’t revive this shit.
How could I improve it next time? What the fuck does a man do I don’t understand. How do you just express interest and make shit work?