How to practice lowering inhibition

[autistic_tendencies]

-Life is a negotiation.
You get what you ask for in life, you just gotta ask in the proper way.
Practice negotiation with random people, your friends, sales clerks and you will become really comfortable getting your way in social situations
-Would also start looking at books to do with negotiation making

 

[Mess]

the lowest inhib I go is smoking lit cannot pass that threshold

 

[R@m@]

See everyone as an npc

 

[autistic_tendencies]

See everyone as an npc

You gotta be as if your above everyone else
They are your subordinates

 

[noodlelover]

-Life is a negotiation.
You get what you ask for in life, you just gotta ask in the proper way.
Practice negotiation with random people, your friends, sales clerks and you will become really comfortable getting your way in social situations
-Would also start looking at books to do with negotiation making

I use to believe this but now I believe life is more of an efficient market.

I've ready, many, many books on psychology, NLP, embedded commands, game, pickup, negotiation, "mind control", it all has minimal effect on people.

If you want a girlfriend, you have to be better than pretty much all her options as far as SMV (Looks, money, status). Even if she doesn't use dating apps, she's going to get hit on by a range of guys including Chads and rich guys, in her daily life, at the store, at the gym, at work, and when she's out with friends.

Charisma isn't useless, you can get small things, but anything big like a girlfriend, or making large amounts of money is heavily dependent on how much value you provide relative to all of the competition, and all of the phycological tricks have almost no effect.

Sorry for my dark perspective. I really believed there were "secrets" for so long, but no longer do.

 

[R@m@]

You gotta be as if your above everyone else
They are your subordinates

Do this with caution or you might go insane fr and completely lose you inhibition and think you can do everything

 

[Mosh12]

Be Indian

 

[autistic_tendencies]

I use to believe this but now I believe life is more of an efficient market.

I've ready, many, many books on psychology, NLP, embedded commands, game, pickup, negotiation, "mind control", it all has minimal effect on people.

If you want a girlfriend, you have to be better than pretty much all her options as far as SMV (Looks, money, status). Even if she doesn't use dating apps, she's going to get hit on by a range of guys including Chads and rich guys, in her daily life, at the store, at the gym, at work, and when she's out with friends.

Charisma isn't useless, you can get small things, but anything big like a girlfriend, or making large amounts of money is heavily dependent on how much value you provide relative to all of the competition, and all of the phycological tricks having almost no effect.

I’ve heard of NLP
So it’s also a cope
But yeah proximity theory is legit just be first

 

[User28823]

walk in public with this playing everyone will immediately gawk at such low inhib

 

[MaghrebGator]

I use to believe this but now I believe life is more of an efficient market.

I've ready, many, many books on psychology, NLP, embedded commands, game, pickup, negotiation, "mind control", it all has minimal effect on people.

If you want a girlfriend, you have to be better than pretty much all her options as far as SMV (Looks, money, status). Even if she doesn't use dating apps, she's going to get hit on by a range of guys including Chads and rich guys, in her daily life, at the store, at the gym, at work, and when she's out with friends.

Charisma isn't useless, you can get small things, but anything big like a girlfriend, or making large amounts of money is heavily dependent on how much value you provide relative to all of the competition, and all of the phycological tricks have almost no effect.

Sorry for my dark perspective. I really believed there were "secrets" for so long, but no longer do.

Have you finally tried vermicelli with milk and sugar/sweetener??

 

[Julian23]

Increase T

 

[noodlelover]

I’ve heard of NLP
So it’s also a cope

So... my current theory... as far as business and dating, is it's best to provide more "value" than your competition, and that beats out all phycological strategies, which you might as well use. Pacing and Leading, embedded commands, frame control, hoop theory, dhv, push-pull, etc.

But the real "trick" is knowing what the customers want. What is "value" to them. And knowing what the competition is offering.

It's hard in business, hard in friendships, and hard in dating because we're not mind readers, you can't trust what people say, and there's too many variables to definitively separate causation from correlation.

But it seems like people respond to certain things: single digit bodyfat, high-musclemass, square jaw, good skin, full head of hair, deep voice, signs of wealth and status, exotic appeal (Not the domient race or accent of the native population).

I've just used like every trick in the book on girls, only to get beaten by some social retard that was 2% leaner, or had 5% more muscle mass. Which has lead me to believe these concepts aren't the strongest, though I want them to be, and I'm emotionally invested in mind-control being real. Don't get me wrong, I'm like you and I'll keep studying and practicing just incase.

Have you finally tried vermicelli with milk and sugar/sweetener??

Both pasta and sugar accelerate aging.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

So... my current theory... as far as business and dating, is it's best to provide more "value" than your competition, and that beats out all phycological strategies, which you might as well use. Pacing and Leading, embedded commands, frame control, hoop theory, dhv, push-pull, etc.

But the real "trick" is knowing what the customers want. What is "value" to them. And knowing what the competition is offering.

It's hard in business, hard in friendships, and hard in dating because we're not mind readers, you can't trust what people say, and there's too many variables that it's hard to separate causation from correlation.

But it seems like people respond to certain things: Low bodyfat, high-musclemass, square jaw, good skin, full head of hair, deep voice, signs of wealth and status, exotic appeal (Not the domient race or accent as the native population).

I've just used like every trick in the book on girls, only to get beaten by some social retard that 2% leaner, or has 5% more muscle mass. Which has lead me to believe these concepts aren't the strongest, though I want them to be, and I'm emotionally invested in mind-control being real.


Both pasta and sugar accelerate aging.

You forget those guys have more experience manipulating girls because of greater opportunities. They have practice in knowing what works and what doesn’t

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

-Life is a negotiation.
You get what you ask for in life, you just gotta ask in the proper way.
Practice negotiation with random people, your friends, sales clerks and you will become really comfortable getting your way in social situations
-Would also start looking at books to do with negotiation making

Yakuza but do it irl this is how you low inhib max just brawl

 

[noodlelover]

You forget those guys have more experience manipulating girls because of greater opportunities. They have practice in knowing what works and what doesn’t

That's a good point.

SMV does give you a shit ton of more practice. Or living in a dense city. If you want to get good, and you're not high SMV you at least have to live in a dense city to have tons of practice.

I’ve heard of NLP
So it’s also a cope
But yeah proximity theory is legit just be first

Have you ever actually experienced proximity theory? Because in my experience if I meet a girl and she's into me, she will 100% of the time find some one she likes more within days, even if she had been single for years before meeting me. These were girls I met and that the gym and stuff.

I could see it working for highschool, or if you grew up together, or something like that, but for me being old, I wouldn't know how to manufacture those kind of scenarios. And even then, you have to be high status playing social circle game, which is a totally different challenge that requires a different skillset.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

That's a good point.

SMV does give you a shit ton of more practice.


Have you ever actually experienced proximity theory? Because in my experience if I meet a girl and she's into me, she will 100% of the time find some one she likes more within days, even if she had been single for years before meeting me. These were girls I met and that the gym and stuff.

I used to get flings when I was younger with the girls in my neighbourhood but it never lasted or they moved.
Also school and work is proxomity.
You probably need to escalate faster and close the deal , lost many girls because of this

 

[RAITEIII]

A thread with so much DEPTH, even if you don't know it. Everybody wants smth. Or does not want smth to happen. Find your way through those and you have anyone negotiating with you.

2019 after all...