How to prevent hyperfixation and extreme looks obssession even after ascending

[i14bytes]

All I’m saying is that this behavior strikes me as ocd, I have adhd as well and my BDD behaviors used to get worse on adhd meds as well, you most likely just have the mental tendency to be neurotic and obsessive

Yeah but they’re really useful for studying . After I’m finished up with the stim abuse I’m going to switch to 9-me-bc for a bit to fix up my dopamine and I do let wijt my friends every other week to do recreationally( but also resets stim tolerance) I’m n out diagnosed with anything but I don’t know what to do really. Those niggas calling me ugly set me off a bit and I’m fucking roid raging rn but it’s what to be expected of this site Anywyas tbh

 

[americanpakitruvcel]

Yeah but they’re really useful for studying . After I’m finished up with the stim abuse I’m going to switch to 9-me-bc for a bit to fix up my dopamine and I do let wijt my friends every other week to do recreationally( but also resets stim tolerance) I’m n out diagnosed with anything but I don’t know what to do really. Those niggas calling me ugly set me off a bit and I’m fucking roid raging rn but it’s what to be expected of this site Anywyas tbh

If you don’t need stimulants and don’t have adhd I would recommend not using them, studies have shown they actually don’t really help you study if you don’t have ADHD, they just give you the perception and dopamine that tricks your Brain into thinking you are.

 

[i14bytes]

If you don’t need stimulants and don’t have adhd I would recommend not using them, studies have shown they actually don’t really help you study if you don’t have ADHD, they just give you the perception and dopamine that tricks your Brain into thinking you are.

I was addicted to other stuff before so I jsut switched em out for stimulants so it’s not something like new to ruin my life it’s helping short term if anything . I can’t see any other way of moving forward really

 

[i14bytes]

replies on this are just disgusting and hateful if im being honest

Yeah but theyre saying im ugly but by what basis exactly. I would think a site named looksmax would have more consistent ratings. These niggas are rating more bipolar than fucking foids

 

[americanpakitruvcel]

Yeah but theyre saying im ugly but by what basis exactly. I would think a site named looksmax would have more consistent ratings. These niggas are rating more bipolar than fucking foids

They’re just trolling because you have a south Asian phenotype, maybe some of them are actually that racist idk. There’s only a few people who on here who can rate accurately.

 

[i14bytes]

They’re just trolling because you have a south Asian phenotype, maybe some of them are actually that racist idk. There’s only a few people who on here who can rate accurately.

yeah but even racist people can recognise attractiveness in other races. I don’t particularly like black people I can still recognise when someone is attractive and not attractive it is not too hard to do so.

 

[iblamexyz]

I can’t stop thinking about every tiny failo on my face, more of which I keep on discovering by the day. I’m what would be considered universally good looking to most normies I guess and have been stuck on this site ever since I was 13 and have just turned 17 as of last month. I am pretty sure I am fully maxed out facially( as in there are no softmaxxes) left for me to do. I’ve noticed especially since I started using adhd meds like Ritalin and elsvnse to study my insane obssession over my face has taken a turn for the worse where I spend almost multiple hours on end daily staring at my face in the mirror. When I was worse looking I used to get tons of dopamine from looking in the mirror, but as of current times I am extremely reliant on other people’s perception of my looks to get any sort of validation which If I fail to do so my day is completely ruined from the lack of dopamine that I am gaining from my looks - which are on my mind the only reason to exist. To back up my current claim of being good looking do people do not enter this thread saying Muh your probably ugly and so on . This is a TikTok of me lying down I bed in pretty unideal conditions. Now I have gotten this out of the way back to the original question of what the fuck am I meant to do to stop hyper obsessing over all sorts of failos. Currently my alar base width nostril exposure chin width and my upper lip shape is what has been bothering me very much. Originally the goal was to look good enough to get girls but I’m not even sure myself what exactly I am chasing anymore and it is making me feel extremely anxious and just full of despair. I am off Ritalin right now writing this thread so I am probably being quite chatty

You don’t ascending is a meme

Once you’ve ascended you can’t get lost back and now your better looking but just a bitter person

 

[americanpakitruvcel]

yeah but even racist people can recognise attractiveness in other races. I don’t particularly like black people I can still recognise when someone is attractive and not attractive it is not too hard to do so.

You underestimate how racist people are to south Asians now, it’s far beyond the level of hate shown to other ethnics, I mean on this forum generally

 

[i14bytes]

You don’t ascending is a meme

Once you’ve ascended you can’t get lost back and now your better looking but just a bitter person

Yeah I just payed the deposits for my rhino a couple hours ago lol. Over for my brain

 

[i14bytes]

You underestimate how racist people are to south Asians now, it’s far beyond the level of hate shown to other ethnics, I mean on this forum generally

Yeah but if someone has rotted on looksmax forums long enough spent hours and hours on end looking at pictures of male models and other perfect faces and then saw my face typically the conclusion they would come to is I’m quite good looking. Now the same users on the site of LOOKSMAX.ORG who are meant to be knowledgable in what makes someone good looking can’t even provide basic explanations and it’s just Muh you’re “underdeveloped” when my facial development is like twice their development

 

[americanpakitruvcel]

Yeah but if someone has rotted on looksmax forums long enough spent hours and hours on end looking at pictures of male models and other perfect faces and then saw my face typically the conclusion they would come to is I’m quite good looking. Now the same users on the site of LOOKSMAX.ORG who are meant to be knowledgable in what makes someone good looking can’t even provide basic explanations and it’s just Muh you’re “underdeveloped” when my facial development is like twice their development

Doesn’t matter, it’s not like people have an obligation to engage with you on an objective level, they are racist and like fucking with people they see as beneath them. End of story. I’m not ugly but because my phenotype is Pakistani many people on here called me a doomed trucel subhuman, instead of a normie which I very clearly am.

 

[Bipolar2Cel]

More obsessions and compulsions from taking stimulants is common, if you already are prone to OCD especially.

Also yeah you are definitely not ugly lol.. lots of people here will downrate other good-looking users and call them ugly all the time, while they glaze and even uprate popular actors and celebs and models as fuck all the time while giving equally or even better looking users here trash ratings. If you are a random user here and good-looking you can expect tons of trash ratings and being called ugly by A LOT of users.

I also face revealed to some users here and it is 50/50 "hot as f" or "ugly/mid as f", can't really take many people seriously here. Seen this happen to tons of good-looking guys here.

 

[i14bytes]

Doesn’t matter, it’s not like people have an obligation to engage with you on an objective level, they are racist and like fucking with people they see as beneath them. End of story. I’m not ugly but because my phenotype is Pakistani many people on here called me a doomed trucel subhuman, instead of a normie which I very clearly am.

But how are they fucking with me in any way whatsoever. If I didn’t have fucking issues with how my brain works this wouldn’t affect me as my irl treatment would probably be enough to confirm the fact I’m good looking but instead I am always scared of my looks changing and losing it so I’m worried that in the media I sent on this thread I possibly look worse than I normally do I don’t know

 

[i14bytes]

More obsessions and compulsions from taking stimulants is common, if you already are prone to OCD especially.

Also yeah you are definitely not ugly lol.. lots of people here will downrate other good-looking users and call them ugly all the time, while they glaze and even uprate popular actors and celebs and models as fuck all the time while giving equally or even better looking users here trash ratings. If you are a random user here and good-looking
you can expect tons of trash ratings and being called ugly by A LOT of users.

I also face revealed to some users here and it is 50/50 "hot as f" or "ugly/mid as f", can't really take many people seriously here. Seen this happen to tons of good-looking guys here.

It seems even normies can somehow rate better because I get treatment quite close to worship in warmer setting like house parties and so on I’m coming here and getting trashed did I fucking descend or what

 

[americanpakitruvcel]

But how are they fucking with me in any way whatsoever. If I didn’t have fucking issues with how my brain works this wouldn’t affect me as my irl treatment would probably be enough to confirm the fact I’m good looking but instead I am always scared of my looks changing and losing it so I’m worried that in the media I sent on this thread I possibly look worse than I normally do I don’t know

You don’t look worse man, you’re an extremely handsome guy, and you’re only 17, lots of life left to live, always remember to base your perceptions of yourself looks wise on how your actual life is and what girls think of you, not people on forums

 

[americanpakitruvcel]

More obsessions and compulsions from taking stimulants is common, if you already are prone to OCD especially.

Also yeah you are definitely not ugly lol.. lots of people here will downrate other good-looking users and call them ugly all the time, while they glaze and even uprate popular actors and celebs and models as fuck all the time while giving equally or even better looking users here trash ratings. If you are a random user here and good-looking you can expect tons of trash ratings and being called ugly by A LOT of users.

I also face revealed to some users here and it is 50/50 "hot as f" or "ugly/mid as f", can't really take many people seriously here. Seen this happen to tons of good-looking guys here.

I just found a few knowledgeable people on here and only really believe their takes on how I look, not every user here is gonna be honest or knowledgeable lol. And this place is hell if you have horrible ocd and body dysmorphia.

 

[i14bytes]

You don’t look worse man, you’re an extremely handsome guy, and you’re only 17, lots of life left to live, always remember to base your perceptions of yourself looks wise on how your actual life is and what girls think of you, not people on forums

Yeah but I don’t leave my house nowadays because the test bloat is kind of bad so except for going to school I stopped talking to all girls and just blocked them all of my phone. I laid up like a fair amount of slays over summer but I’m just worried that I look worse now because I’ve never ever been called ugly in any way before so maybe I did something that makes me look worse?

 

[Celt]

I can’t stop thinking about every tiny failo on my face, more of which I keep on discovering by the day. I’m what would be considered universally good looking to most normies I guess and have been stuck on this site ever since I was 13 and have just turned 17 as of last month. I am pretty sure I am fully maxed out facially( as in there are no softmaxxes) left for me to do. I’ve noticed especially since I started using adhd meds like Ritalin and elsvnse to study my insane obssession over my face has taken a turn for the worse where I spend almost multiple hours on end daily staring at my face in the mirror. When I was worse looking I used to get tons of dopamine from looking in the mirror, but as of current times I am extremely reliant on other people’s perception of my looks to get any sort of validation which If I fail to do so my day is completely ruined from the lack of dopamine that I am gaining from my looks - which are on my mind the only reason to exist. To back up my current claim of being good looking do people do not enter this thread saying Muh your probably ugly and so on . This is a TikTok of me lying down I bed in pretty unideal conditions. Now I have gotten this out of the way back to the original question of what the fuck am I meant to do to stop hyper obsessing over all sorts of failos. Currently my alar base width nostril exposure chin width and my upper lip shape is what has been bothering me very much. Originally the goal was to look good enough to get girls but I’m not even sure myself what exactly I am chasing anymore and it is making me feel extremely anxious and just full of despair. I am off Ritalin right now writing this thread so I am probably being quite chatty

Think of the problem less in the vein of just looks but in behavioural compulsion in general

Dopaminergic meds very much exacerbate this. When I was abusing way too much modafinil whilst studymaxxing I realised that it caused me to enter profoundly obsessive/compulsive patterns of thought and action. Your brain gets stuck in a “loop” and cannot switch tasks or deprioritise things. The dopamine signal is telling your brain that this is incredibly important and requires your attention

Obviously I assume you’re on the meds for a reason, I have adhd and I’m trying to get properly medicated but I just take whatever tf I can get my hands on at the moment until then. But from all of my experience with stims i notice that its basically a tradeoff where taking them makes you more productive but also more autistic and compulsive, whilst being off them gives me horrible executive dysfunction but more normal thought processes and behaviours

Ideally reduce your intake to the minimum necessary dose and only take them when you need them, and take breaks when you can. But there’s also a behavioural element to the compulsion that you need to tackle. Find out what stimul in particular trigger you and restrict them for a while. Every time you indulge your compulsion you only make it stronger.

If you can kill the habits for even 2 weeks then you’ll find it so much easier to shake them for good. Get off of the forums, prevent yourself from constantly checking yourself out in the mirror or phone camera, minimise social media usage and find better ways to distract yourself

 

[Bipolar2Cel]

It seems even normies can somehow rate better because I get treatment quite close to worship in warmer setting like house parties and so on I’m coming here and getting trashed did I fucking descend or what

Hahaha yep, exact same here, yet some guys insist on calling me mid and/or ugly. I just laugh it off, only time it hurts me is when someone I was friends or friendly with did it to me, that is just sad. I face revealed myself to some guys and they got mad, insulted me and/or just cut contact with me. Unreal that some guys are jealous and spiteful like this. Just because someone looks good doesn't make them any less human, unironically that is the treatment you ALSO get from many guys here.. if you look better than them.

Anyway yeah exactly IRL is what matters as for your looks rating above all not what some forum PSL autists tell you. Lots of narcissists here as well unfortunately even many of the good-looking guys here are like this, it is not only the ugly ones, lol..

You don’t look worse man, you’re an extremely handsome guy, and you’re only 17, lots of life left to live, always remember to base your perceptions of yourself looks wise on how your actual life is and what girls think of you, not people on forums

Yep, exactly.

 

[i14bytes]

Hahaha yep, exact same here, yet some guys insist on calling me mid and/or ugly. I just laugh it off, only time it hurts me is when someone I was friends or friendly with did it to me, that is just sad. I face revealed myself to some guys and they got mad, insulted me and/or just cut contact with me. Unreal that some guys are jealous and spiteful like this. Just because someone looks good doesn't make them any less human, unironically that is the treatment you ALSO get from many guys here.. if you look better than them.

Anyway yeah exactly IRL is what matters as for your looks rating above all not what some forum PSL autists tell you. Lots of narcissists here as well unfortunately even many of the good-looking guys here are like this, it is not only the ugly ones, lol..


Yep, exactly.

yeah this is possible or maybe im just ugly and this is some elabrate cope to stop myself from roping. so this is why i asked them to elaborate but they wont even say what my so called "flaws" are which make so me ugly. i literlly listed out all my minor failos for everyone to see, and the response i got makes it seem like all the investment into my looks wasnt worth it at all lol. i just feel quite annoyed right now, guess i need to looksmax harder

 

[americanpakitruvcel]

Think of the problem less in the vein of just looks but in behavioural compulsion in general

Dopaminergic meds very much exacerbate this. When I was abusing way too much modafinil whilst studymaxxing I realised that it caused me to enter profoundly obsessive/compulsive patterns of thought and action. Your brain gets stuck in a “loop” and cannot switch tasks or deprioritise things. The dopamine signal is telling your brain that this is incredibly important and requires your attention

Obviously I assume you’re on the meds for a reason, I have adhd and I’m trying to get properly medicated but I just take whatever tf I can get my hands on at the moment until then. But from all of my experience with stims i notice that its basically a tradeoff where taking them makes you more productive but also more autistic and compulsive, whilst being off them gives me horrible executive dysfunction but more normal thought processes and behaviours

Ideally reduce your intake to the minimum necessary dose and only take them when you need them, and take breaks when you can. But there’s also a behavioural element to the compulsion that you need to tackle. Find out what stimul in particular trigger you and restrict them for a while. Every time you indulge your compulsion you only make it stronger.

If you can kill the habits for even 2 weeks then you’ll find it so much easier to shake them for good. Get off of the forums, prevent yourself from constantly checking yourself out in the mirror or phone camera, minimise social media usage and find better ways to distract yourself

Well said, agree with most of this