DeepStretchAlfie.
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Being smart or (secretly) showing that your smart rather than actually being smart is a great way to venture into opportunities like jobs-> for employers etc. if an employer was to chose between a jerk off guy who was actually smart- emitting no signs of maturity in any regards or a modestly smart man who handled himself with self-control and respect, out of my experience they’d chose the second option.
Not only for employers but also in general relationships- would you open up to a person who never acts serious, would it be easier or harder to vision a person as close to you when you open up to them? Close obviously, but to get close you need to be intimate showing signs of emotional intelligence or trust instead of being a NT guy who cannot be trusted by anyone.
An easy way on how to START being seen as intelligent is to stop being a fucking dick by just talking about the latest memes etc, no one cares and this is going to get you NOWHERE. Speak at appropriate times and about things that will actually contribute to something. It may sound harsh too but those grades need to come up it’s inevitable that if you have ass grades someone will find out. You need atleast half decent grades if you’re still in education. On the other hand it is good to cut out stupid shit and have a routine such as getting in shape, reading or other activities other than shit like gooning. Impressions are practically everything
Out of my experience it has helped me gain MULTIPLE scholarships setting me out for my future with college.
It’s not always about how you act but rather who you act smart with, it depends.
Not only for employers but also in general relationships- would you open up to a person who never acts serious, would it be easier or harder to vision a person as close to you when you open up to them? Close obviously, but to get close you need to be intimate showing signs of emotional intelligence or trust instead of being a NT guy who cannot be trusted by anyone.
An easy way on how to START being seen as intelligent is to stop being a fucking dick by just talking about the latest memes etc, no one cares and this is going to get you NOWHERE. Speak at appropriate times and about things that will actually contribute to something. It may sound harsh too but those grades need to come up it’s inevitable that if you have ass grades someone will find out. You need atleast half decent grades if you’re still in education. On the other hand it is good to cut out stupid shit and have a routine such as getting in shape, reading or other activities other than shit like gooning. Impressions are practically everything
Out of my experience it has helped me gain MULTIPLE scholarships setting me out for my future with college.
It’s not always about how you act but rather who you act smart with, it depends.
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