How to read social clues

[johnny4612]

Hi!

The forum helped me increase my appeal.
So it was very helpful in that regard.

There are other things I'd like to improve, primarily, being able to pick up on social cues, or understanding why I haven't been able to do it so far.

This is a genuine question.
Is it solvable?

 

[motionmantris]

step 1. get rid of ur tism

 

[swaggers]

There are other things I'd like to improve, primarily, being able to pick up on social cues, or understanding why I haven't been able to do it so far.

Most of it is kind of genetic and you cant do much about it

One thing that i improved on was just hesitating before speaking,

It sounds cliche but just think about what your gonna say before you say it - "Will what i'm saying fit in with the conversation?" "Will what I'm saying go down well with the group of people im with?" etc

 

[слон]

Hi!

The forum helped me increase my appeal.
So it was very helpful in that regard.

There are other things I'd like to improve, primarily, being able to pick up on social cues, or understanding why I haven't been able to do it so far.

This is a genuine question.
Is it solvable?

this is a good BOTB thread that might help:

How Social Interaction Actually Works

Social Interaction 101 Most of you are socially dead because you refuse to accept one brutal truth: People mirror what you output. Zero input = zero output. If you: don’t smile don’t initiate Give stone faced dead energy Sit there like a NPC waiting for “signals” You get nothing. No one is...

looksmax.org

things like social interactions are really complex, so you really wont master them just by reading a guide. id suggest to pick up a few ideas and just practice. focus on the basics: think before you speak, dont interrupt people, dont say something that drastically changes the mood of the conversation, etc.

 

[mxdern]

this is a good BOTB thread that might help:

yeah that thread is really good

> "just be confident bro"
> ???
> profit

 

[johnny4612]

Most of it is kind of genetic and you cant do much about it

One thing that i improved on was just hesitating before speaking,

It sounds cliche but just think about what your gonna say before you say it - "Will what i'm saying fit in with the conversation?" "Will what I'm saying go down well with the group of people im with?" etc

Oh I see.. this could help.
One thing is that I actually take "literally" what people tell me.
I don't see if they actually have second meanings to that.

 

[Hermes/]

watch interviews of charismatic people, (Brad pitt, Tom Cruise), this will help you escape ND hell and be able to detect shit better and be less of a sperg

 

[a1ad3nn]

Hi!

The forum helped me increase my appeal.
So it was very helpful in that regard.

There are other things I'd like to improve, primarily, being able to pick up on social cues, or understanding why I haven't been able to do it so far.

This is a genuine question.
Is it solvable?

If you ND it's impossible even if you abuse anxiety meds I've tried

 

[TajManzoor]

Hi!

The forum helped me increase my appeal.
So it was very helpful in that regard.

There are other things I'd like to improve, primarily, being able to pick up on social cues, or understanding why I haven't been able to do it so far.

This is a genuine question.
Is it solvable?

The reason why is because you’re autistic. How to solve it, create a cure for autism.

 

[Fitzy]

 

[oxytocincel]

hop on stimulants 24/7 preferably adderall, ritalin, or dexamphetamines (cheap and easy to get scripts for) this will reduce autistic tendencies

 

[stigmaboy]

@mxdern lol yeah confidence is the cope. you're probably htn if you're asking about reading social clues tbh. focus on your bone structure first.

 

[mxdern]

hop on stimulants

such an underrated method

if you are like really really nonfunctional autist you probably aren't on org anyway
busy on some niche discord server 24/7

If you ND it's impossible

nah definitely possible
trust me from experience it's exhausting fraud NT all the time but you get used to it
best method is going to the gym and talking to like the frat types
enough around time around them (provided you aren't literally drooling and/or sperging out) and you'll get it soon enough