How to reject someone without directly saying it to them?

[Gengar’s Ghost]

I dont have hate in my heart man im just sad tbh

Are you me? I feel the same way.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Start talking to her in incel bp language man

She can speak in three languages and they’re not English.

 

[tunisianropemaxxer]

I can’t shake off my second cousin no matter what.

Tell yo mom yo cousin tryna get freaky

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Nope,
my parents are cousins and i have 4 siblings and we’re all healthy

Precisely - I know many first-cousin marriages and none of them have any handicapped kids.

 

[Deleted member 211792]

You’re 100% right about this. There’s definitely a lot of pressurizing going on. She even told her mother she won’t get married if it’s not to me. I hope she’s just bullshitting. But you never know.

And because you don't wanna speak up or speak out against it,you're gonna be married to your cousin bro

She's already guilt tripping you into getting married which makes you worry more about her feelings than your own.

So either you say No or you're getting married Bhai

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Second cousin isn’t even that bad considering cousin marriage is normal in South Asia

I know, and I don’t care if others do it but personally I don’t want to.

 

[lowtiersubhuman]

Are you me? I feel the same way.

Everyone think bc im subhuman im filled with hatred but im not i had to train myself to not say sorry when punching ppl in boxing because mid fight i would apologize im not a hateful person at all for the mos part

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Why don’t you just marry her you’re gonna be a lonely cuck whole life

I can always get married to someone, it’s impossible to be an incel in my culture. You really have to be a volcel like me to be a lonely dude your entire life.

 

[Deleted member 133415]

I know, and I don’t care if others do it but personally I don’t want to.

Why bhai? You are already a fakecel anyways cause a girl wanted you

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Tell yo mom yo cousin tryna get freaky

Yeah, my mother isn’t exactly ecstatic about it.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

And because you don't wanna speak up or speak out against it,you're gonna be married to your cousin bro

She's already guilt tripping you into getting married which makes you worry more about her feelings than your own.

So either you say No or you're getting married Bhai

Is there really no other way to get rid of her. In a way that I don’t break her heart? Because that’s what I’m looking for.

 

[Deleted member 152141]

I dont have hate in my heart man im just sad tbh

you live in isolation, yes?

maybe that seeds your problems

in isolation, self worth is (obviously) crucial

the lack of inhibition puts you on the site

so my genuine advice: find yourself, whether that be drawing, reading, writing — or hell, maybe even video games

with your free time less often your mind will be distracted

and by the time you move to the big city, you’ll be high inhib, you’ll book your surgeries and slay

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Everyone think bc im subhuman im filled with hatred but im not i had to train myself to not say sorry when punching ppl in boxing because mid fight i would apologize im not a hateful person at all for the mos part

You sound like my friend in that regard. He’s a nice guy and he’s going to have martial arts matches but he says he won’t use his KO power that he possesses. And I’m like wtf dude you gotta go all in, forget about your actual personality and just focus on winning the match. I hope he listens to me.

 

[Snoofy]

what is going on wih ur family

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Why bhai? You are already a fakecel anyways cause a girl wanted you

I’m not a fakecel. It doesn’t count because she’s family.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

what is going on wih ur family

Average day in Pakistani Punjab.

 

[lowtiersubhuman]

you live in isolation, yes?

maybe that seeds your problems

in isolation, self worth is (obviously) crucial

the lack of inhibition puts you on the site

so my genuine advice: find yourself, whether that be drawing, reading, writing — or hell, maybe even video games

with your free time less often your mind will be distracted

and by the time you move to the big city, you’ll be high inhib, you’ll book your surgeries and slay

Bro I have to feed my adhd brain stimulation by the bucket just to keep myself from thinking about suicide its why i cant sleep i basically have to turn my brain into sludge and wait till it shuts off

 

[Uehdbwidbfngj]

I can’t shake off my second cousin no matter what.

Lmao is your second cousin actually into you

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Lmao is your second cousin actually into you

Yeah. I am literally her oneitis.

 

[lowtiersubhuman]

You sound like my friend in that regard. He’s a nice guy and he’s going to have martial arts matches but he says he won’t use his KO power that he possesses. And I’m like wtf dude you gotta go all in, forget about your actual personality and just focus on winning the match. I hope he listens to me.

Yeah but i hate how mfer on here are like ooh im incel i must shoot school like they should kill themselves one of the things i hate just bc in subhuman khhv incel doesnt mean im a bad person

 

[Uehdbwidbfngj]

Yeah. I am literally her oneitis.

What do you rate her

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Yeah but i hate how mfer on here are like ooh im incel i must shoot school like they should kill themselves one of the things i hate just bc in subhuman khhv incel doesnt mean im a bad person

Yeah, those pricks have ruined it for the sadcels like us. I can really relate to that. When I was depressed, I was just sad. Never hateful or angry or whatever.

 

[lowtiersubhuman]

Yeah, those pricks have ruined it for the sadcels like us. I can really relate to that. When I was depressed, I was just sad. Never hateful or angry or whatever.

I mean im angry that im ugly but not toward anyone

 

[Deleted member 211792]

Is there really no other way to get rid of her. In a way that I don’t break her heart? Because that’s what I’m looking for.

No other way around it Bhai either you suffer in a relationship with a marriage you didn't have 100% consent to or you break her heart

-Slavery
-Freedom

Maybe the pills were a cringe add-on but it looks cool

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

I mean im angry that im ugly but not toward anyone

I see. Well I’m not even angry about that either. Nor am I sad about it. It’s just a fact I’ve come to terms with, you know?

 

[Embryo]

Hold them at gun point

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

No other way around it Bhai either you suffer in a relationship with a marriage you didn't have 100% consent to or you break her heart

-Slavery
-Freedom

Maybe the pills were a cringe add-on but it looks cool

It does look cool! I will see if I can find a way to here I can still get rid of her without breaking her heart. I’ve been trying to do that for the past nine months but to no avail.. we will see!

 

[Uehdbwidbfngj]

what is going on wih ur family

Common in pakistan tbh
Hate to to say it

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Hold them at gun point

Her three brothers would probably kill me.

 

[lowtiersubhuman]

I see. Well I’m not even angry about that either. Nor am I sad about it. It’s just a fact I’ve come to terms with, you know?

I will never accept my ugly subhuman grotesque abomination of a lump of flesh and bones that sits upon my neck

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Common in pakistan tbh
Hate to to say it

Nothing wrong with stating facts. Yes, it’s common.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

I will never accept my ugly subhuman grotesque abomination of a lump of flesh and bones that sits upon my neck

Give it time, my friend. Time does many things.

 

[Uehdbwidbfngj]

Nothing wrong with stating facts. Yes, it’s common.

Is first cousin common in pakistan?

 

[Deleted member 211792]

It does look cool! I will see if I can find a way to here I can still get rid of her without breaking her heart. I’ve been trying to do that for the past nine months but to no avail.. we will see!

Keep me posted bhai

 

[Meteor21]

Don’t worry - I don’t want this to happen.

I meant the not doing it part lol

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Is first cousin common in pakistan?

Yes. My mother wants me to marry my first cousin. But since the last two decades its also very normal to marry outside the family.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Keep me posted bhai

For sure, I will. But it’s gonna take some time. Months even, maybe even a year.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

I meant the not doing it part lol

Oh, you’re saying I should go for it?

 

[Uehdbwidbfngj]

Yes. My mother wants me to marry my first cousin. But since the last two decades its also very normal to marry outside the family.

Ngl I’d say 3rd cousin isnt terrible. It’s bad but it’s doable

First is just insane tho

 

[A_H0T_Wombat]

chad ramblings

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Ngl I’d say 3rd cousin isnt terrible. It’s bad but it’s doable

First is just insane tho

It really is - I don’t know why my mother has it in her head. It’s not like she married her first cousin.

That said, even though she’s my second cousin, she’s also mixed - so technically it’s not that bad - but I am just not a fan.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

chad ramblings

Cope.

Like the @pope.

 

[Uehdbwidbfngj]

It really is - I don’t know why my mother has it in her head. It’s not like she married her first cousin.

That said, even though she’s my second cousin, she’s also mixed - so technically it’s not that bad - but I am just not a fan.

What is she mixed with

 

[silently_said]

I have said that but it’s normal in our culture/religion, and this one is the furthest removed relative since she’s mixed. I wish I could reject people like others did but I would just feel too bad.

What mix

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

What is she mixed with

She’s half Indic and half Iranic. I am fully Indic.

 

[Deleted member 211792]

I will be here to give you advice when you need it bhai

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

What mix

She’s half Indic and half Iranic. I am fully Indic.

 

[lowtiersubhuman]

Give it time, my friend. Time does many things.

Nha im actually high chad

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

I will be here to give you advice when you need it bhai

Thank you my friend.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Nha im actually high chad

Based.