How to see myself as attractive as everyone else sees me?

[Deleted member 123031]

So other people see me as extremely good looking to the point I don't see it myself.

I know I'm looking good but I just can't fully understand what the fuck everybody sees in me. I'm looking at all these tiktokers, models and people on this forum and feel like everyone is looking better than me.

Is this normal and how can I learn to see myself as hot as everyone else sees me? Like I feel I would get bullied if I post a picture here but at the same time I know that people absolutely glaze me and see me as extremely attractive.

 

[MagicalWaves]

So other people see me as extremely good looking to the point I don't see it myself.

I know I'm looking good but I just can't fully understand what the fuck everybody sees in me. I'm looking at all these tiktokers, models and people on this forum and feel like everyone is looking better than me.

Is this normal and how can I learn to see myself as hot as everyone else sees me? Like I feel I would get bullied if I post a picture here but at the same time I know that people absolutely glaze me and see me as extremely attractive.

just post urself and then youll know the answer

 

[Deleted member 123031]

just post urself and then youll know the answer

But that's not quite the problem. I already got my validation and know how people react to my looks. Even if I post a pic and everyone rates me cl, I will still struggle to understand how the fuck that's possible. And that's the actual issue.

 

[Va-qoh]

Body Dysmorphia

 

[Deleted member 123458]

Enjoy life, it will get better with time (don't blackpill on urself)

 

[Sapphiremaxxing]

Even if I post a pic and everyone rates me cl

Lmao bro actually rope, youre so disingenuous even on an anonymous forum. Its beyond obvious you see yourself as overly attractive as nobody with an ounce of modesty in their heart would say some dumb shit like this.

 

[Deleted member 123031]

Body Dysmorphia

It's not body dysmorphia as I'm jacked and also proud of my physique but maybe there's something called face dysmorphia? Do you have any advice or experience to overcome that?

 

[Deleted member 123031]

Enjoy life, it will get better with time (don't blackpill on urself)

I do enjoy life a lot and I literally love my life. But that's one thing I'm struggling with because I used to be unconfident and an incel a few years ago. It might actually be better if I just leave this forum

 

[Deleted member 123458]

I do enjoy life a lot and I literally love my life. But that's one thing I'm struggling with because I used to be unconfident and an incel a few years ago. It might actually be better if I just leave this forum

wtf is up with your incel, its not that deep

 

[LimaDummy]

there lying to you

 

[Deleted member 116489]

So other people see me as extremely good looking to the point I don't see it myself.

I know I'm looking good but I just can't fully understand what the fuck everybody sees in me. I'm looking at all these tiktokers, models and people on this forum and feel like everyone is looking better than me.

Is this normal and how can I learn to see myself as hot as everyone else sees me? Like I feel I would get bullied if I post a picture here but at the same time I know that people absolutely glaze me and see me as extremely attractive.

People tend to lie to the disabled to make themselves feel better
It’s only natural they lie to you.

 

[canthal]

post pic

 

[Deleted member 123031]

I'd appreciate some advice from someone who has dealt with this issue and not incels coping please

 

[Deleted member 123031]

People tend to lie to the disabled to make themselves feel better
It’s only natural they lie to you.

How sad for you

 

[Deleted member 116489]

How sad for you

You’re an ugly trucecel im WASP Chad

 

[Deleted member 123031]

Lmao bro actually rope, youre so disingenuous even on an anonymous forum. Its beyond obvious you see yourself as overly attractive as nobody with an ounce of modesty in their heart would say some dumb shit like this.

I do see myself as attractive but not to the level I'm getting all those crazy reactions from girls like I look like a fucking god

 

[jon_chase89]

Carry a laminated card around with you like Joker explaining all your perceived flaws and hand it to every foid that compliments you

 

[MagicalWaves]

But that's not quite the problem. I already got my validation and know how people react to my looks. Even if I post a pic and everyone rates me cl, I will still struggle to understand how the fuck that's possible. And that's the actual issue.

maybe ur autistic that has to be a reason

 

[Deleted member 123031]

Carry a laminated card around with you like Joker explaining all your perceived flaws and hand it to every foid that compliments you

I don't have that many laminated cards won't work

 

[Deleted member 123031]

maybe ur autistic that has to be a reason

I'm not.. I just have face dysmorphia and I want to get rid of it

 

[actualunderstander]

just post urself and then youll know the answer

Not even tho. So many times people post themselves and no matter what everyone will call them low tier. I have seen succesful male models multiple times get rated a 6/10 and others get lower ratings than they should

 

[actualunderstander]

You need to basically change ur subconcious. Its not easy but doable

 

[Deleted member 123031]

You need to basically change ur subconcious. Its not easy but doable

I guess so. Thanks.