LilJojo
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- Set up an interesting profile.
- Avoid sunglasses and group pictures. Have different pictures that shows that you are interesting but also that you have sex appeal. Pick 2–3 decent ones from the front and then the rest of the pictures can be funny or show your hobbies. I find that guys more than often are terrible at picking out the right pictures. They can be very handsome in reality, but on tinder they look weird. So put effort in this!
- After picking the pictures comes the bio. Now if you already are incredibly handsome an interesting bio is not that necessary. But since you ask this question I suspect you are struggling a bit. Try to write something short and funny/interesting that always works. So either a joke or something about who you are in short. (Surfer, photographer, traveller etc). Maybe also state that you look for something fun. I matched with a guy who said “I cook well depending on how hungry I am” which indirectly stated that he was in for something casual. However the pictures is always the first thing a girl look at. A good bio will compensate the good pictures though.
- Now lets say you matched with this gorgeous girl. So, now it is time to start talking to her. If she is gorgeous, she probably have plenty of guys writing to her already, so you need to stick out. I find it incredibly boring when guys write: “Hey” “Hey how are you” “Hey what are you doing?”. I can also guarantee you that the majority will write that type of message to her. So, you need to look on her profile and see if her profile says anything about her that you can comment on. You can either joke about it, or ask questions. It will show interest to her and spark more interest from her side as well. You can also write something funny in general that will start off the conversation.
3. Invite her out
- Now lets say you started a conversation and it became a success. You been talking for a while and you would like to meet her. Not every girl on tinder look for hook ups or they may look for hook ups but only with certain guys. The second option depends on what impression you give to her. Yes there are some girls who will go to straight to your house and sleep with you. But you cannot assume this or know this beforehand. For some girls like me its huge turn off to suggest sex right off the bat. “Hey babe, wanna fuck tonight?” is an example of being too direct. and yes this guys exist. Don’t show off as the douche desperate for sex. Even though the girl wanna sleep with you, she might not wanna sleep with you on the first date. Yes a picture can be attractive, but the person might give me complete different vibes in reality. So suggest to meet in a public place and do a fun activity like bowling or pool. A bar is also a good starting place for hook ups. If you get a good vibe from her at the date and she is giving you signals you can take it from there.However you will often notice when you discuss what to do what she is comfortable with. On the date, be charming and interested in her. Ask a lot of questions, tease them, make them laugh. It will increase the possibilities for you. Whether you get to sleep with her or not, depends on your behaviour on the date. She may not sleep with you that day but maybe on the second or third date if you work your magic.
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