In this thread i will talk about how to socialize with Men and Women and how to become likeable
first of all being good looking is the first thing people notice about you when you are handsome they automatically treat you with respect and if you are not they will treat you like you're worse than them so if you are not at least hltn it will be harder to get women to like you but its different with men.I will talk about how to get women to like you. So what you want to do is have at least average style(preferably above average)
BUT the clothes that you wear aren't the most important, the most important thing is having clothes that fit you good for example instead of baggy t-shirts you should wear slim fit ones the pants can be baggy but don't go overboard with that
The second thing is YOU CAN'T BE AFRAID OF making physical contact with them. if you are attractive women will like it when you touch them but don't go too far like touching their boobs or ass at least don't do it if you are not sure if they want it you should touch their thighs or shoulders and in some situations grab their hand.
The third step is to have a good social media account ( mainly talking about Instagram) you want to have more followers than the people you follow for example 300 followers 100 followings and something important WE DON'T WANT TO HAVE VERY BIG AMMOUNT OF FOLLOWERS!! what you want to do is limit it to a thousand. You also want to have max 3 highlights on you profile and about 2 posts
so you can stay niche
i will talk now about how to be friends with a lot of males and be respected
What you want to do here is open doors. what do i mean by that? if one of your friend invites you to go somewhere you go there and if there are his other friends what i would do to get them to like me it would be trying to say something and get appreciation from at least one of them which is of course easier than getting appreciation from everyone. When one of them likes you you're basically in the group.
after doing the first step you should have some friends now and i will tell you how to keep them. So now what you want to do is actually be interested in what they talk about. For example if they talk about sports ask questions about it like: Do you think Ronaldo will win some bullshit trophy or whatever and actually engage in the conversation. and you want to be charismatic How to do that? i will explain later on.
The third step for men to respect you is to not say bullshit and opinions that they don't like. So you definitely shouldn't go around saying stupid shit that nobody wants to hear. When they say for example: damn my physique looks kinda good recently. you want to respond with something positive like: bro i actually think that you made some good progress within the last months.
And the last thing i will talk about in this thread is how to be charismatic. Don't talk when it's unnecessary. When you're explaining something don't talk fast, you should speak slowly and not stutter. Give compliments BUT only when it's needed!!! if you won't follow this step it will seem that you are desperate.
Here are some photos of me with my friends(so you know im not coping)
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