How to socialize if u are ND which most of u are so GTIH

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How to Socialize if You Are Neurodivergent (ND)


Being neurodivergent (ND) can make social situations feel confusing or overwhelming, but it does not mean you can’t build friendships. Everyone communicates differently, and there are ways to make socializing easier.


1. Start Small

You don’t have to become friends with everyone. Start by saying “Hi” or asking a simple question. Small conversations can grow into bigger ones over time. ________________________________________
2. Find People With Similar Interests
It is often easier to talk to people who enjoy the same things you do, such as sports, gaming, music, art, or other hobbies. Shared interests give you something to talk about.
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3. Listen and Take Turns

Try to listen carefully to what the other person is saying. Give them a chance to speak, then respond before talking about your own ideas.
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4. Ask Questions

If you are not sure what to say, ask questions about the other person. For example:

• “What games do you play?”
• “What classes do you like?”
• “How long have you been on the team?________________________________________

5. It Is Okay to Take Breaks

If social situations become overwhelming, take a short break. Stepping away for a few minutes can help you feel more comfortable before returning.
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6. Practice Your Social Skills

Like any other skill, socializing gets easier with practice. Every conversation is a chance to learn and improve.
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7. Be Yourself


You do not need to hide who you are to make friends. The best friendships are built with people who accept and respect you for who you are.

________________________________________
Conclusion


Being neurodivergent may make socializing more challenging at times, but it does not stop you from making meaningful friendships. With practice, patience, and confidence, you can improve your communication skills and connect with others.

 

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How to Socialize if You Are Neurodivergent (ND)


Being neurodivergent (ND) can make social situations feel confusing or overwhelming, but it does not mean you can’t build friendships. Everyone communicates differently, and there are ways to make socializing easier.


1. Start Small

You don’t have to become friends with everyone. Start by saying “Hi” or asking a simple question. Small conversations can grow into bigger ones over time. ________________________________________
2. Find People With Similar Interests
It is often easier to talk to people who enjoy the same things you do, such as sports, gaming, music, art, or other hobbies. Shared interests give you something to talk about.
________________________________________
3. Listen and Take Turns

Try to listen carefully to what the other person is saying. Give them a chance to speak, then respond before talking about your own ideas.
________________________________________
4. Ask Questions

If you are not sure what to say, ask questions about the other person. For example:

• “What games do you play?”
• “What classes do you like?”
• “How long have you been on the team?________________________________________

5. It Is Okay to Take Breaks

If social situations become overwhelming, take a short break. Stepping away for a few minutes can help you feel more comfortable before returning.
________________________________________
6. Practice Your Social Skills

Like any other skill, socializing gets easier with practice. Every conversation is a chance to learn and improve.
________________________________________
7. Be Yourself


You do not need to hide who you are to make friends. The best friendships are built with people who accept and respect you for who you are.

________________________________________
Conclusion


Being neurodivergent may make socializing more challenging at times, but it does not stop you from making meaningful friendships. With practice, patience, and confidence, you can improve your communication skills and connect with others.

and if you're and aspie?

 

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Straight from chadgpt

 

[fearoffoids2.0]

and if you're and aspie?

The advice still applies, it may need to be adapted for autistic people. So just practice conversation ahead of time,learn social cues, take breaks when overwhelmed, find people with similar interest as u, and focus on listening and asking questions. The more u practice talking to people the better u will become

 

[fearoffoids2.0]

Straight from chadgpt

Actually no I wrote ut all I just had gpt format it, and it gave me recommendations on what to add and what to edit. Btw everybody uses ai for EVERYTHING

 

[TheDon]

Dnr worst gpt slop ever, also atrocious advices "What games do you play" JFL.

 

[fearoffoids2.0]

Dnr worst gpt slop ever, also atrocious advices "What games do you play" JFL.

What games do you play is a good question say you see another gamer or something like that

 

[assuming..]

So called "neurodivergents" probably just have a tendency to look at the big picture, rather than just blindly following trends/the herd and jumping into things like normies.

I reckon neurodivergent separate life into two categories: "Normie life", and "my real self", and the two can never mix. They know they must socalledly "mask" around normies, while they may have another dream/fantasy of the life they'd really like to live in their heads..they just know it might not be feasible out in the world, certainly amongst normies. And why do we all capitulate to live the normie trajectory anyways? Security. And to be fair, in an increasingly fracturing, anonymized world where you're surrounded by millions of people (if you're in a big city), holding onto some thread of security might not be so bad.

So you simply must consider: What's the most that normie life could offer ME?

- Go through grade school. Be friendly with many people. Play some sport to boost status and keep body in shape. Have some magical nights out with girls and guys. Eventually fuck some of those girls off the vibes. Fuck some other sluts in the city otherwise. Get maybe 2 or 3 girlfriends the simple straight forward way. Get my GPA and extracurriculars and shit together so I can get into a nice college that's not full of fuckwits. Maximize my young body and stay away from junk food, porn and other vices .Dont express yourself too much or outlandishly or dive too much into some subculture.
- Go to college. Live the college lifestyle. Throw some parties. Keep your room clean and accessible. Freely go out to places in the town with no other objective. Make solid friends and connections you can always turn back to and fall on in the future. Never show your "power level". Barely pass your classes or dont pass them at all and come back to them later in life.
- Go out into the world but dont stress too much about aggressively career climbing (only think about the salary, and hopefully you have some other stream of income too at this point). Freely date and love who you want without marriage and the future being seriously negotiated on the table yet. Enjoy your prime and still functioning body. Enjoy the nightlife (without descending yourself too much; let your friends think you got wasted when you secretly only took a couple shots).
- 30+ Marry some bitch and make some kids or wtv I guess. Call back on your college friends, who you've hopefully been keeping contact with, and hope they hook you up with some better job if you need it.

And you could probably come pick with some other variations of "permissible" trajectories you could live out without straying too far and getting kicked out of the pack.

The thing is, the ENTIRE TIME while you're doing all this, you can live a double life on the side where your normie circles have no idea what you really get up to. The issue with modernity is that even living a basic normie life can completely consume alll your time. Nowadays you might spend hours on the phone with whatever company trying to resolve a simple issue. And the rungs you have to jump thru to simply get a salary can consume your entire life. Somehow avoiding this and resisting the pulling vortex of the normie masses lifestyle is the biggest hurdle of the neurodivergent. But at the same time, if you COMPLETELY separate yourself from society and isolate, you miss out on experiences you can never get back. Just understand you will never find YOURSELF in the nomrie institutions. You'll only find yourself out in the "wild".

Also, women re just a matter of experience. You will never fold them into your actual, more eccentric interests. Women truly are simple creatures. You just need experience with enough of them to know how they work.

 

[fearoffoids2.0]

So called "neurodivergents" probably just have a tendency to look at the big picture, rather than just blindly following trends/the herd and jumping into things like normies.

I reckon neurodivergent separate life into two categories: "Normie life", and "my real self", and the two can never mix. They know they must socalledly "mask" around normies, while they may have another dream/fantasy of the life they'd really like to live in their heads..they just know it might not be feasible out in the world, certainly amongst normies. And why do we all capitulate to live the normie trajectory anyways? Security. And to be fair, in an increasingly fracturing, anonymized world where you're surrounded by millions of people (if you're in a big city), holding onto some thread of security might not be so bad.

So you simply must consider: What's the most that normie life could offer ME?

- Go through grade school. Be friendly with many people. Play some sport to boost status and keep body in shape. Have some magical nights out with girls and guys. Eventually fuck some of those girls off the vibes. Fuck some other sluts in the city otherwise. Get maybe 2 or 3 girlfriends the simple straight forward way. Get my GPA and extracurriculars and shit together so I can get into a nice college that's not full of fuckwits. Maximize my young body and stay away from junk food, porn and other vices .Dont express yourself too much or outlandishly or dive too much into some subculture.
- Go to college. Live the college lifestyle. Throw some parties. Keep your room clean and accessible. Freely go out to places in the town with no other objective. Make solid friends and connections you can always turn back to and fall on in the future. Never show your "power level". Barely pass your classes or dont pass them at all and come back to them later in life.
- Go out into the world but dont stress too much about aggressively career climbing (only think about the salary, and hopefully you have some other stream of income too at this point). Freely date and love who you want without marriage and the future being seriously negotiated on the table yet. Enjoy your prime and still functioning body. Enjoy the nightlife (without descending yourself too much; let your friends think you got wasted when you secretly only took a couple shots).
- 30+ Marry some bitch and make some kids or wtv I guess. Call back on your college friends, who you've hopefully been keeping contact with, and hope they hook you up with some better job if you need it.

And you could probably come pick with some other variations of "permissible" trajectories you could live out without straying too far and getting kicked out of the pack.

The thing is, the ENTIRE TIME while you're doing all this, you can live a double life on the side where your normie circles have no idea what you really get up to. The issue with modernity is that even living a basic normie life can completely consume alll your time. Nowadays you might spend hours on the phone with whatever company trying to resolve a simple issue. And the rungs you have to jump thru to simply get a salary can consume your entire life. Somehow avoiding this and resisting the pulling vortex of the normie masses lifestyle is the biggest hurdle of the neurodivergent. But at the same time, if you COMPLETELY separate yourself from society and isolate, you miss out on experiences you can never get back. Just understand you will never find YOURSELF in the nomrie institutions. You'll only find yourself out in the "wild".

Also, women re just a matter of experience. You will never fold them into your actual, more eccentric interests. Women truly are simple creatures. You just need experience with enough of them to know how they work.