how to speak to girls?

[turkproducer]

i thought i was good at this but i find that i might actually be shit at texting them.

this makes sense because i have messed up some really good chances before

how do i find the good medium of not messaging them too much, and messaging them enough?

i find that every girl is relative, not all of them want you more if you just ignore them for a week and appear suddenly, some would get sick of trying to talk to you on the second day while others will carry on..

i find it draining to talk on the phone but it’s almost necessary to text girls before meeting them.

 

[Catawampus]

Reminder I destroyed this threads virginity.

 

[Pietrosiek]

chad doesnt need to talk

 

[turkproducer]

chad doesnt need to talk

unfortunately i am not close to chad

 

[Over]

chad doesnt need to talk

A walking blackpill. That video says it all.

i thought i was good at this but i find that i might actually be shit at texting them.

this makes sense because i have messed up some really good chances before

how do i find the good medium of not messaging them too much, and messaging them enough?

i find that every girl is relative, not all of them want you more if you just ignore them for a week and appear suddenly, some would get sick of trying to talk to you on the second day while others will carry on..

i find it draining to talk on the phone but it’s almost necessary to text girls before meeting them.

Doesnt matter what you say if they like you.

 

[Zygos4Life]

I'm KHHV permavirgin so I don't know much abt texting girls tbh

 

[Lawyer]

unfortunately i am not close to chad

https://looksmax.org/threads/it-is-chad-or-nothing.160031/unread

Tbh.

 

[Deleted member 3328]

Just laugh at their unfunny, horrible humour

 

[turkproducer]

A walking blackpill. That video says it all.


Doesnt matter what you say if they like you.

doesn’t work like that bro

i have messed up some horrific chances... What you say 100% matters, even for 6 psl guys. Only time I think you could say or do anything is being a literall MM or giga chad

no notmie or high tier normie or chadlite can get away with not saying the right things

 

[Patrick Baitman]

Don't try to strategize and go into a conversation with a plan and canned up questions. Just try to be an interesting person in general who is genuinely interested in people. This strategy worked for me, atleast.

 

[turkproducer]

I'm KHHV permavirgin so I don't know much abt texting girls tbh

even though i’m not i still feel inexperienced

idk what it is but i can’t help but get invested with a new prospect of a girl, even if i don’t show it to them.

 

[turkproducer]

Don't try to strategize and go into a conversation with a plan and canned up questions. Just try to be an interesting person in general who is genuinely interested in people. This strategy worked for me, atleast.

makes sense i have succeeded that way but bro so many girls online waste time

they just message me first and then ignore me lol after a while

i’ve also acted fairly autistic at times and said shit i shouldn’t have but it is what it is

 

[Over]

doesn’t work like that bro

i have messed up some horrific chances... What you say 100% matters, even for 6 psl guys. Only time I think you could say or do anything is being a literall MM or giga chad

no notmie or high tier normie or chadlite can get away with not saying the right things

Well idk how that still matters unless you are mentioning PSL stuff or some crazy shit.

If she wants you, then doesnt matter. If she stops talking to you then she didnt like you apparently.

 

[Pietrosiek]

A walking blackpill. That video says it all.

How? Hes 6'2 manlet

 

[turkproducer]

Well idk how that still matters unless you are mentioning PSL stuff or some crazy shit.

If she wants you, then doesnt matter. If she stops talking to you then she didnt like you apparently.

what i mean is, if you’re just attractive enough to be able to have sex with her then you need to literally do everything right to be able to have sex with her,

u need to message her not too much but just enough, not be clingy, etc to be able to fuck if you only meet their bare minimum requirements.

 

[turkproducer]

Just laugh at their unfunny, horrible humour

i hate acting like that though

sometimes i feel like i come off like a cunt because i try to not be a simp at all, but there is a range you need to fall within i feel like. u can’t act like too much of a cunt

 

[Over]

u need to message her not too much but just enough, not be clingy

That's some dumb stuff tbh all that "wait X before msg her" I see normies on Tiktok mention it a lot too.

Why lie to each other and play retarded games ehh.

 

[Deleted member 1140]

always message 1-2 sentences max, wait for them to reply, take the same amount of time or slightly longer preferably and text back. never put more effort in than they do

remember humans get bored/turned off by stuff they have so you have to play hard to get / not very interested

 

[Deleted member 1140]

That's some dumb stuff tbh all that "wait X before msg her" I see normies on Tiktok mention it a lot too.

Why lie to each other and play retarded games ehh.

its just reality either accept it or stay lonely. i hate it too how it is

 

[Patrick Baitman]

makes sense i have succeeded that way but bro so many girls online waste time

they just message me first and then ignore me lol after a while

i’ve also acted fairly autistic at times and said shit i shouldn’t have but it is what it is

Never try to be interesting while on text. You're not their joke monkey who's a click away. Use texting only to set up dates and plans to hangout. Having deep convos through texting is like walking on thin ice imo. Stay away from it.

Push yourself to be in more social situations. That's the only way to lower your inhibition.

 

[Deleted member 3328]

i hate acting like that though

sometimes i feel like i come off like a cunt because i try to not be a simp at all, but there is a range you need to fall within i feel like. u can’t act like too much of a cunt

I usually just don't give a fuck tbh

Usually, I appear uninterested

 

[turkproducer]

That's some dumb stuff tbh all that "wait X before msg her" I see normies on Tiktok mention it a lot too.

Why lie to each other and play retarded games ehh.

i know man but that’s just the way they work

i have noticed a lot of difference in interest if i am distant to a woman than not

 

[Over]

How? Hes 6'2 manlet

Lol he's a garden gnome

its just reality either accept it or stay lonely. i hate it too how it is

Just play hard to get broooo!

 

[turkproducer]

Never try to be interesting while on text. You're not their joke monkey who's a click away. Use texting only to set up dates and plans to hangout. Having deep convos through texting is like walking on thin ice imo. Stay away from it.

Push yourself to be in more social situations. That's the only way to lower your inhibition.

that’s exactly what i mean man

this is what happens:

girl messaged me or i message her on a dating app

we exchange social media after a small convo

they message me, i wait a bit and reply and we talk

then we talk on and off for a few weeks or a few days and i ask them to meet, a lot of them agree but they end up ghosting.

it’s very tedious

 

[Over]

i know man but that’s just the way they work

i have noticed a lot of difference in interest if i am distant to a woman than not

So they like you more if you take longer to respond or leave them on seen JFL

 

[turkproducer]

I usually just don't give a fuck tbh

Usually, I appear uninterested

it’s hard to appear uninterested 24/7 ngl

they all know you want to fuck them.

 

[Deleted member 1751]

i thought i was good at this but i find that i might actually be shit at texting them.

this makes sense because i have messed up some really good chances before

how do i find the good medium of not messaging them too much, and messaging them enough?

i find that every girl is relative, not all of them want you more if you just ignore them for a week and appear suddenly, some would get sick of trying to talk to you on the second day while others will carry on..

i find it draining to talk on the phone but it’s almost necessary to text girls before meeting them.

These things don't matter much but still what if it helps?

1) Don't be needy
2) Cut convos halfway and reply to texts like 20 hours later
3) seem busy and make her feel that you're a sociable dude
4) Take a picture with 2-3 girls and make it your picture.( WhatsApp)
5) Don't be a simp

 

[Deleted member 3328]

it’s hard to appear uninterested 24/7 ngl

they all know you want to fuck them.

I mean I don't go out of my way to simp for them like they would expect tbh

 

[turkproducer]

So they like you more if you take longer to respond or leave them on seen JFL

yeah, if they’re already attracted to you

it’s pretty tough pill to swallow for me. I used to wish I could have a normal loving relationship without these silly manipulative games but it’s definitely not possible most of the time.

 

[turkproducer]

These things don't matter much but still what if it helps?

1) Don't be needy
2) Cut convos halfway and reply to texts like 20 hours later
3) seem busy and make her feel that you're a sociable dude
4) Take a picture with 2-3 girls and make it your picture.( WhatsApp)
5) Don't be a simp

maybe i just need to stop replying quick

i feel like a lot of them just do the same shit to
me when i play those long reply games.

so we end up going nowhere

 

[Patrick Baitman]

that’s exactly what i mean man

this is what happens:

girl messaged me or i message her on a dating app

we exchange social media after a small convo

they message me, i wait a bit and reply and we talk

then we talk on and off for a few weeks or a few days and i ask them to meet, a lot of them agree but they end up ghosting.

it’s very tedious

Never waste time beating around the bush. That bitch knows why she matched with you. Be upfront about it and ask her out within first few messages. Remember they've shit ton of options so always seize the opportunity

 

[turkproducer]

Never waste time beating around the bush. That bitch knows why she matched with you. Be upfront about it and ask her out within first few messages. Remember they've shit ton of options so always seize the opportunity

within a few messages really??

i feel like this is super early, maybe i’m coping but i have pretty low trust face. and a lot of girls tell me they didn’t trust me when they first saw me

it’s only after i got to know them for a bit that their opinion changed

i think i need to do that, it’s just tedious as fuck filtering through 10000s of women to get a handful of dates lol

 

[Patrick Baitman]

within a few messages really??

i feel like this is super early, maybe i’m coping but i have pretty low trust face. and a lot of girls tell me they didn’t trust me when they first saw me

it’s only after i got to know them for a bit that their opinion changed

i think i need to do that, it’s just tedious as fuck filtering through 10000s of women to get a handful of dates lol

Dude they'll lose interest soon if they realise that the convo is going nowhere. And wtf do you expect is going to happen through texting? She'll fell in love with your words? JFL. And even if that happens, she'd be hugely disappointed with what she'll see irl.
So just be blunt and upfront about your intentions, without making it creepy.

 

[turkproducer]

Dude they'll lose interest soon if they realise that the convo is going nowhere. And wtf do you expect is going to happen through texting? She'll fell in love with your words? JFL. And even if that happens, she'd be hugely disappointed with what she'll see irl.
So just be blunt and upfront about your intentions, without making it creepy.

fuck i’ve texted so many girls for so long without meeting.

a lot of them make excuses about corona, what do you think i should do about them? just never message them again lol?

 

[54UD4D3]

chad doesnt need to talk

Literally just imagine blackops2cel in that same position and try not to cringe from your own thoughts

 

[Patrick Baitman]

fuck i’ve texted so many girls for so long without meeting.

a lot of them make excuses about corona, what do you think i should do about them? just never message them again lol?

If they ghosted you then it's over, have some self respect and stop trying to beat the dead horse. Move on to next foid, they're in fucking abundance if you start looking

 

[turkproducer]

If they ghosted you then it's over, have some self respect and stop trying to beat the dead horse. Move on to next foid, they're in fucking abundance if you start looking

no one girl just tells me they’ll meet me after covid 19

idk if it’s cope or not, most girls i’d say i am coping but she seems high quality for a girl at least.

 

[Deleted member 245]

Literally just act natural.

Your face is ultimately what decides if she lets you smash or not. Texting game is cope. If you find yourself worrying about shit like this its probably already over.