How to stop being an outcast?

[TheBigMike]

I'm 18 and just graduated highschool in june, left with no friends. Trying to make some type of connections after high school has been such a black pilling experience. Everyone either has their own cliques already. It doesn't help that I live in a small town, whenever you "fuck up", everybody remembers that. It's part of the reason why I literally can't make friends at my local community college I'm attending.

I even tried going to raves with some family friends, just in a desperate search to make any form of connection, let alone just talk to people my age. The group I was with was already pretty tight and had established friendships. I felt pretty excluded the entire time, tried talking to strangers at the rave, mostly just ignored me.

Currently working two jobs right now, one at my local mall and the other at some fast food joint. None of my coworkers really talk to me or bother to get to know me.

Closest thing I had to a girl talking to me recently was a girl who I work with at the fast food place saw me at the second job, she told me I didn't look as "geeky and small" in my regular clothing (we have to wear company uniforms at the fast food place)

I wouldn't even consider myself completely ugly either, I'm 5'11 and have an average face. (maybe I'm coping without realizing?)

Genuinely what do I even do? Am I just having a hard time adjusting to adult life? In highschool I didn't have many friends but at least some people acknowledged me.

 

[TopTierIncel42]

that sounds bad op. before work i down 2 shots to lower inhib, maybe that might help? But if you cant form any connections, try to apply to a college far from where you currently live to change yourself

 

[White_Bwoi]

My life begun at the university, so I'd recommend that... 5+ years of partying jfl, but I understand that they're not public everywhere like in the EU

 

[FiendFiend]

I'm 18 and just graduated highschool in june, left with no friends. Trying to make some type of connections after high school has been such a black pilling experience. Everyone either has their own cliques already. It doesn't help that I live in a small town, whenever you "fuck up", everybody remembers that. It's part of the reason why I literally can't make friends at my local community college I'm attending.

I even tried going to raves with some family friends, just in a desperate search to make any form of connection, let alone just talk to people my age. The group I was with was already pretty tight and had established friendships. I felt pretty excluded the entire time, tried talking to strangers at the rave, mostly just ignored me.

Currently working two jobs right now, one at my local mall and the other at some fast food joint. None of my coworkers really talk to me or bother to get to know me.

Closest thing I had to a girl talking to me recently was a girl who I work with at the fast food place saw me at the second job, she told me I didn't look as "geeky and small" in my regular clothing (we have to wear company uniforms at the fast food place)

I wouldn't even consider myself completely ugly either, I'm 5'11 and have an average face. (maybe I'm coping without realizing?)

Genuinely what do I even do? Am I just having a hard time adjusting to adult life? In highschool I didn't have many friends but at least some people acknowledged me.

what do u look like man. This shit sounds super similiar to DBDR's experience ngl.

 

[FiendFiend]

My life begun at the university, so I'd recommend that... 5+ years of partying jfl, but I understand that they're not public everywhere like in the EU

uni is a meme especially for people like him man, he isnt gonna fit in, waging is best for him nigga theres no point wasting money on that shit if ur sub htn or studying something u wanna actually do there

 

[zharupodrugu]

nothing to do with looks or black pill. Making friends is all about being nt

 

[TACOCEL_]

U dont need to be a chad to make friends just dont act like an autist

 

[White_Bwoi]

nothing to do with looks or black pill. Making friends is all about being nt

Idk mang is more brutal than you can possibly imagine... I had 2 truecel friends in high school (I was GL but ND) and one other guy, HTN+ literally pulled me up from the depths of upcoming inceldom inviting me to the concerts/hangouts with his COOL pack of friends, and never talked to these two TRUECELS
He even told me, literally: "don't hangout with these LOSERS". I saw through the charade only years after, if I was indeed a sub5 like them I would not be invited to the higher echelon

 

[TheBigMike]

that sounds bad op. before work i down 2 shots to lower inhib, maybe that might help? But if you cant form any connections, try to apply to a college far from where you currently live to change yourself

Problem with that is really just money, I live in california so saving money is practically impossible. Trying not to dox myself as much as I can but I live pretty close to LA. My only hope is to find some type of family who will let me live with them, and I transfer to a community college around there. Other than that I'm pretty much fucked

 

[TheBigMike]

what do u look like man. This shit sounds super similiar to DBDR's experience ngl.

I don't feel comfortable posting my face, However I know I'm not completely hideous. I've had long term relationships before, I'm not a virgin (although I just lost it pretty recent, in January of this year.) Played football all four years of highschool and build my body well, even joined school clubs and helped plan school events. I really just never connected to most people either. Im really into technology and computers, I'm currently studying computer engineering right now. Which made outcasted in my own football team because nobody gave two shits about technology, or any of my other hobbies. Im 5'11 which helps, however I'm also Hispanic, which kind of fucks me since that just makes me another average guy in cali.

 

[LimaDummy]

I don't feel comfortable posting my face, However I know I'm not completely hideous. I've had long term relationships before, I'm not a virgin (although I just lost it pretty recent, in January of this year.) Played football all four years of highschool and build my body well, even joined school clubs and helped plan school events. I really just never connected to most people either. Im really into technology and computers, I'm currently studying computer engineering right now. Which made outcasted in my own football team because nobody gave two shits about technology, or any of my other hobbies. Im 5'11 which helps, however I'm also Hispanic, which kind of fucks me since that just makes me another average guy in cali.

bro how did you lose your virginity if your an outcast