How to stop being Beta/cuck/yes man ?

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anons i need some help ?

my work colleagues always dump stuff on me to do there work/ come in for overtimes such as on the weekend?

i started having trouble saying "no"

how do i start saying no to people and standing up to my self and being a authritative person that wont take shit from no one?

also i have no friends/ work mates so no one stands up for me

just my self i have in this world


please help
 
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BE TALL AND MUSCULAR AND WIDE FRAMED THAT IS ALL
 
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just say yes and then don't do it

if they ask you forgot
 
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"anons"
 
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Fasting in Ramadan will help
 
Watch some of owen cooks videos he makes really good points on them

If you are actually interested, let me know and I can link you the ones that helped me
 
There is multipule ways to deal with this. Dependant on how you are, and how they are.

1. argue with them, when they try to do this.
2. have it be so, they don't dare to do this to you.
3. have it be so, they respect or look up to you. that tehy don't do this
4. being silent, and than don't do it. When they complain you didn't do it. Just tell them, that your personality is to not battle/fight; and that they have to learn to be more considerate. Or maybe argue you didn't say yes. But better maybe, blame them for not dealing with you, in a way that fits your personality. Accuse them of being anti social aspies, or dickheads. Claim you are a massive softie, and own it.
5. call in sick, due to stress overload. And tell them, this is the reason.
 
how do i start saying no to people and standing up to my self and being a authritative person that wont take shit from no one?
you have to be well spoken and respected in some way. Stand your ground. If you were a "beta" your whole life I dont know what will trigger the change. I dont know you personally so its hard to say for sure.
 
Inject testosterone
 
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