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I’ve come to the point of accepting that im definitely ND more than NT. I barley ever go out and don’t really get invited to go places maybe that’s just the phase I’m going through in life or because of where I live you need to be in a frat or know people in Greek Life to have motion to go places. I think it’s pretty aids to go out alone that would just make me look like a pussy but one of my roommates who goes out said I should do that I think it’s gay. It’s just annoying to be doing nothing while I’m 21. This probably matters but also might not since it was a long time ago but I got cutoff by all my friends 3 years ago mostly for having a fat ego thinking my best friends girlfriend wanted me bc of looks of interest and her being like flirty as well as her being my best friend for a long time. I told people she liked me and word got out and my friend with the girl said he needed space and people chose sides basically. I’ve talked to him after such a long time and we’re good but I lowkey feel like there’s always a grudge but not sure, and I was thugmaxxing after that my friends found out I got detained on robbing a liquor store but I got let off luckily but most of my friends saw that as the last string basically. After that I was just left with one friend but after a while we just drifted apart.
 
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I’ve come to the point of accepting that im definitely ND more than NT.
Bro you’re either ND or youre not. There’s no such thing as being kinda autistic
 
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Bro you’re either ND or youre not. There’s no such thing as being kinda autistic
You’re right I’m autistic bro it’s just annoying
 
Reincarnate
 
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There’s no stopping it, you will be like this forever at baseline
 
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Bro you’re either ND or youre not. There’s no such thing as being kinda autistic
my mom is kinda autistic

Speed GIF
 
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There’s no stopping it, you will be like this forever at baseline
I’ve accepted it but I need to pivot and balance it out some how
 
Bro all you need is being low inhib and talking to as much people as possible.
Best possible way is the following:
1. Drink. Just right amount. Not drunk bit a bit tipsy where you are more social.
2. Go clubbing. Talk with as much people as possible.
3. Ideally you take a friend with you that's NT and social.

Repeat this for 6 months and you'll become NT after some while.
 
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go out, observe how people interact

force yourself to be the same. NEVER say the word that comes in ur mind instantly. take a second to think

and look inbetween their forehead, every min or so look at something else than back.
 
just dont talk to people and portray urself as mysterious and become an opium soundcloud rapper
I feel like I already try to not talk to people and be mysterious but I honestly think that it doesn’t work
 
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Bro all you need is being low inhib and talking to as much people as possible.
Best possible way is the following:
1. Drink. Just right amount. Not drunk bit a bit tipsy where you are more social.
2. Go clubbing. Talk with as much people as possible.
3. Ideally you take a friend with you that's NT and social.

Repeat this for 6 months and you'll become NT after some while.
Sounds good I will see if I can make this happen thanks bro I need to balance it out
 
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I’ve come to the point of accepting that im definitely ND more than NT. I barley ever go out and don’t really get invited to go places maybe that’s just the phase I’m going through in life or because of where I live you need to be in a frat or know people in Greek Life to have motion to go places. I think it’s pretty aids to go out alone that would just make me look like a pussy but one of my roommates who goes out said I should do that I think it’s gay. It’s just annoying to be doing nothing while I’m 21. This probably matters but also might not since it was a long time ago but I got cutoff by all my friends 3 years ago mostly for having a fat ego thinking my best friends girlfriend wanted me bc of looks of interest and her being like flirty as well as her being my best friend for a long time. I told people she liked me and word got out and my friend with the girl said he needed space and people chose sides basically. I’ve talked to him after such a long time and we’re good but I lowkey feel like there’s always a grudge but not sure, and I was thugmaxxing after that my friends found out I got detained on robbing a liquor store but I got let off luckily but most of my friends saw that as the last string basically. After that I was just left with one friend but after a while we just drifted apart.
nigga, do you even know what ND is?, is literally a different way to think, you can't change your biology lol, you can fraud it too.
 
I feel like I already try to not talk to people and be mysterious but I honestly think that it doesn’t work
i was joking about the last part but im not nd myself but ive just experienced more peace not talking to my peers
 
nigga, do you even know what ND is?, is literally a different way to think, you can't change your biology lol, you can fraud it too.
Buddy ik what it is im just realizing and accepting it. When I said “more than” I meant it in a way that, it’s what I am.
 
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i was joking about the last part but im not nd myself but ive just experienced more peace not talking to my peers
Yeah I know you were joking, I can respect that for sure it just depends on the situation, environment, and where you are
 
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Shotgun blast to the brain followed up with reincarnation to middle class white mtn+ in a western country is the only cure.

Anxitey/depression can be fixed temporarily with drugs, but being apsie is a curse and you will get reminded every day how your mannerisms alone is enough to warrant disgust from normies.

//SubSigma
 
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Shotgun blast to the brain followed up with reincarnation to middle class white mtn+ in a western country is the only cure.

Anxitey/depression can be fixed temporarily with drugs, but being apsie is a curse and you will get reminded every day how your mannerisms alone is enough to warrant disgust from normies.

//SubSigma
I live in America ✅
High middle class ✅
Mtn+ ✅
I don’t think I’m apsie I’m a genuine person. My mannerisms might be cursed but that’s not enough to kms. I’ve slayed before it’s just been a long fucking time. I’m just annoyed about dealing with this shit.
 
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Shotgun blast to the brain followed up with reincarnation to middle class white mtn+ in a western country is the only cure.

Anxitey/depression can be fixed temporarily with drugs, but being apsie is a curse and you will get reminded every day how your mannerisms alone is enough to warrant disgust from normies.

//SubSigma
Nigga @ed himself at the end 😭
 
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Can't change brain wiring it's in your DNA
 
I live in America ✅
High middle class ✅
Mtn+ ✅
I don’t think I’m apsie I’m a genuine person. My mannerisms might be cursed but that’s not enough to kms. I’ve slayed before it’s just been a long fucking time. I’m just annoyed about dealing with this shit.
Similar position as you, but I recommend you geomaxx to EE. I have been in poland for a while, and I have been with girls that look like models compared to American women. Being american and mtn+ can get you a slavic staceylite easily tbh.

//SubSigma
 
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I’ve come to the point of accepting that im definitely ND more than NT. I barley ever go out and don’t really get invited to go places maybe that’s just the phase I’m going through in life or because of where I live you need to be in a frat or know people in Greek Life to have motion to go places. I think it’s pretty aids to go out alone that would just make me look like a pussy but one of my roommates who goes out said I should do that I think it’s gay. It’s just annoying to be doing nothing while I’m 21. This probably matters but also might not since it was a long time ago but I got cutoff by all my friends 3 years ago mostly for having a fat ego thinking my best friends girlfriend wanted me bc of looks of interest and her being like flirty as well as her being my best friend for a long time. I told people she liked me and word got out and my friend with the girl said he needed space and people chose sides basically. I’ve talked to him after such a long time and we’re good but I lowkey feel like there’s always a grudge but not sure, and I was thugmaxxing after that my friends found out I got detained on robbing a liquor store but I got let off luckily but most of my friends saw that as the last string basically. After that I was just left with one friend but after a while we just drifted apart.
NDs cannot change their brains
 
I’ve come to the point of accepting that im definitely ND more than NT. I barley ever go out and don’t really get invited to go places maybe that’s just the phase I’m going through in life or because of where I live you need to be in a frat or know people in Greek Life to have motion to go places. I think it’s pretty aids to go out alone that would just make me look like a pussy but one of my roommates who goes out said I should do that I think it’s gay. It’s just annoying to be doing nothing while I’m 21. This probably matters but also might not since it was a long time ago but I got cutoff by all my friends 3 years ago mostly for having a fat ego thinking my best friends girlfriend wanted me bc of looks of interest and her being like flirty as well as her being my best friend for a long time. I told people she liked me and word got out and my friend with the girl said he needed space and people chose sides basically. I’ve talked to him after such a long time and we’re good but I lowkey feel like there’s always a grudge but not sure, and I was thugmaxxing after that my friends found out I got detained on robbing a liquor store but I got let off luckily but most of my friends saw that as the last string basically. After that I was just left with one friend but after a while we just drifted apart.
"Just rewire your brain bro" JFL
 
I’ve come to the point of accepting that im definitely ND more than NT. I barley ever go out and don’t really get invited to go places maybe that’s just the phase I’m going through in life or because of where I live you need to be in a frat or know people in Greek Life to have motion to go places. I think it’s pretty aids to go out alone that would just make me look like a pussy but one of my roommates who goes out said I should do that I think it’s gay. It’s just annoying to be doing nothing while I’m 21. This probably matters but also might not since it was a long time ago but I got cutoff by all my friends 3 years ago mostly for having a fat ego thinking my best friends girlfriend wanted me bc of looks of interest and her being like flirty as well as her being my best friend for a long time. I told people she liked me and word got out and my friend with the girl said he needed space and people chose sides basically. I’ve talked to him after such a long time and we’re good but I lowkey feel like there’s always a grudge but not sure, and I was thugmaxxing after that my friends found out I got detained on robbing a liquor store but I got let off luckily but most of my friends saw that as the last string basically. After that I was just left with one friend but after a while we just drifted apart.
U cant
 
certain drugs might help
 
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I feel like I already try to not talk to people and be mysterious but I honestly think that it doesn’t work
trying to act mysterious as an autist only makes you look much more autistic
 
trying to act mysterious as an autist only makes you look much more autistic
I just don’t really give a fuck tbh all I need to do is cold approach realistically
 
Similar position as you, but I recommend you geomaxx to EE. I have been in poland for a while, and I have been with girls that look like models compared to American women. Being american and mtn+ can get you a slavic staceylite easily tbh.

//SubSigma
How do you get foids in Poland?

Cold approach? Warm approach? Tinder? Club? Bar? Hobbies?
 
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How do you get foids in Poland?

Cold approach? Warm approach? Tinder? Club? Bar? Hobbies?
All of the above but I haven’t tried hobbies yet. I might try a run club. Cold approach in a bar setting works the best, but I recommend you go with friends. Strike up a casual conversation and offer to buy shots. That works the best. I had some success on tinder but mostly with Ukrainian/Belarusian women. I haven’t tried cold approach outside of a bar setting cause poles have autistic level social skills. Some of my friends have and it works sometimes.

//SubSigma
 
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All of the above but I haven’t tried hobbies yet. I might try a run club. Cold approach in a bar setting works the best, but I recommend you go with friends. Strike up a casual conversation and offer to buy shots. That works the best. I had some success on tinder but mostly with Ukrainian/Belarusian women. I haven’t tried cold approach outside of a bar setting cause poles have autistic level social skills. Some of my friends have and it works sometimes.

//SubSigma
Nice insight

But on Tinder it is easy to hard to get alot of matches in Poland?
 
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Nice insight

But on Tinder it is easy to hard to get alot of matches in Poland?
It’s easy compared to the US cause there are significantly better options, but Polish women are very westernized, so you will run into Similar issues with hypergamy/entitlement. If you explicitly say in your bio you are an American, then you will get a slight smv boost.

//SubSigma
 
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It’s easy compared to the US cause there are significantly better options, but Polish women are very westernized, so you will run into Similar issues with hypergamy/entitlement. If you explicitly say in your bio you are an American, then you will get a slight smv boost.

//SubSigma
if I want LTR with a polish girl, how do I ensure it last long with them?
 

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