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when will i get invited to a party, or to just go out anywhere by people my age
most get invited but not me ofc
when will it change
rotting my teens away
sucks
 
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youre probably just high inhib and bad at conversating -> people think youre weird and wont want to hang out with you. its not true that u need to be super GL to go to parties in high school, just make friends with the right people (easier said than done tho haha)
 
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possible, but i dont think i come off as aspie
there are aspier people than me out there
youre probably just high inhib and bad at conversating -> people think youre weird and wont want to hang out with you. its not true that u need to be super GL to go to parties in high school, just make friends with the right people (easier said than done tho haha)
 
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possible, but i dont think i come off as aspie
there are aspier people than me out there
if thats the case then I honestly dk why. I will say that after u get invited to one party it gets way easier, assuming everyones drunk youll meet tons of people and start getting invited back (only if youre actually normal inhib like u say). also IMO the club > parties, just go clubbing with ur friends instead
 
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possible, but i dont think i come off as aspie
there are aspier people than me out there
if thats the case then I honestly dk why. I will say that after u get invited to one party it gets way easier, assuming everyones drunk youll meet tons of people and start getting invited back (only if youre actually normal inhib like u say). also IMO the club > parties, just go clubbing with ur friends instead
 
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look better or dont weird people out
 
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possible, but i dont think i come off as aspie
there are aspier people than me out there
if thats the case then I honestly dk why. I will say that after u get invited to one party it gets way easier, assuming everyones drunk youll meet tons of people and start getting invited back (only if youre actually normal inhib like u say). also IMO the club > parties, just go clubbing with ur friends instead IDK if it’s just on my end but my fuck ass wifi made this response post 3 times my bad
 
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look better or dont weird people out
 
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if thats the case then I honestly dk why. I will say that after u get invited to one party it gets way easier, assuming everyones drunk youll meet tons of people and start getting invited back (only if youre actually normal inhib like u say). also IMO the club > parties, just go clubbing with ur friends instead
clubbing sucks + barely any friends
 
clubbing sucks + barely any friends
“i’m not aspie” “barely any friends” :ROFLMAO:. also clubbing is as fun as u make it, but it does depend on where u are, US clubs seem shitty but european clubs are so much better than some random house party haha
 
when will i get invited to a party, or to just go out anywhere by people my age
most get invited but not me ofc
when will it change
rotting my teens away
sucks
Be nt
 
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bruh ur fucking ND ass is crying about getting leftout from parties
if i was you (i’m nd aswell) i’d rather rot 24/7 on this shitty forum than going to a party where are only NT people
 
i dont weird anyone out i think
I can’t tell you if you do or not so you have to be realistic as to what the problem of you not having a social life is
 
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bruh ur fucking ND ass is crying about getting leftout from parties
if i was you (i’m nd aswell) i’d rather rot 24/7 on this shitty forum than going to a party where are only NT people
after a while rotting gets boring
 

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