How to stop cancelling important shit and dropping out all the time

[Luquier]

This is ruining my life, same w/ detachment/apathy coping

@Jason Voorhees @Eltrē @Banned User @soulless_npc @thereallegend

 

[Eltrē]

You just gotta do it, find some way to motivate yourself.
You can also use substances to help, stimulants could help you out.

Most people don't really want to do shit, but they force themselves to for their family & pussy usually.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Just do it

 

[soulless_npc]

As redpilled as it sounds it was always pussy that motivated me. I connected making money = pussy, just as the boomers had told me. This is what always kept me going when I was suffering at work.

But then you get older, and pussy doesn't happen, and you see people a decade younger than you getting what you want with a fraction of the effort, or you live in a house with unemployed Tyrone who has threesomes, or across the street from rich kids who have wild crazy sex parties and never go to work, and something just doesn't add up.

 

[thereallegend]

Give me examples. Are you cancelling hanging out with your friends? Did you drop out of college? To me the inability to finish goals is a problem of attention span. Too many distractions and you'll never finish anything. Avoiding socializing is a thing where you feel you're not good enough to hang with certain people. It's not just in your head. Increase your SMV and LMS. Then you'll feel confident in any social circle.

 

[Luquier]

Give me examples. Are you cancelling hanging out with your friends? Did you drop out of college? To me the inability to finish goals is a problem of attention span. Too many distractions and you'll never finish anything. Avoiding socializing is a thing where you feel you're not good enough to hang with certain people. It's not just in your head. Increase your SMV and LMS. Then you'll feel confident in any social circle.

I’m incapable of getting a job

My productivity is 100% consumed by distractions and timewastes to the point I can’t even jobhunt properly

My social life is nonexistent and always has been