unlovednormie
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Hi guys,
My question is kind of weird for a lot of men but how do I actually stop giving a shit about girls, I recently realized that getting women might actually be worse than actually being an incel, it might sound weird but I really felt better in life overall before I ascended so about 1 year and a half ago. Now that I do get girls without even trying I feel like a confused human being, that envy that I had toward women, kind of dreaming about them when I was clearly unattractive and couldn't get no bitches, all of that disappeared so fast I couldn't really process what was happening at the time. I did use to be happy about getting women after years of being ugly but now it just feels exhausting, months are passing by and you feel trapped in an infinite loop where you realize the weight of having a woman in your head is far worse than getting none. She could be the nicest woman you've met but there is always a damn thing that's going to hurt you. That's how I feel about my situation rn, for example I recently hooked up with a girl who asked my gram at the gym and somehow she got in my head in just 2 days when in reality I just wanted to have sex with her, she's not particularly attractive when it comes down to her looks, but her personnality is so incredibly good she genuinely fucked me up in such a short period of time, however that girl is 25, she has now 17 bodycounts and ofc she hangouts with a lot of other dudes and while i try to act unbothered, deep down it is disturbing asf, and knowing that she could be my soulmate kind of hurts ngl. And that's just one of many similar situations i've been in. How could I just ignore my own feelings, if anyone was in the same situation as me how did you get out of it it's really fucking me up rn. All I wanted was a loyal girlfriend I could later marry and found a family and i just ended up doing the opposite by fucking random girls for no reason and somehow some of them get in my head...
Could that also be because i'm only 19 and I didn't experience life enough yet ? I legit need answers
Thanks for reading allat and i hope to hear back from you guys!
My question is kind of weird for a lot of men but how do I actually stop giving a shit about girls, I recently realized that getting women might actually be worse than actually being an incel, it might sound weird but I really felt better in life overall before I ascended so about 1 year and a half ago. Now that I do get girls without even trying I feel like a confused human being, that envy that I had toward women, kind of dreaming about them when I was clearly unattractive and couldn't get no bitches, all of that disappeared so fast I couldn't really process what was happening at the time. I did use to be happy about getting women after years of being ugly but now it just feels exhausting, months are passing by and you feel trapped in an infinite loop where you realize the weight of having a woman in your head is far worse than getting none. She could be the nicest woman you've met but there is always a damn thing that's going to hurt you. That's how I feel about my situation rn, for example I recently hooked up with a girl who asked my gram at the gym and somehow she got in my head in just 2 days when in reality I just wanted to have sex with her, she's not particularly attractive when it comes down to her looks, but her personnality is so incredibly good she genuinely fucked me up in such a short period of time, however that girl is 25, she has now 17 bodycounts and ofc she hangouts with a lot of other dudes and while i try to act unbothered, deep down it is disturbing asf, and knowing that she could be my soulmate kind of hurts ngl. And that's just one of many similar situations i've been in. How could I just ignore my own feelings, if anyone was in the same situation as me how did you get out of it it's really fucking me up rn. All I wanted was a loyal girlfriend I could later marry and found a family and i just ended up doing the opposite by fucking random girls for no reason and somehow some of them get in my head...
Could that also be because i'm only 19 and I didn't experience life enough yet ? I legit need answers
Thanks for reading allat and i hope to hear back from you guys!
