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How can I still love my girlfriend but detach my self from her at the same time?

I say this because of a quote I remembered

“Attachment is the root of all suffering”

I’m tired of being sad all the time because I be overthinking everything thing she does that I don’t like.
 
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retard
 
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realize that you are going to die one day and no matter what you do the outcome is the same
 
How can I still love my girlfriend but detach my self from her at the same time?

I say this because of a quote I remembered

“Attachment is the root of all suffering”

I’m tired of being sad all the time because I be overthinking everything thing she does that I don’t like.
You are not a Jedi master bro 😭
 
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slay and dip
 
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How can I still love my girlfriend but detach my self from her at the same time?

I say this because of a quote I remembered

“Attachment is the root of all suffering”

I’m tired of being sad all the time because I be overthinking everything thing she does that I don’t like.
Jbg
 
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2 options

Read Meditations by Marcus Areleius and implement practices

or

Be born low inhibition
 
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If you fully believe in it you'll change a lot
How can I fully believe in it though? Like I know I can just tell myself though but how can I put that type of philosophy in action.
 
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Attachment can lead to suffering but being completely detached removes any happiness.
I’m attached to her right now and I’m sad 90% of the time because of my overthinking
 
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ashawaganda :blackpill:
 
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How can I fully believe in it though? Like I know I can just tell myself though but how can I put that type of philosophy in action.
it's something that happens over the years, of course you can't just flip a switch, start thinking about often when you're stressing about something
 
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How can I still love my girlfriend but detach my self from her at the same time?

I say this because of a quote I remembered

“Attachment is the root of all suffering”

I’m tired of being sad all the time because I be overthinking everything thing she does that I don’t like.
is not that serious
 
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it's something that happens over the years, of course you can't just flip a switch, start thinking about often when you're stressing about something
Alright, I’ll try thank you❤️
 
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