How to stop crying under pressure?

[InertiaBoy]

Everytime i am in an extreme cortisol spiking situation, eg parents yelling at me, when i get scolded at the school directory, when i get into an argument/fight with someone etc etc i always have the urge to cry, usually i can control it to where tears don't start flooding out of my eyes but my voice always gets shakier, my eyes always become red, i have that uncomfortable lump in my throat and sometimes little tears do come out

How do i stop this and what causes this? Symptom of being raped as a child? It makes me look like a bitch ass nigga

 

[Sub->CL]

Ok! If you claim to have telepathic power then tell me:
What colour is my ballsack?

 

[InertiaBoy]

Ok! If you claim to have telepathic power then tell me:
What colour is my ballsack?

Brown

 

[Skitsuna]

same, we have the same exact problem

 

[InertiaBoy]

same, we have the same exact problem

What do you think might have caused it for you

 

[Skitsuna]

What do you think might have caused it for you

No clue, maybe getting beat by my parents when I was a kid or my bad experiences in elementary school

Kinda like abused dog syndrome idk

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

Everytime i am in an extreme cortisol spiking situation, eg parents yelling at me, when i get scolded at the school directory, when i get into an argument/fight with someone etc etc i always have the urge to cry, usually i can control it to where tears don't start flooding out of my eyes but my voice always gets shakier, my eyes always become red, i have that uncomfortable lump in my throat and sometimes little tears do come out

How do i stop this and what causes this? Symptom of being raped as a child? It makes me look like a bitch ass nigga

this is pretty normal if you dont overdo it
happens to me too
i wanna hug you (no homo)

 

[Francisco_Bs]

Everytime i am in an extreme cortisol spiking situation, eg parents yelling at me, when i get scolded at the school directory, when i get into an argument/fight with someone etc etc i always have the urge to cry, usually i can control it to where tears don't start flooding out of my eyes but my voice always gets shakier, my eyes always become red, i have that uncomfortable lump in my throat and sometimes little tears do come out

How do i stop this and what causes this? Symptom of being raped as a child? It makes me look like a bitch ass nigga

Cuz ur not high t

 

[InertiaBoy]

Cuz ur not high t

Not really
I have no problem actually being confrontational but this just automatically happens, i don't even feel sad, scared etc

 

[User_1293]

Everytime i am in an extreme cortisol spiking situation, eg parents yelling at me, when i get scolded at the school directory, when i get into an argument/fight with someone etc etc i always have the urge to cry, usually i can control it to where tears don't start flooding out of my eyes but my voice always gets shakier, my eyes always become red, i have that uncomfortable lump in my throat and sometimes little tears do come out

How do i stop this and what causes this? Symptom of being raped as a child? It makes me look like a bitch ass nigga

I get it also sometimes when I am angry feels super wierd