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There are a variety of ways to be psychologically abusive in a relationship and that is what this thread will be discussing today
This is not a slaying guide per se this will not help you slay, you've gotta be chad for that
This guide is just how to be psychologically abusive toward women
Why would we want to be abusive psychologically to women
there are many reasons why it would be of a benefit to do so i will list a few reasons why and then we will dive into other facets of psychological abuse and how to do it
Some reasons
* Psychological self defence, maybe they are being abusive toward you
* Women to some extent want to be abused psychologically
* Idealogical reasons, eg you may have a passion or set of values or a vision, that may Incline you to want to abuse women
* Sexual dominance
* Policing of a system you disagree with, so basically not liking the way the world is run and taking matters into your own hands, a good free thinking trait
* Because they are cunts
* Giving people what is due to them and giving them what they deserve
* Maintaing a relationship
* Other reasons
Those are 9 good reasons you might want to consider psychological abuse as an option in your future relationships
Some observations I have made about psychological abuse ( my learnings)
And some facts about abuse
Women like being abused especially by good looking men
What I have concluded is that the abusive behaviour that you unleash on a woman she will automatically receive that as her own power, basically if she sleeps with you she believes that those arsehole traits are in her arsenal of defensive weaponry thus she feels protected and actually likes the abuse as it's a demonstration of a capability that she benefits from
I will give an example
The US navy sank it's own aircraft carrier in a military exercise, using bombs, airstrikes, missiles, etc, it was tough to sink but eventually they sank it
Now was the US navy unhappy that there ship was sank. No they liked it and the US military liked it because it demonstrated what there weapons could do to sink a ship which made them feel empowered.
Women are similar when you abuse them your using psychological weapons against them, and those women consider those weapons as part of there own arsenal of weaponry because they are sleeping with you so assume they are on the same side, the more painful the abuse the more they like it,
on the flip side it probably makes them want to sleep with you to gain access to the emotions that tell them it's a shared capability
But isn't this water
Yea it is but people don't get that there is a wrong and right way to do it, and people understand it to a brand but not really properly.
There are many studies indicating women like abuse although they are not at the forefront of literature for obvious reasons.
HOW TO BE PSYCHOLOGICALLY ABUSIVE TECHNIQUES AND HOW TO DO IT
I think there are two states of mind in which you could be abusive, one is in a free flowing state, the other is concious calculated state
What do those terms mean, they mean what they sound like self explanatory
I think the concious calculated way is better although it's more effort and has less natural skill, it sees more is capable of accessing higher iq information and when your in this state of mind your cognition is still taking frequent dips in the free flowing state, so you still have access to natural skill, basically you get the best of both worlds,
Also the calculated concious state is far better at observation. You should use both though.
The calculated concious is observational (less low inhib but sees more reads the room better, still capable of low inhib)
Calculated conscious will- organise the information you have gathered while in the free flowing state
The free flowing is reactionary (more likely to be low inhib, but will miss important information)
Free flowing will- gather information but won't know what to do with it or what it means
I will discuss the calculated conscious framework cause if your doing the other one your probably not really aware of it anyway itl happen naturally on its own working in the background as will the calculated concious
launching your abuse from the calculated conscious
Reading the emotional atmosphere emotional intelligence and reading the room are all important skills to do abuse and they occour through observation
Eq is as important as iq
How to hurt someone through these methods
Look at the vibe look at body language, and look at patterns, observe patterns to figure out what bubble they live in, the ego lives in this bubble aswell, so here is how to hurt women
Many people live in some sort of bubble and the biggest weakness of this is that it somewhat arrogantly assumes a level of safety and thus leaves sections of the ego or the self undefended (unhumbled)
What I mean by defence is not insecurity, the only successful defence that is actually legit and not coping insecurity is humility, humility is the only defence
But people in bubbles lack humility thus a true credible defence, because humility won't let you live in a bubble
So your goal is to attack those undefended areas, to do this you need to understand
A- what sort of bubble they are in and
B- how the real world works relative to their bubble
This will be difficult if you live in a bubble yourself
You have to attack the most sensitive and vulnerable parts that are left undefended in their ego by understanding their bubble which is a construct of their ego
How to understand someone's bubble and reading patterns that tell you so
I'll give some demonstrations or examples
Just a random example
You meet a woman and you can straight away tell that she is uppity slightly hipster into sort of spiritual kind of astronomy stuff and likes music the left field kind, and left wing
She is comfortable in this world, and has a built in assumption that it's safe, and all the people within it are safe.
What you need to do is briefly temporarily become the male version of that or just some citizen of that world, become a sortnof member of the bubble, you can do it in like 15 minutes if youve got eq and can read the vibe. Then entail some of the attributes that she likes, then out of nowhere be a complete cunt, tell her with a casual jaded sincerity that she is stupid will amount to nothing gets nothing done bring to light the filthiness of her waking up at 10 am and is a lazy sack of shit wearing baggy jeans and retarded bracelets that are shit and a stupid gemstones necklace that could get you strangled in the streets if you weren't lucky enough to live in a affluent area
This will destroy her ego because you did the damage from within the bubble those are the parts her ego left undefended so it will hurt more.
Whereas if you did your attack from outside her bubble it would not hurt her as much because it's not attacking her sense of self and her ego,
So for example it would not work as good if you were a trump supporter and far right wing and roasted her from that position cause her defences are already up on that area.
Attacking from within there bubble will shake there whole world veiw destroy their ego their sense of self sense of identity and will leave them thoroughly hurt
Now you might be wondering what if there not that girl, but they don't have to be.
Even if they are very mainstream and normie there still likely living in some sort of bubble, you need to figure out what it is using eq and observation and seeing patterns than infiltrate it be a npc member or member of that bubble than be a cunt out of nowhere.
Being a temporary citizen of the bubble does not mean joining a social circle, you can do it as a random stranger it just means blending in and making them think your one of them.
Even better temporarily embody some of the qualities that they love and respect, and than be a complete arsehole, that will really shake their world veiw I promise you.
You can do this to women you've just met or are currently in a relationship with
MANIPULATION
Manipulation should be covert and you should always operate in a way that you can never get caught you can't say anything that could trace it back to Manipulation,
The thing with women is they are manipulative themselves, but the good news I find is that manipulative people are actually easier to manipulate, you just make them believe your buying there bullshit, once you do this they will reveal more information about there intentions, once you have this it becomes easy to manipulate them.
They are likely operating in the free flowing state, so they have less awareness that they are kinda giving the game away and are blowing their cover, you on the other hand are operating in the calculated conscious so you'll be thinking more steps ahead.
Some tips and tricks
- don't wear your heart on your sleeve, don't tell it how it is, save all that shit for the perfect moment
- Don't reveal how strong tough you are in front of both men and women, this means that they have to make assumptions about how strong you are, you observe these assumptions and it will be very telling of who they are and how strong they are, that will be useful information for you
- When roasting a bitch be stroppy and use basic vocabulary avoid educated complex vocabulary, use basic words but that have a good point say it in an agitated way yet still calm and uncaring
- Don't try to hard, you risk abandoning the free flow state and you will seem obvious and it won't be as good
There is many more ways that I know of to psychologically abuse them but this thread is getting long and people won't read, or they might not read anyway.
This is not a slaying guide per se this will not help you slay, you've gotta be chad for that
This guide is just how to be psychologically abusive toward women
Why would we want to be abusive psychologically to women
there are many reasons why it would be of a benefit to do so i will list a few reasons why and then we will dive into other facets of psychological abuse and how to do it
Some reasons
* Psychological self defence, maybe they are being abusive toward you
* Women to some extent want to be abused psychologically
* Idealogical reasons, eg you may have a passion or set of values or a vision, that may Incline you to want to abuse women
* Sexual dominance
* Policing of a system you disagree with, so basically not liking the way the world is run and taking matters into your own hands, a good free thinking trait
* Because they are cunts
* Giving people what is due to them and giving them what they deserve
* Maintaing a relationship
* Other reasons
Those are 9 good reasons you might want to consider psychological abuse as an option in your future relationships
Some observations I have made about psychological abuse ( my learnings)
And some facts about abuse
Women like being abused especially by good looking men
What I have concluded is that the abusive behaviour that you unleash on a woman she will automatically receive that as her own power, basically if she sleeps with you she believes that those arsehole traits are in her arsenal of defensive weaponry thus she feels protected and actually likes the abuse as it's a demonstration of a capability that she benefits from
I will give an example
The US navy sank it's own aircraft carrier in a military exercise, using bombs, airstrikes, missiles, etc, it was tough to sink but eventually they sank it
Now was the US navy unhappy that there ship was sank. No they liked it and the US military liked it because it demonstrated what there weapons could do to sink a ship which made them feel empowered.
Women are similar when you abuse them your using psychological weapons against them, and those women consider those weapons as part of there own arsenal of weaponry because they are sleeping with you so assume they are on the same side, the more painful the abuse the more they like it,
on the flip side it probably makes them want to sleep with you to gain access to the emotions that tell them it's a shared capability
But isn't this water
Yea it is but people don't get that there is a wrong and right way to do it, and people understand it to a brand but not really properly.
There are many studies indicating women like abuse although they are not at the forefront of literature for obvious reasons.
HOW TO BE PSYCHOLOGICALLY ABUSIVE TECHNIQUES AND HOW TO DO IT
I think there are two states of mind in which you could be abusive, one is in a free flowing state, the other is concious calculated state
What do those terms mean, they mean what they sound like self explanatory
I think the concious calculated way is better although it's more effort and has less natural skill, it sees more is capable of accessing higher iq information and when your in this state of mind your cognition is still taking frequent dips in the free flowing state, so you still have access to natural skill, basically you get the best of both worlds,
Also the calculated concious state is far better at observation. You should use both though.
The calculated concious is observational (less low inhib but sees more reads the room better, still capable of low inhib)
Calculated conscious will- organise the information you have gathered while in the free flowing state
The free flowing is reactionary (more likely to be low inhib, but will miss important information)
Free flowing will- gather information but won't know what to do with it or what it means
I will discuss the calculated conscious framework cause if your doing the other one your probably not really aware of it anyway itl happen naturally on its own working in the background as will the calculated concious
launching your abuse from the calculated conscious
Reading the emotional atmosphere emotional intelligence and reading the room are all important skills to do abuse and they occour through observation
Eq is as important as iq
How to hurt someone through these methods
Look at the vibe look at body language, and look at patterns, observe patterns to figure out what bubble they live in, the ego lives in this bubble aswell, so here is how to hurt women
Many people live in some sort of bubble and the biggest weakness of this is that it somewhat arrogantly assumes a level of safety and thus leaves sections of the ego or the self undefended (unhumbled)
What I mean by defence is not insecurity, the only successful defence that is actually legit and not coping insecurity is humility, humility is the only defence
But people in bubbles lack humility thus a true credible defence, because humility won't let you live in a bubble
So your goal is to attack those undefended areas, to do this you need to understand
A- what sort of bubble they are in and
B- how the real world works relative to their bubble
This will be difficult if you live in a bubble yourself
You have to attack the most sensitive and vulnerable parts that are left undefended in their ego by understanding their bubble which is a construct of their ego
How to understand someone's bubble and reading patterns that tell you so
I'll give some demonstrations or examples
Just a random example
You meet a woman and you can straight away tell that she is uppity slightly hipster into sort of spiritual kind of astronomy stuff and likes music the left field kind, and left wing
She is comfortable in this world, and has a built in assumption that it's safe, and all the people within it are safe.
What you need to do is briefly temporarily become the male version of that or just some citizen of that world, become a sortnof member of the bubble, you can do it in like 15 minutes if youve got eq and can read the vibe. Then entail some of the attributes that she likes, then out of nowhere be a complete cunt, tell her with a casual jaded sincerity that she is stupid will amount to nothing gets nothing done bring to light the filthiness of her waking up at 10 am and is a lazy sack of shit wearing baggy jeans and retarded bracelets that are shit and a stupid gemstones necklace that could get you strangled in the streets if you weren't lucky enough to live in a affluent area
This will destroy her ego because you did the damage from within the bubble those are the parts her ego left undefended so it will hurt more.
Whereas if you did your attack from outside her bubble it would not hurt her as much because it's not attacking her sense of self and her ego,
So for example it would not work as good if you were a trump supporter and far right wing and roasted her from that position cause her defences are already up on that area.
Attacking from within there bubble will shake there whole world veiw destroy their ego their sense of self sense of identity and will leave them thoroughly hurt
Now you might be wondering what if there not that girl, but they don't have to be.
Even if they are very mainstream and normie there still likely living in some sort of bubble, you need to figure out what it is using eq and observation and seeing patterns than infiltrate it be a npc member or member of that bubble than be a cunt out of nowhere.
Being a temporary citizen of the bubble does not mean joining a social circle, you can do it as a random stranger it just means blending in and making them think your one of them.
Even better temporarily embody some of the qualities that they love and respect, and than be a complete arsehole, that will really shake their world veiw I promise you.
You can do this to women you've just met or are currently in a relationship with
MANIPULATION
Manipulation should be covert and you should always operate in a way that you can never get caught you can't say anything that could trace it back to Manipulation,
The thing with women is they are manipulative themselves, but the good news I find is that manipulative people are actually easier to manipulate, you just make them believe your buying there bullshit, once you do this they will reveal more information about there intentions, once you have this it becomes easy to manipulate them.
They are likely operating in the free flowing state, so they have less awareness that they are kinda giving the game away and are blowing their cover, you on the other hand are operating in the calculated conscious so you'll be thinking more steps ahead.
Some tips and tricks
- don't wear your heart on your sleeve, don't tell it how it is, save all that shit for the perfect moment
- Don't reveal how strong tough you are in front of both men and women, this means that they have to make assumptions about how strong you are, you observe these assumptions and it will be very telling of who they are and how strong they are, that will be useful information for you
- When roasting a bitch be stroppy and use basic vocabulary avoid educated complex vocabulary, use basic words but that have a good point say it in an agitated way yet still calm and uncaring
- Don't try to hard, you risk abandoning the free flow state and you will seem obvious and it won't be as good
There is many more ways that I know of to psychologically abuse them but this thread is getting long and people won't read, or they might not read anyway.
