How To Tell If A Women Actually Likes you !!!

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Nearly 40k likes for what I though was a decent IOI turns out I was wrong. Touchy feely girls also not an IOI , some are just like that. Approaching women is a humiliation ritual they don't give a shit about making themselves interested IRL. Most of them are on dating apps anyways :

Nearly 1600 likes , why would a women want a normie to approach her IRL when she has chads and CL in her hinge inbox begging to go out with her. Dating in 2026 is truly over , sub-8 theory was true all along. The OP made her fat and she still got 500 likes , fml can't even dumpster dive these days.
In conclusion , I will no longer approach unless I get the fuck me eyes , you know when she looks at you like she has just done a line of cocaine , only experienced this a handful of times fml. Hopefully , if I can save at least one cold approach coper from humilation and ropefuel I will be happy :forcedsmile:. If anyone else knows any IOI that have greater than 60% certainty let me know.
 
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they're retarded, just made a thread about the same thing
 
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I still see subhumans with girlfriends how is that
 
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In conclusion , I will no longer approach unless I get the fuck me eyes
This is a good way to do it. When a woman wants you, you WILL see and feel it. There's nothing like IOI's, it's all made up by social media with no real basis.

It's inbedded into our brains to know when a mating partner wants you
 
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I still see subhumans with girlfriends how is that
I know right , Benny Blanco , Barry Keoghan and Pete Davidson all disprove the blackpill. Always remember niche celebrity exceptions disprove the rule and these relationships are happy and long lasting.
 
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This is a good way to do it. When a woman wants you, you WILL see and feel it. There's nothing like IOI's, it's all made up by social media with no real basis.

It's inbedded into our brains to know when a mating partner wants you
100 % true if you are unsure she likes you , she probably doesn't.
 
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@shandingo 2:31 if you want to see the best part of this
No yeah it's a classic. I was this naive at 13 not however old this geezer is :ROFLMAO: . Surely there is no such thing as a sub-5 blue piller man, after embarrassing and humiliating themselves by approaching women who give them so called "IOIs" enough times they realise that they can never get genuine attraction , double digit IQs man.
 
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No yeah it's a classic. I was this naive at 13 not however old this geezer is :ROFLMAO: . Surely there is no such thing as a sub-5 blue piller man, after embarrassing and humiliating themselves by approaching women who give them so called "IOIs" enough times they realise that they can never get genuine attraction , double digit IQs man.
He didn't grow up in a time when BP was mainstream so he had to figure it out the hard way, and although I'm not as old as he is the same is true for me to a degree since I didn't know what blackpill was till 19, but I was becoming far more aware of life and society long before then.

I can understand why he wanted to think this was her flirting with him because if you're a lonely incel you're so starved of female attention your mind naturally grasps at straws and thinks things are more significant than they are just like how a starving person would wanna eat the scraps you throw out.

Jfl when I was 14 I thought that some girl having a normal conversation for me in the last 10 minutes of class meant she had interest in me because girls almost never even had basic conversation with me. Then at 18 I thought it meant something when the gym clerk told me happy birthday when she was checking me in and seen that it was my birthday. Jfl for a while I was thinking about this encounter and wondering if I missed an opportunity there and was a dumbass for not asking her out since that seemed like more of an ioi than I ever had before.

These things are just like his pies are hot experience. The women saying them mean absolutely nothing besides surface level friendliness and our sex starved brains read between the lines when there isn't anything there. The reason I never had the confidence to ask these women out was obviously because they weren't real IOI's and my subconscious knew it was pointless to bother, since if you actually got real IOI's you'd have no trouble asking her out since the vibes would be right and you would be sure she wants you to. Or she would do all the asking instead

Same thing also applies to making friends and a social life. I used to blame myself for not trying hard enough to make friends, but the reality is most people never had to try for that. If it doesn't come naturally you're fucked, and there isn't anything you can do
 
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He didn't grow up in a time when BP was mainstream so he had to figure it out the hard way, and although I'm not as old as he is the same is true for me to a degree since I didn't know what blackpill was till 19, but I was becoming far more aware of life and society long before then.

I can understand why he wanted to think this was her flirting with him because if you're a lonely incel you're so starved of female attention your mind naturally grasps at straws and thinks things are more significant than they are just like how a starving person would wanna eat the scraps you throw out.

Jfl when I was 14 I thought that some girl having a normal conversation for me in the last 10 minutes of class meant she had interest in me because girls almost never even had basic conversation with me. Then at 18 I thought it meant something when the gym clerk told me happy birthday when she was checking me in and seen that it was my birthday. Jfl for a while I was thinking about this encounter and wondering if I missed an opportunity there and was a dumbass for not asking her out since that seemed like more of an ioi than I ever had before.

These things are just like his pies are hot experience. The women saying them mean absolutely nothing besides surface level friendliness and our sex starved brains read between the lines when there isn't anything there. The reason I never had the confidence to ask these women out was obviously because they weren't real IOI's and my subconscious knew it was pointless to bother, since if you actually got real IOI's you'd have no trouble asking her out since the vibes would be right and you would be sure she wants you to. Or she would do all the asking instead

Same thing also applies to making friends and a social life. I used to blame myself for not trying hard enough to make friends, but the reality is most people never had to try for that. If it doesn't come naturally you're fucked, and there isn't anything you can do
Great post (y) summed it up brilliantly. I think every normie guy goes through a similar story I started out religiously watching PUA shite , looking for IOIs then embarrassing myself trying to run "game" on her " but the reality is most people never had to try for that. If it doesn't come naturally you're fucked, and there isn't anything you can do " is so true.

"if you actually got real IOI's you'd have no trouble asking her out since the vibes would be right and you would be sure she wants you to. Or she would do all the asking instead." So true as well , it is obvious when a women truly desires you , they don't often ask you out though but can heavily steer the convo in that way.

After PUA I fell for the red pill grift , the just go to the gym and make money bro. Although there is some truth and benefit to this , it was only 5 years ago watching FaceandLMS and WheatWaffles I discovered the BP and everything made sense so I can't blame the pies are hot guy too much. Still though I always understood looks , height and race are important just not to which extent.
 
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I still see subhumans with girlfriends how is that
Im the subhuman with a gf. It only work for me online. Honestly nice girl but dont know how it will go if we meet
 
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Great post (y) summed it up brilliantly. I think every normie guy goes through a similar story I started out religiously watching PUA shite , looking for IOIs then embarrassing myself trying to run "game" on her " but the reality is most people never had to try for that. If it doesn't come naturally you're fucked, and there isn't anything you can do " is so true.

"if you actually got real IOI's you'd have no trouble asking her out since the vibes would be right and you would be sure she wants you to. Or she would do all the asking instead." So true as well , it is obvious when a women truly desires you , they don't often ask you out though but can heavily steer the convo in that way.

After PUA I fell for the red pill grift , the just go to the gym and make money bro. Although there is some truth and benefit to this , it was only 5 years ago watching FaceandLMS and WheatWaffles I discovered the BP and everything made sense so I can't blame the pies are hot guy too much. Still though I always understood looks , height and race are important just not to which extent.
Yeah this is relatable. I was redpilled and thought I needed to muh self improve and up my game to get women:feelskek: :lul:.I was catching onto most of this being bs and becoming aware long before knowing blackpill, but it was cathartic when I first discovered it. Felt good to not get blamed for my problems and actually hear some truth for a change. Like you said, I also was aware looks mattered and all that, but wasn't fully aware the level to which this is true either until later in life.
 
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