How to tell parents you need to get surgeries?

[HarrierDuBois]

Serious by the way this is not a joke or larp. I want to go as smoothly about it as possible but not sure how to. I'm pretty sure everyone who got surgery done had a "the talk" about it, how did it go?

 

[HarrierDuBois]

I know this sounds cagefuel to those who don't live at home but I am a teenager so wtf am I supposed to do.

 

[Deleted member 17872]

Have “the talk” with them

 

[Deleted member 21661]

Wait, save money, get it at college or when you move out
If you really want to get it soon, first casually bring up surgeries (mention some celebrity that got them or lie saying someone in your class got it), and find out their thoughts on plastic surgery. If they think it's stupid and harmful then obv don't push it anymore.

If they think it's fine, I think it's better you do it gradually, mention some normie tier blackpilling things in convo (eg how people make more if they look better, or how people treated you better after you leanmaxxed or something) and build up to asking them for it

 

[Bashan]

Have “the talk” with them

Fuck the drama they might get nervous and dramatic

OP, just be low inhib about it and say that you need X surgery and you gonna get it no matter what. Like it's not an open question.

 

[Milosz]

How old are you?

 

[User49]

i wouldn’t. im at the ward rn and i won’t even elab

 

[Deleted member 19798]

Show them the 60% males are incels statistics and tell them that u need to ascend to chadlite to get laid

 

[Deleted member 26116]

Surgeries are not recommended for teenagers. Puberty may alter your surgery results later in life, as your body is still growing. I say wait until you are 18 to get surgeries before going to College.

 

[HarrierDuBois]

Have “the talk” with them

Ffs.

Wait, save money, get it at college or when you move out
If you really want to get it soon, first casually bring up surgeries (mention some celebrity that got them or lie saying someone in your class got it), and find out their thoughts on plastic surgery. If they think it's stupid and harmful then obv don't push it anymore.

If they think it's fine, I think it's better you do it gradually, mention some normie tier blackpilling things in convo (eg how people make more if they look better, or how people treated you better after you leanmaxxed or something) and build up to asking them for it

I am planning to work 1 year right after hs to get money so I can ascend partly pre uni. Also my dad suffers from sleep apnea so I have already told him about how bimax could solve his problems, I am kind of entering with the medical approach rn. Funnily enough my dad brings up how fewer and fewer people date in younger generations.

Fuck the drama they might get nervous and dramatic

OP, just be low inhib about it and say that you need X surgery and you gonna get it no matter what. Like it's not an open question.

I am high inhib but could try tbh.

How old are you?

18, 19 in a month.

i wouldn’t. im at the ward rn and i won’t even elab

Hope you get out soon my g.

Show them the 60% males are incels statistics and tell them that u need to ascend to chadlite to get laid

If I used incel terminology it's over. But I have completely told my younger brother about this already and he knows incels and blackpill and shit too and he is not against me having surgery.

Surgeries are not recommended for teenagers. Puberty may alter your surgery results later in life, as your body is still growing. I say wait until you are 18 to get surgeries before going to College.

18, 19 in a month.
I am planning to work 1 year right after hs to get money so I can ascend partly pre uni.

 

[User49]

Surgeries are not recommended for teenagers. Puberty may alter your surgery results later in life, as your body is still growing. I say wait until you are 18 to get surgeries before going to College.

who said he a youngin

he old nigga

but he live with his mama

 

[Deleted member 26116]

18, 19 in a month.
I am planning to work 1 year right after hs to get money so I can ascend partly pre uni.

Unbelievably based. You are going to slay prime College girls in your 20's, brother. Not gonna lie, I am teary-eyed as I write this. Very inspirational.

 

[HarrierDuBois]

Unbelievably based. You are going to slay prime College girls in your 20's, brother. Not gonna lie, I am teary-eyed as I write this. Very inspirational.

I will have to reverse braces for bimax so realistically for surgeries and prices all I can get pre uni will be a genio and infraorbital implants which will ascend quite a lot. Then after uni I will get bimax too and fully push out every piece of PSL I can.

 

[Lonenely sigma]

Serious by the way this is not a joke or larp. I want to go as smoothly about it as possible but not sure how to. I'm pretty sure everyone who got surgery done had a "the talk" about it, how did it go?

just don't get a gf before u r like 24 or so and you can blame your looks for it, then its easily justifiable afterwards. Do you want them to fund it tho, or?

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

you don't

you just do your thing and if they start bitching, let them bitch

 

[Deleted member 21532]

you were 6^3 right? Just loox max then see, where this leads you

 

[HarrierDuBois]

just don't get a gf before u r like 24 or so and you can blame your looks for it, then its easily justifiable afterwards. Do you want them to fund it tho, or?

I don't want to miss uni rotting I want to have a good time. I don't want them to fund it and they won't since they know ltbs-mtbs have shown interest in me so this is just me trying to upgrade.

you were 6^3 right? Just loox max then see, where this leads you

I have been considering this, made a couple threads on it, but I have no stable access to test.

 

[Splinter901]

Just get the fucking surgeries without telling them, come back home with your face all covered in bands and when they ask just tell them the truth, who gives a fuck what they think.

 

[HarrierDuBois]

Just get the fucking surgeries without telling them, come back home with your face all covered in bands and when they ask just tell them the truth, who gives a fuck what they think.

I'm not necisseraly sure they are against it I am just not sure how to present it in the best way possible.

 

[Deleted member 26232]

tell them if they dont let you looksmax they dont love you and would rather make you incel for life

 

[Lonenely sigma]

I don't want to miss uni rotting I want to have a good time. I don't want them to fund it and they won't since they know ltbs-mtbs have shown interest in me so this is just me trying to upgrade.


I have been considering this, made a couple threads on it, but I have no stable access to test.

I am in almost identical position to you jfl and I was thinking about this topic myself too, I also got attention from ltbs-mtbs and I regret telling that to my parents because I looked way better back then than I do now. They know about my wish to looksmax yet they don't understand it, they think its an "obsessive thought that will go away" or smt of that nature. They told me that if it "doesn't go away in the next few years, then they will fund surgeries for me", but I obviously won't let them do it

 

[HarrierDuBois]

tell them if they dont let you looksmax they dont love you and would rather make you incel for life

They haven't said I'm not allowed to yet, I just haven't talked about it.

I am in almost identical position to you jfl and I was thinking about this topic myself too, I also got attention from ltbs-mtbs and I regret telling that to my parents because I looked way better back then than I do now. They know about my wish to looksmax yet they don't understand it, they think its an "obsessive thought that will go away" or smt of that nature. They told me that if it "doesn't go away in the next few years, then they will fund surgeries for me", but I obviously won't let them do it

Wtf that's almost identical jfl. But yeah I will work for a year both on myself and wagecuck to make some money for surgeries. Bimax I can't get in near future but a genio and infras will be possible. Plan is to ascend with that + softmaxxes until uni then post uni get proper bimax which will adjust face even more.

 

[Deleted member 19620]

I had surgery last year in Istanbul. Good thing is I am at uni living alone, so got away.
In June, I’ll go Iran for Rhino rot till July in my uni room. Then go home. Likely they won’t notice.

Next year I will be at Rome for Genio + Jaw but I finish uni this year. I’ll just tell them I am going 4 week job placement.
It’s pretty easy tbh.

 

[HarrierDuBois]

I had surgery last year in Istanbul. Good thing is I am at uni living alone, so got away.
In June, I’ll go Iran for Rhino rot till July in my uni room. Then go home. Likely they won’t notice.

Next year I will be at Rome but I finish uni this year. I’ll just tell them I am going 4 week job placement.
It’s pretty easy tbh.

Why do you have to hide it? Won't they find out anyway? Also you need people to help you when you get stuff like bimax done.

 

[User49]

I had surgery last year in Istanbul. Good thing is I am at uni living alone, so got away.
In June, I’ll go Iran for Rhino rot till July in my uni room. Then go home. Likely they won’t notice.

Next year I will be at Rome for Genio + Jaw but I finish uni this year. I’ll just tell them I am going 4 week job placement.
It’s pretty easy tbh.

Mirin son

 

[exo]

If your parents have money just tell them what you want and they'll probably give you it if you make a big drama about it

 

[Deleted member 19620]

Why do you have to hide it? Won't they find out anyway? Also you need people to help you when you get stuff like bimax done.

In real life, I’ll only ever be open about my surgeries to health professionals.
Tbf now I have 6ml Volux fillers on my jaw and chin over a span of one year and they have no idea.

Yeah Bimax is hard but my surgeries are pretty straight forward.

 

[Deleted member 24002]

As a teenager living with my parents also getting surgeries, I showed instead of telling. I started skincare, growing out my hair, new wardrobe, going to the gym (a lot), eating clean, sleeping right. They asked me why all the changes. I said "looks are important in life". They agreed. I got a part-time job in addition to already high grades. They asked why I got a job when they pay for everything. I said I want cosmetic surgery because it will give me an advantage when I get in the professional world.

 

[Deleted member 23558]

Move your mouth emit sounds from vocal chords and tell

 

[HarrierDuBois]

In real life, I’ll only ever be open about my surgeries to health professionals.
Tbf now I have 6ml Volux fillers on my jaw and chin over a span of one year and they have no idea.

Yeah Bimax is hard but my surgeries are pretty straight forward.

Why do you hide it? Did you bring it up before and they got defensive?

 

[HarrierDuBois]

As a teenager living with my parents also getting surgeries, I showed instead of telling. I started skincare, growing out my hair, new wardrobe, going to the gym (a lot), eating clean, sleeping right. They asked me why all the changes. I said "looks are important in life". They agreed. I got a part-time job in addition to already high grades. They asked why I got a job when they pay for everything. I said I want cosmetic surgery because it will give me an advantage when I get in the professional world.

Straight forward no bullshit, respect.

 

[HarrierDuBois]

Move your mouth emit sounds from vocal chords and tell

If you do it in the wrong way you are set back 10 steps.

 

[Deleted member 19174]

I told my mom I wanted to get gyno surgery and she ended up telling half my family. Don’t ever do it

 

[Sprinkles]

Gotta be careful telling normies about your hardmaxxes

they don’t respect cheating genetics and will try to steer you away from it

if I were you I wouldn’t tell them. i’d just save up for them on my own and then get them

 

[HarrierDuBois]

I told my mom I wanted to get gyno surgery and she ended up telling half my family. Don’t ever do it

But bro that is a kind of funny thing since gyno is bitch tits my surgeries are more medical and serious. Still mirin initiative good luck brother.

Gotta be careful telling normies about your hardmaxxes

they don’t respect cheating genetics and will try to steer you away from it

if I were you I wouldn’t tell them. i’d just save up for them on my own and then get them

But I have told my brother and he agrees. Also my failos come from lifestyle not genetics, my main failos (weak chin, mandible, and infraorbital support), are all results of me mouth breathing through childhood due to nose being stuffed from allergies, I had good genetics and development as a kid.

 

[User49]

I told my mom I wanted to get gyno surgery and she ended up telling half my family. Don’t ever do it

same

cunts

 

[Deleted member 24002]

I told my mom I wanted to get gyno surgery and she ended up telling half my family. Don’t ever do it

I told my mother I'm getting genioplasty and to keep it private. Now my whole extended family thinks I'm insecure about my chin and keeps telling me "it looks normal, there's nothing wrong with it". Idk why, but it makes me so pissed hearing this from people who have multiple failos themselves. Like "why would I take advice from you" type thing but I dont want to be rude.

 

[Sprinkles]

But bro that is a kind of funny thing since gyno is bitch tits my surgeries are more medical and serious. Still mirin initiative good luck brother.


But I have told my brother and he agrees. Also my failos come from lifestyle not genetics, my main failos (weak chin, mandible, and infraorbital support), are all results of me mouth breathing through childhood due to nose being stuffed from allergies, I had good genetics and development as a kid.

be straight and direct about it with your parents then and get your brother to support you while you explain things to them

 

[Deleted member 19174]

I told my mother I'm getting genioplasty and to keep it private. Now my whole extended family thinks I'm insecure about my chin and keeps telling me "it looks normal, there's nothing wrong with it". Idk why, but it makes me so pissed hearing this from people who have multiple failos themselves. Like "why would I take advice from you" type thing but I dont want to be rude.

I was more angry about her telling random ass uncles about my fucking gyno surgery. That breach of trust made me resent her for awhile, but I’ve moved on. I’m gonna get the surgery at the end of next semester, and they won’t have a say in the matter.

 

[Deleted member 24002]

I wish I could remind my uncles that a good quarter of them would be khhv if they couldn't get arranged marriages.

 

[HarrierDuBois]

be straight and direct about it with your parents then and get your brother to support you while you explain things to them

He won't actively support me because he doesn't really give a shit but he told me he understood the benefits of me doing it.

 

[HarrierDuBois]

I was more angry about her telling random ass uncles about my fucking gyno surgery. That breach of trust made me resent her for awhile, but I’ve moved on. I’m gonna get the surgery at the end of next semester, and they won’t have a say in the matter.

Tag me when you've ascended, you are a cool guy.

 

[HarrierDuBois]

I wish I could remind my uncles that a good quarter of them would be khhv if they couldn't get arranged marriages.

You still can.

 

[Deleted member 19620]

Why do you hide it? Did you bring it up before and they got defensive?

I feel they will lose respect for me.

 

[Deleted member 21712]

JFL at caring what your parents think, you're a grown ass man with your own place and own money, don't be that 45 year old who still asks his parents for permission

 

[HarrierDuBois]

I feel they will lose respect for me.

Damn. I feel they will see me as even more insecure if I not only got surgery but also tried hiding it. If they find out that is.

 

[HarrierDuBois]

JFL at caring what your parents think, you're a grown ass man with your own place and own money, don't be that 45 year old who still asks his parents for permission

I am still in high school...

 

[Deleted member 19766]

Wait, save money, get it at college or when you move out
If you really want to get it soon, first casually bring up surgeries (mention some celebrity that got them or lie saying someone in your class got it), and find out their thoughts on plastic surgery. If they think it's stupid and harmful then obv don't push it anymore.

If they think it's fine, I think it's better you do it gradually, mention some normie tier blackpilling things in convo (eg how people make more if they look better, or how people treated you better after you leanmaxxed or something) and build up to asking them for it

nigga no parent would ever like be totally ok with this stuff imo like idk maybe some are but I feel like nearly everyone finds it kind of vain, unless you're a girl which they might be ok with but we are all guys obv

 

[HarrierDuBois]

nigga no parent would ever like be totally ok with this stuff imo like idk maybe some are but I feel like nearly everyone finds it kind of vain, unless you're a girl which they might be ok with but we are all guys obv

Thing is my dad has sleep apnea and uses one of those breathing machines and bimax cures sleep apnea so I'm gonna larp medical reasons for getting it. I have already told him he should get it for medical reasons but I haven't said anything about looks. Also the bimax is only one part I need a good explanation for infraorbital implants and genioplasty as well which are the first surgeries I'm most likely gonna do and they have jack to do with health.

 

[Deleted member 21661]

nigga no parent would ever like be totally ok with this stuff imo like idk maybe some are but I feel like nearly everyone finds it kind of vain, unless you're a girl which they might be ok with but we are all guys obv

Idk there are people here whose parents support them getting surgery, some even help pay for it
But yes most will be against it obv