Fuck the drama they might get nervous and dramatic
Ffs.
I am planning to work 1 year right after hs to get money so I can ascend partly pre uni. Also my dad suffers from sleep apnea so I have already told him about how bimax could solve his problems, I am kind of entering with the medical approach rn. Funnily enough my dad brings up how fewer and fewer people date in younger generations.
I am high inhib but could try tbh.
18, 19 in a month.
Hope you get out soon my g.
If I used incel terminology it's over. But I have completely told my younger brother about this already and he knows incels and blackpill and shit too and he is not against me having surgery.
18, 19 in a month.
Unbelievably based. You are going to slay prime College girls in your 20's, brother. Not gonna lie, I am teary-eyed as I write this. Very inspirational.
I will have to reverse braces for bimax so realistically for surgeries and prices all I can get pre uni will be a genio and infraorbital implants which will ascend quite a lot. Then after uni I will get bimax too and fully push out every piece of PSL I can.
just don't get a gf before u r like 24 or so and you can blame your looks for it, then its easily justifiable afterwards. Do you want them to fund it tho, or?
I don't want to miss uni rotting I want to have a good time. I don't want them to fund it and they won't since they know ltbs-mtbs have shown interest in me so this is just me trying to upgrade.
I have been considering this, made a couple threads on it, but I have no stable access to test.
I'm not necisseraly sure they are against it I am just not sure how to present it in the best way possible.
I am in almost identical position to you jfl and I was thinking about this topic myself too, I also got attention from ltbs-mtbs and I regret telling that to my parents because I looked way better back then than I do now. They know about my wish to looksmax yet they don't understand it, they think its an "obsessive thought that will go away" or smt of that nature. They told me that if it "doesn't go away in the next few years, then they will fund surgeries for me", but I obviously won't let them do it
They haven't said I'm not allowed to yet, I just haven't talked about it.
Wtf that's almost identical jfl. But yeah I will work for a year both on myself and wagecuck to make some money for surgeries. Bimax I can't get in near future but a genio and infras will be possible. Plan is to ascend with that + softmaxxes until uni then post uni get proper bimax which will adjust face even more.
Why do you have to hide it? Won't they find out anyway? Also you need people to help you when you get stuff like bimax done.
Mirin son
In real life, I’ll only ever be open about my surgeries to health professionals.
Why do you hide it? Did you bring it up before and they got defensive?
Straight forward no bullshit, respect.
If you do it in the wrong way you are set back 10 steps.
But bro that is a kind of funny thing since gyno is bitch tits my surgeries are more medical and serious. Still mirin initiative good luck brother.
But I have told my brother and he agrees. Also my failos come from lifestyle not genetics, my main failos (weak chin, mandible, and infraorbital support), are all results of me mouth breathing through childhood due to nose being stuffed from allergies, I had good genetics and development as a kid.
I told my mother I'm getting genioplasty and to keep it private. Now my whole extended family thinks I'm insecure about my chin and keeps telling me "it looks normal, there's nothing wrong with it". Idk why, but it makes me so pissed hearing this from people who have multiple failos themselves. Like "why would I take advice from you" type thing but I dont want to be rude.
be straight and direct about it with your parents then and get your brother to support you while you explain things to them
I was more angry about her telling random ass uncles about my fucking gyno surgery. That breach of trust made me resent her for awhile, but I’ve moved on. I’m gonna get the surgery at the end of next semester, and they won’t have a say in the matter.
He won't actively support me because he doesn't really give a shit but he told me he understood the benefits of me doing it.
Tag me when you've ascended, you are a cool guy.
You still can.
I feel they will lose respect for me.
Damn. I feel they will see me as even more insecure if I not only got surgery but also tried hiding it. If they find out that is.
I am still in high school...
nigga no parent would ever like be totally ok with this stuff imo like idk maybe some are but I feel like nearly everyone finds it kind of vain, unless you're a girl which they might be ok with but we are all guys obv
Thing is my dad has sleep apnea and uses one of those breathing machines and bimax cures sleep apnea so I'm gonna larp medical reasons for getting it. I have already told him he should get it for medical reasons but I haven't said anything about looks. Also the bimax is only one part I need a good explanation for infraorbital implants and genioplasty as well which are the first surgeries I'm most likely gonna do and they have jack to do with health.
Idk there are people here whose parents support them getting surgery, some even help pay for it
