"HTN" is the ultimate sweet spot for coping

[Brian Novak]

- allows you to convince yourself you are above average enough (which, by the way, is exactly what virtually all men out there believe about themselves) to get attractive women, while
- simultaneously keeping the "am I coping??" voice in your subconscious silent enough, because you are adamant about "being aware that you are not male model material, a chad or something".

also, it leaves space for conscience-free coping with "even if there are guys better looking than me, i'm gl enough to compensate for the difference with my status/money/aura/personality/you name the cope"

i completely understand why this term emerged and became so popular on this forum.

can't even blame you, fellow HTNs.

 

[JeanneDArcAlter]

allows you to convince yourself you are above average enough (which is exactly what virtually all men out there believe about themselves) to get attractive women, but keeps the "am I coping??" voice in your subconscious silent enough because you are adamant about "being aware that you are not male model material, a chad or something". also, it leaves space for conscience-free coping with "even if there are guys better looking than me, i'm gl enough to compensate for the difference with my status/money/aura/personality/you name the cope"

i completely understand why this term emerged and became so popular on this forum, can't even blame you

Are you a female?

 

[Brian Novak]