Humans are not social creatures

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Humans aren’t social creatures, they’re cold, calculated transaction machines, wired to mog and manipulate each other for clout, status, or survival. Every interaction is a brutal exchange, a zero-sum game where Chads, Stacys, and even betas play to exploit and dominate. Relationships? Just a cope, a facade to mask the black-pilled truth: we’re all in a WWE Royal Rumble, fighting to climb the hierarchy by any means necessary charm, deceit, or straight-up betrayal.

Picture it like a WWE cage match. Every normie, Chad, or Stacy steps into the ring of life, eyes locked on the prize: status, resources, or validation. There’s no “connection” or “bonding”, that’s blue-pilled nonsense. It’s all about out-maneuvering the other guy, using whatever tricks you’ve got. Betas fake confidence to seem high-value, Stacys wield their SMV (sexual market value) to hypergamy their way to the top, and Chads just mog everyone effortlessly. The goal? Survival of the fittest, where only the top dogs walk away with the belt (to pass your genes)


We cope hard with this “social creature” myth because it feels better than admitting we’re just ruthless beasts. Small talk at parties? A low-tier status play to network or flex. Fake smiles on dates? Just looksmaxxing to secure a mate before they branch-swing to a better option. Every word, every move is a calculated transaction, a step toward securing your place in the pecking order. From the second you wake up, you’re scanning for weaknesses to exploit. Normies play nice to avoid being ostracized, but it’s all a front. You’re either mogging or getting mogged. In the dating market, it’s brutal, Stacys trade their youth and looks for Chad’s resources or genetics, while betas get cucked, orbiting in hopes of scraps. Sex? A straight-up exchange: emotional labor, time, or provisioning for temporary intimacy. Both sides are running a mental T-chart, weighing if the juice is worth the squeeze.


Friendships? Pure cope. You align with people who can boost your status, offer IOIs (indicators of interest), or give you something, career plugs, social proof, or a shoulder to cry on when you’re black-pilled. The second they stop serving your SMV, you ghost them like a used-up Tinder match. Even family’s a transaction. Parents raise kids expecting a return, someone to wipe their ass when they’re old or something. Kids learn early to manipulate, playing the “poor me” card to milk resources from mom and dad.


The workplace is the ultimate black-pilled arena. Betas grind, scheme, and backstab for scraps of clout, promotions, raises, or a pat on the head from the boss. Managers? They’re just "Chads and Stacys" in suits, sizing up who’s worth keeping and who’s a disposable cuck. It’s a hierarchy where everyone’s trying to mog or avoid getting mogged, all while pretending it’s “teamwork.” Probably is not a good analogy but yeah, whatever.

In the end, humans are transactional beasts, not social creatures. The black pill strips away the cope. Every interaction is about self-preservation, about climbing the status ladder by stepping on others. Humans are fucking fake asf. Humans like to stab themselves in the back while wearing a smile on their face. The human civilization was build on lies and false promises, and this shows how dangerous and fake the humans are.


This post is black-pilled because it rips off the mask of “humanity” and exposes the raw, primal truth. We’re not here to hold hands, we’re here to mog, manipulate, and survive. The tone is harsh, the slang cuts deep. So, next time you’re chatting someone up, remember, they’re not your friend, they’re your opponent in a brutal game of status and survival. It's a PVP arena. Get ready to fight dirty, because in this shit as life, the rules are simple, you’re either mogging or getting mogged.

It's over.


 
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Humans aren’t social creatures, they’re cold, calculated transaction machines, wired to mog and manipulate each other for clout, status, or survival. Every interaction is a brutal exchange, a zero-sum game where Chads, Stacys, and even betas play to exploit and dominate. Relationships? Just a cope, a facade to mask the black-pilled truth: we’re all in a WWE Royal Rumble, fighting to climb the hierarchy by any means necessary charm, deceit, or straight-up betrayal.

Picture it like a WWE cage match. Every normie, Chad, or Stacy steps into the ring of life, eyes locked on the prize: status, resources, or validation. There’s no “connection” or “bonding”, that’s blue-pilled nonsense. It’s all about out-maneuvering the other guy, using whatever tricks you’ve got. Betas fake confidence to seem high-value, Stacys wield their SMV (sexual market value) to hypergamy their way to the top, and Chads just mog everyone effortlessly. The goal? Survival of the fittest, where only the top dogs walk away with the belt (to pass your genes)


We cope hard with this “social creature” myth because it feels better than admitting we’re just ruthless beasts. Small talk at parties? A low-tier status play to network or flex. Fake smiles on dates? Just looksmaxxing to secure a mate before they branch-swing to a better option. Every word, every move is a calculated transaction, a step toward securing your place in the pecking order. From the second you wake up, you’re scanning for weaknesses to exploit. Normies play nice to avoid being ostracized, but it’s all a front. You’re either mogging or getting mogged. In the dating market, it’s brutal, Stacys trade their youth and looks for Chad’s resources or genetics, while betas get cucked, orbiting in hopes of scraps. Sex? A straight-up exchange: emotional labor, time, or provisioning for temporary intimacy. Both sides are running a mental T-chart, weighing if the juice is worth the squeeze.


Friendships? Pure cope. You align with people who can boost your status, offer IOIs (indicators of interest), or give you something, career plugs, social proof, or a shoulder to cry on when you’re black-pilled. The second they stop serving your SMV, you ghost them like a used-up Tinder match. Even family’s a transaction. Parents raise kids expecting a return, someone to wipe their ass when they’re old or something. Kids learn early to manipulate, playing the “poor me” card to milk resources from mom and dad.


The workplace is the ultimate black-pilled arena. Betas grind, scheme, and backstab for scraps of clout, promotions, raises, or a pat on the head from the boss. Managers? They’re just "Chads and Stacys" in suits, sizing up who’s worth keeping and who’s a disposable cuck. It’s a hierarchy where everyone’s trying to mog or avoid getting mogged, all while pretending it’s “teamwork.” Probably is not a good analogy but yeah, whatever.

In the end, humans are transactional beasts, not social creatures. The black pill strips away the cope. Every interaction is about self-preservation, about climbing the status ladder by stepping on others. Humans are fucking fake asf. Humans like to stab themselves in the back while wearing a smile on their face. The human civilization was build on lies and false promises, and this shows how dangerous and fake the humans are.


This post is black-pilled because it rips off the mask of “humanity” and exposes the raw, primal truth. We’re not here to hold hands, we’re here to mog, manipulate, and survive. The tone is harsh, the slang cuts deep. So, next time you’re chatting someone up, remember, they’re not your friend, they’re your opponent in a brutal game of status and survival. It's a PVP arena. Get ready to fight dirty, because in this shit as life, the rules are simple, you’re either mogging or getting mogged.

It's over.



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Humans aren’t social creatures, they’re cold, calculated transaction machines, wired to mog and manipulate each other for clout, status, or survival. Every interaction is a brutal exchange, a zero-sum game where Chads, Stacys, and even betas play to exploit and dominate. Relationships? Just a cope, a facade to mask the black-pilled truth: we’re all in a WWE Royal Rumble, fighting to climb the hierarchy by any means necessary charm, deceit, or straight-up betrayal.

Picture it like a WWE cage match. Every normie, Chad, or Stacy steps into the ring of life, eyes locked on the prize: status, resources, or validation. There’s no “connection” or “bonding”, that’s blue-pilled nonsense. It’s all about out-maneuvering the other guy, using whatever tricks you’ve got. Betas fake confidence to seem high-value, Stacys wield their SMV (sexual market value) to hypergamy their way to the top, and Chads just mog everyone effortlessly. The goal? Survival of the fittest, where only the top dogs walk away with the belt (to pass your genes)


We cope hard with this “social creature” myth because it feels better than admitting we’re just ruthless beasts. Small talk at parties? A low-tier status play to network or flex. Fake smiles on dates? Just looksmaxxing to secure a mate before they branch-swing to a better option. Every word, every move is a calculated transaction, a step toward securing your place in the pecking order. From the second you wake up, you’re scanning for weaknesses to exploit. Normies play nice to avoid being ostracized, but it’s all a front. You’re either mogging or getting mogged. In the dating market, it’s brutal, Stacys trade their youth and looks for Chad’s resources or genetics, while betas get cucked, orbiting in hopes of scraps. Sex? A straight-up exchange: emotional labor, time, or provisioning for temporary intimacy. Both sides are running a mental T-chart, weighing if the juice is worth the squeeze.


Friendships? Pure cope. You align with people who can boost your status, offer IOIs (indicators of interest), or give you something, career plugs, social proof, or a shoulder to cry on when you’re black-pilled. The second they stop serving your SMV, you ghost them like a used-up Tinder match. Even family’s a transaction. Parents raise kids expecting a return, someone to wipe their ass when they’re old or something. Kids learn early to manipulate, playing the “poor me” card to milk resources from mom and dad.


The workplace is the ultimate black-pilled arena. Betas grind, scheme, and backstab for scraps of clout, promotions, raises, or a pat on the head from the boss. Managers? They’re just "Chads and Stacys" in suits, sizing up who’s worth keeping and who’s a disposable cuck. It’s a hierarchy where everyone’s trying to mog or avoid getting mogged, all while pretending it’s “teamwork.” Probably is not a good analogy but yeah, whatever.

In the end, humans are transactional beasts, not social creatures. The black pill strips away the cope. Every interaction is about self-preservation, about climbing the status ladder by stepping on others. Humans are fucking fake asf. Humans like to stab themselves in the back while wearing a smile on their face. The human civilization was build on lies and false promises, and this shows how dangerous and fake the humans are.


This post is black-pilled because it rips off the mask of “humanity” and exposes the raw, primal truth. We’re not here to hold hands, we’re here to mog, manipulate, and survive. The tone is harsh, the slang cuts deep. So, next time you’re chatting someone up, remember, they’re not your friend, they’re your opponent in a brutal game of status and survival. It's a PVP arena. Get ready to fight dirty, because in this shit as life, the rules are simple, you’re either mogging or getting mogged.

It's over.



return to primivitism and kill everyone for rituals and cannibalisn
 
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The opinions of mentally ill abused dogs don’t represent the regular human psyche you people are the anomalies not the rule psyche
 
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Humans aren’t social creatures, they’re cold, calculated transaction machines, wired to mog and manipulate each other for clout, status, or survival. Every interaction is a brutal exchange, a zero-sum game where Chads, Stacys, and even betas play to exploit and dominate. Relationships? Just a cope, a facade to mask the black-pilled truth: we’re all in a WWE Royal Rumble, fighting to climb the hierarchy by any means necessary charm, deceit, or straight-up betrayal.

Picture it like a WWE cage match. Every normie, Chad, or Stacy steps into the ring of life, eyes locked on the prize: status, resources, or validation. There’s no “connection” or “bonding”, that’s blue-pilled nonsense. It’s all about out-maneuvering the other guy, using whatever tricks you’ve got. Betas fake confidence to seem high-value, Stacys wield their SMV (sexual market value) to hypergamy their way to the top, and Chads just mog everyone effortlessly. The goal? Survival of the fittest, where only the top dogs walk away with the belt (to pass your genes)


We cope hard with this “social creature” myth because it feels better than admitting we’re just ruthless beasts. Small talk at parties? A low-tier status play to network or flex. Fake smiles on dates? Just looksmaxxing to secure a mate before they branch-swing to a better option. Every word, every move is a calculated transaction, a step toward securing your place in the pecking order. From the second you wake up, you’re scanning for weaknesses to exploit. Normies play nice to avoid being ostracized, but it’s all a front. You’re either mogging or getting mogged. In the dating market, it’s brutal, Stacys trade their youth and looks for Chad’s resources or genetics, while betas get cucked, orbiting in hopes of scraps. Sex? A straight-up exchange: emotional labor, time, or provisioning for temporary intimacy. Both sides are running a mental T-chart, weighing if the juice is worth the squeeze.


Friendships? Pure cope. You align with people who can boost your status, offer IOIs (indicators of interest), or give you something, career plugs, social proof, or a shoulder to cry on when you’re black-pilled. The second they stop serving your SMV, you ghost them like a used-up Tinder match. Even family’s a transaction. Parents raise kids expecting a return, someone to wipe their ass when they’re old or something. Kids learn early to manipulate, playing the “poor me” card to milk resources from mom and dad.


The workplace is the ultimate black-pilled arena. Betas grind, scheme, and backstab for scraps of clout, promotions, raises, or a pat on the head from the boss. Managers? They’re just "Chads and Stacys" in suits, sizing up who’s worth keeping and who’s a disposable cuck. It’s a hierarchy where everyone’s trying to mog or avoid getting mogged, all while pretending it’s “teamwork.” Probably is not a good analogy but yeah, whatever.

In the end, humans are transactional beasts, not social creatures. The black pill strips away the cope. Every interaction is about self-preservation, about climbing the status ladder by stepping on others. Humans are fucking fake asf. Humans like to stab themselves in the back while wearing a smile on their face. The human civilization was build on lies and false promises, and this shows how dangerous and fake the humans are.


This post is black-pilled because it rips off the mask of “humanity” and exposes the raw, primal truth. We’re not here to hold hands, we’re here to mog, manipulate, and survive. The tone is harsh, the slang cuts deep. So, next time you’re chatting someone up, remember, they’re not your friend, they’re your opponent in a brutal game of status and survival. It's a PVP arena. Get ready to fight dirty, because in this shit as life, the rules are simple, you’re either mogging or getting mogged.

It's over.



Humans are social only in order to exploit others and benefit themselves.
 
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The unfiltered truth
 
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It's funny when Aristotle says this, he doesn't know how to live alone.
 
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And the most brutal thing is we even celebrate humanity and want to keep propagate it
 
Humans aren’t social creatures, they’re cold, calculated transaction machines, wired to mog and manipulate each other for clout, status, or survival. Every interaction is a brutal exchange, a zero-sum game where Chads, Stacys, and even betas play to exploit and dominate. Relationships? Just a cope, a facade to mask the black-pilled truth: we’re all in a WWE Royal Rumble, fighting to climb the hierarchy by any means necessary charm, deceit, or straight-up betrayal.

Picture it like a WWE cage match. Every normie, Chad, or Stacy steps into the ring of life, eyes locked on the prize: status, resources, or validation. There’s no “connection” or “bonding”, that’s blue-pilled nonsense. It’s all about out-maneuvering the other guy, using whatever tricks you’ve got. Betas fake confidence to seem high-value, Stacys wield their SMV (sexual market value) to hypergamy their way to the top, and Chads just mog everyone effortlessly. The goal? Survival of the fittest, where only the top dogs walk away with the belt (to pass your genes)


We cope hard with this “social creature” myth because it feels better than admitting we’re just ruthless beasts. Small talk at parties? A low-tier status play to network or flex. Fake smiles on dates? Just looksmaxxing to secure a mate before they branch-swing to a better option. Every word, every move is a calculated transaction, a step toward securing your place in the pecking order. From the second you wake up, you’re scanning for weaknesses to exploit. Normies play nice to avoid being ostracized, but it’s all a front. You’re either mogging or getting mogged. In the dating market, it’s brutal, Stacys trade their youth and looks for Chad’s resources or genetics, while betas get cucked, orbiting in hopes of scraps. Sex? A straight-up exchange: emotional labor, time, or provisioning for temporary intimacy. Both sides are running a mental T-chart, weighing if the juice is worth the squeeze.


Friendships? Pure cope. You align with people who can boost your status, offer IOIs (indicators of interest), or give you something, career plugs, social proof, or a shoulder to cry on when you’re black-pilled. The second they stop serving your SMV, you ghost them like a used-up Tinder match. Even family’s a transaction. Parents raise kids expecting a return, someone to wipe their ass when they’re old or something. Kids learn early to manipulate, playing the “poor me” card to milk resources from mom and dad.


The workplace is the ultimate black-pilled arena. Betas grind, scheme, and backstab for scraps of clout, promotions, raises, or a pat on the head from the boss. Managers? They’re just "Chads and Stacys" in suits, sizing up who’s worth keeping and who’s a disposable cuck. It’s a hierarchy where everyone’s trying to mog or avoid getting mogged, all while pretending it’s “teamwork.” Probably is not a good analogy but yeah, whatever.

In the end, humans are transactional beasts, not social creatures. The black pill strips away the cope. Every interaction is about self-preservation, about climbing the status ladder by stepping on others. Humans are fucking fake asf. Humans like to stab themselves in the back while wearing a smile on their face. The human civilization was build on lies and false promises, and this shows how dangerous and fake the humans are.


This post is black-pilled because it rips off the mask of “humanity” and exposes the raw, primal truth. We’re not here to hold hands, we’re here to mog, manipulate, and survive. The tone is harsh, the slang cuts deep. So, next time you’re chatting someone up, remember, they’re not your friend, they’re your opponent in a brutal game of status and survival. It's a PVP arena. Get ready to fight dirty, because in this shit as life, the rules are simple, you’re either mogging or getting mogged.

It's over.



yk that weird feeling u get inside when ur real with someone?

that anxious, bad feeling u get when u tell somebody what's really on your mind?

that's because u played the game wrong

u were real, u werent fake, that was ur mistake

its like u were playing poker and gave away ur whole strategy
 
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yk that weird feeling u get inside when ur real with someone?

that anxious, bad feeling u get when u tell somebody what's really on your mind?

that's because u played the game wrong

u were real, u werent fake, that was ur mistake

its like u were playing poker and gave away ur whole strategy
good addition. But why do we do it in the first place then?
 
And the most brutal thing is we even celebrate humanity and want to keep propagate it
Some people can think like you described but majority of people are co-operative and mature

I speak from experience, I used to be really egocentric, mog or be mogged, validation seeker... but there was a time around 22yo when all that stopped being everything about me and could see life with different perspective

I think that mentality is more prevalent on people under 20, but we all get more mature with time and life stops being so serious
 
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You do realize those things aren’t mutually exclusive right? Yes, humans are status climbing competitive creatures, but we also sometimes enjoy feeling a sense of belonging and acceptance. Not everything is so black-and-white as to suggest that social interactions are solely there for the purpose of competition, or we only interact to feel a sense of belonging.
 
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You do realize those things aren’t mutually exclusive right? Yes, humans are status climbing competitive creatures, but we also sometimes enjoy feeling a sense of belonging and acceptance.
Exactly, we get more mature with age as well

The mentality op described is more prevalent on people under 20 who are still maturing
 
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You do realize those things aren’t mutually exclusive right? Yes, humans are status climbing competitive creatures, but we also sometimes enjoy feeling a sense of belonging and acceptance. Not everything is so black-and-white as to suggest that social interactions are solely there for the purpose of competition, or we only interact to feel a sense of belonging.
Honestly if everyone tought like that we wouldn't have society like we have today probably
 
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yk that weird feeling u get inside when ur real with someone?

that anxious, bad feeling u get when u tell somebody what's really on your mind?

that's because u played the game wrong

u were real, u werent fake, that was ur mistake

its like u were playing poker and gave away ur whole strategy
Brutal, go back to being a NPC.
 
Some people can think like you described but majority of people are co-operative and mature

I speak from experience, I used to be really egocentric, mog or be mogged, validation seeker... but there was a time around 22yo when all that stopped being everything about me and could see life with different perspective

I think that mentality is more prevalent on people under 20, but we all get more mature with time and life stops being so serious
I gonna probably gonna do this until 23 in 2027, increase the body count to heavens before joining the army probably,

Living off on online and offline bussines & gigs while slaying.
 
Exactly, we get more mature with age as well

The mentality op described is more prevalent on people under 20 who are still maturing
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Need that face reveal to mog, tik tok account, skool guides and a lot of posts about how to ascend
 
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Humans aren’t social creatures, they’re cold, calculated transaction machines, wired to mog and manipulate each other for clout, status, or survival. Every interaction is a brutal exchange, a zero-sum game where Chads, Stacys, and even betas play to exploit and dominate. Relationships? Just a cope, a facade to mask the black-pilled truth: we’re all in a WWE Royal Rumble, fighting to climb the hierarchy by any means necessary charm, deceit, or straight-up betrayal.

Picture it like a WWE cage match. Every normie, Chad, or Stacy steps into the ring of life, eyes locked on the prize: status, resources, or validation. There’s no “connection” or “bonding”, that’s blue-pilled nonsense. It’s all about out-maneuvering the other guy, using whatever tricks you’ve got. Betas fake confidence to seem high-value, Stacys wield their SMV (sexual market value) to hypergamy their way to the top, and Chads just mog everyone effortlessly. The goal? Survival of the fittest, where only the top dogs walk away with the belt (to pass your genes)


We cope hard with this “social creature” myth because it feels better than admitting we’re just ruthless beasts. Small talk at parties? A low-tier status play to network or flex. Fake smiles on dates? Just looksmaxxing to secure a mate before they branch-swing to a better option. Every word, every move is a calculated transaction, a step toward securing your place in the pecking order. From the second you wake up, you’re scanning for weaknesses to exploit. Normies play nice to avoid being ostracized, but it’s all a front. You’re either mogging or getting mogged. In the dating market, it’s brutal, Stacys trade their youth and looks for Chad’s resources or genetics, while betas get cucked, orbiting in hopes of scraps. Sex? A straight-up exchange: emotional labor, time, or provisioning for temporary intimacy. Both sides are running a mental T-chart, weighing if the juice is worth the squeeze.


Friendships? Pure cope. You align with people who can boost your status, offer IOIs (indicators of interest), or give you something, career plugs, social proof, or a shoulder to cry on when you’re black-pilled. The second they stop serving your SMV, you ghost them like a used-up Tinder match. Even family’s a transaction. Parents raise kids expecting a return, someone to wipe their ass when they’re old or something. Kids learn early to manipulate, playing the “poor me” card to milk resources from mom and dad.


The workplace is the ultimate black-pilled arena. Betas grind, scheme, and backstab for scraps of clout, promotions, raises, or a pat on the head from the boss. Managers? They’re just "Chads and Stacys" in suits, sizing up who’s worth keeping and who’s a disposable cuck. It’s a hierarchy where everyone’s trying to mog or avoid getting mogged, all while pretending it’s “teamwork.” Probably is not a good analogy but yeah, whatever.

In the end, humans are transactional beasts, not social creatures. The black pill strips away the cope. Every interaction is about self-preservation, about climbing the status ladder by stepping on others. Humans are fucking fake asf. Humans like to stab themselves in the back while wearing a smile on their face. The human civilization was build on lies and false promises, and this shows how dangerous and fake the humans are.


This post is black-pilled because it rips off the mask of “humanity” and exposes the raw, primal truth. We’re not here to hold hands, we’re here to mog, manipulate, and survive. The tone is harsh, the slang cuts deep. So, next time you’re chatting someone up, remember, they’re not your friend, they’re your opponent in a brutal game of status and survival. It's a PVP arena. Get ready to fight dirty, because in this shit as life, the rules are simple, you’re either mogging or getting mogged.

It's over.



interesting take, i agree with most of it. One example when i moved back to my home town, and just started college a guy i would play computer games with the local library, me and him briefly connected again. Then he asked me how college was going mind you it had only been 2-3 weeks of school. He asked me if i made any new friends or meet people, and i was honest and told him nah not really in fact i have having some trouble adjusting. He called me weeks later to say whats up then asked me questions again about how my social life was. Then he began to rant and talk about he was going to parties and meeting people etc. The next week a action movie was coming out i asked him if he wanted to catch it. He said he was busy etc and said we could just chill at the library while he study.


I called him two weeks later to say whats up he never answered or picked up. I we had each others email addresses and linkedln. I called again this time two weeks later again and thought maybe he was just busy. Never heard from him again looks like he was avoiding me. Till years passed, i randomly get message from linkedln, saying hes moving out of town because he got a new good job in another state, he asked me how was my family and how was my brother. I never responded and said in my head Fuck that guy. And ignored hes message, it was clear this guy was seeing how i was doing socially to see if i would add social value to him so he could climb the social ladder, the same shit he did years prior.


I recently went through a similar situation again and this time i learned my lesson from the past, i cut said person off i don't speak to them at all. Iam not gonna be your little social climber booster, or someone to talk to when things are going good, then for you to exclude me nah fuck that either you accept me fully or fuck off. You see some people will want you around to boost said persons social value say they want you to come to ceremony or their accepting a award. Then after your serve your purpose. Then you say we should grab a drink and there is food festival in town, then its bro don't you have any friends, or you tell em maybe i come over sometime and bring over a beer, then its bro iam not that social and quiet person. Or the big game is on we could watch it ill brg a drink ohh im not into sports. This guy called me and i told him there is no reason for us to talk im not angry at you and wish you the best. I live a hour away from this guy by train. This was over a 8 month time table, but i knew the guy for years was a male cousin.


I realized i shouldnt expect things from other people to treat me with the same grace or effort i give them. Lifted the weight off me.
 
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