Humor just means good development

[zeronai]

There’s comedians who are by definition literally modern court jesters and can look awful but I’m talking being known for ‘charisma’ in your own social circle and with women.

You can only feel comfortable vocally making jokes in a larger social setting above a certain looks threshold, so an NT ‘sense of humor’ often just means that you at least got the genetics which allowed you to develop it.
And that growing up people actually wanted to listen to what you have to say so it reinforces the loop.

Understanding sarcasm, irony, teasing a girl and such bs is law if you look semi-decent, just be funny theory