Hypergamy is the one aspect of the blackpill I change my mind about on a daily basis nearly

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Sometimes I think all this hypergamy stuff is just a cope for LTNs to overrate themselves - Muh I’m HTN but an incel cos Muh hypergamy Muh chad only

Whenever I leave the house there’s plenty of girls I find attractive with not so good looking men

However then at times I get so frustrated with my own results I think I must be suffering from hypergamy to some extent - then I wonder if I’m just overrating myself? Or underrating my slays maybe? I do think this site on average overrates men and but and underrated girls as a cope tbh
 
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Sometimes I think all this hypergamy stuff is just a cope for LTNs to overrate themselves - Muh I’m HTN but an incel cos Muh hypergamy Muh chad only

Whenever I leave the house there’s plenty of girls I find attractive with not so good looking men

However then at times I get so frustrated with my own results I think I must be suffering from hypergamy to some extent - then I wonder if I’m just overrating myself? Or underrating my slays maybe? I do think this site on average overrates men and but and underrated girls as a cope tbh
you over-rate people. Most ugly guys have gl gfs cuz they met them irl and not online
 
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you over-rate people. Most ugly guys have gl gfs cuz they met them irl and not online
Yeah I’m aware of this- I never got fuck all through social circle at uni though- and okay I have looksmaxxed a fair bit since then, but I was still like a MTN back then and HTN now so I should’ve easily passed the threshold to get a social circle gf and yet it never happened ?
 
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Constructive criticism: From pics I’ve seen of u I don’t think ur htn no offence and all the best
 
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HTN = incel in online dating, no fucking surprise. you lucked out with the girls you managed to fuck
 
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Yeah I’m aware of this- I never got fuck all through social circle at uni though- and okay I have looksmaxxed a fair bit since then, but I was still like a MTN back then and HTN now so I should’ve easily passed the threshold to get a social circle gf and yet it never happened ?
I’m not sure bro, I think you’re a gl guy. Could be because you’re a bit reserved/shy
 
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Constructive criticism: From pics I’ve seen of u I don’t think ur htn no offence and all the best
Who’s alt are you cos you joined a few days ago and I’ve never sent you pics
 
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HTN = incel in online dating, no fucking surprise. you lucked out with the girls you managed to fuck
what f you have great physique too
 
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Biggest foid underrater is @StreegeReturn
 
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I should’ve easily passed the threshold to get a social circle gf and yet it never happened ?
are you non-NT or shy irl? redpill game stuff is actually decently important in social settings
 
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you over-rate people. Most ugly guys have gl gfs cuz they met them irl and not online
Phenotype plays a big role online way more than irl and ops pheno is not so great for a white guy. He needs to be chadlite to live a better life online.
On top, for most of those guys who have gfs, it would be over for them on online dating. Online dating is retarded but its all you have when you are a social circle cel
 
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I’m not sure bro, I think you’re a gl guy. Could be because you’re a bit reserved/shy
I went out to a bar last night and seriously not one guy in there would’ve been rated chadlite by the forum , was a pretty small place tbf like 100 people so not a massive sample but still. I didn’t do any approaches cos I didn’t see enough open body language to make me want to but I did walk around trying to gauge some girls to approach but talked myself out of all of them lol
 
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Biggest foid underrater is @StreegeReturn
Pics have their effects too. I rarely am amazed by a girl on pics. But irl i find more girls pretty. Still your avi tells me enoughh about your lack of taste and aesthetics in women. Wouldn’t give the hour to your avi
 
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U turd he’s HTN
Clearly wasn’t htn in photo, complaining about dating results not correlating to htn. Hmm

And the sooner he accepts this the sooner he can work on the plan to fix it

But he’s getting surgery soon to fix the main failo I saw so that’ll help
 
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Pics have their effects too. I rarely am amazed by a girl on pics. But irl i find more girls pretty. Still your avi tells me enoughh about your lack of taste and aesthetics in women. Wouldn’t give the hour to your avi
because you have an odd taste
 
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Pics have their effects too. I rarely am amazed by a girl on pics. But irl i find more girls pretty. Still your avi tells me enoughh about your lack of taste and aesthetics in women. Wouldn’t give the hour to your avi
because stacies don't use OLD if not ig. and the girls that like you are quite hot but still not so impressive
 
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because stacies don't use OLD if not ig. and the girls that like you are quite hot but still not so impressive
Stacies are actually either famous or socially humble no in between. You won’t find them on apps. Apps are degen ngl
 
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Phenotype plays a big role online way more than irl and ops pheno is not so great for a white guy. He needs to be chadlite to live a better life online.
On top, for most of those guys who have gfs, it would be over for them on online dating. Online dating is retarded but its all you have when you are a social circle cel
And most people here are autistic to have social circle
 
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because stacies don't use OLD if not ig. and the girls that like you are quite hot but still not so impressive
Stacies fuck chads from age of 14 lol
 
And most people here are autistic to have social circle
Autism is an easy word. Reality is :
1. They don’t have the opportunity
2. If they do they are too high inhibit.

Has nothing to do with actual autism that is quite rare. Most normies are weird acting too but low inhibit / not shy so they get away with it
 
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Stacies fuck chads from age of 14 lol
exactly. they don't need to hop on OLD where horny men can fuck whatever girl because it takes 0 effort.
 
Anyway it's all about looks purgatory theory.

Those couples where the foid fogs her partner are her betabuxes.
 
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Autism is an easy word. Reality is :
1. They don’t have the opportunity
2. If they do they are too high inhibit.

Has nothing to do with actual autism that is quite rare. Most normies are weird acting too but low inhibit / not shy so they get away with it
Reality is:
1) they are awkward (autistic)
2)Non-NT aka can’t naturally participate in casual human interactions
 
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Clearly wasn’t htn in photo, complaining about dating results not correlating to htn. Hmm

And the sooner he accepts this the sooner he can work on the plan to fix it

But he’s getting surgery soon to fix the main failo I saw so that’ll help
I’d probably rate myself as just about HTN , like weak HTN based on face and slightly higher full package cos of body (guess it depends what you think the relative importance of body is), but I could also understand people rating me MTN so I won’t argue it.

I’ve gotten some pretty attractive girls off online dating in UK albeit only on a couple of occasions and I can’t get it consistently which I think vindicates my rating

I’m pretty sure I’m definetly not a LTN

I have surgery in 9 days!
 
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I don't see this as often in the south UK.
American girls are hotter than western european ones ngl. Only heaven is north europe where average girl is easy htb anywhere else
 
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I’d probably rate myself as just about HTN , like weak HTN based on face and slightly higher full package cos of body (guess it depends what you think the relative importance of body is), but I could also understand people rating me MTN so I won’t argue it.

I’ve gotten some pretty attractive girls off online dating in UK albeit only on a couple of occasions and I can’t get it consistently which I think vindicates my rating

I’m pretty sure I’m definetly not a LTN

I have surgery in 9 days!
Post your pic
 
Reality is:
1) they are awkward (autistic)
2)Non-NT aka can’t naturally participate in casual human interactions
Thats rare asf ngl
 
Any it's all about looks purgatory theory.

Those couples where the foid fogs her partner are her betabuxes.
What percentile looks puts you into the purgatory zone?
 
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y u jfling @StreegeReturn i dmed him pics and he said he thinks I am in looks purgatory so I wanna know :feelswhat:
 
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y u jfling @StreegeReturn i dmed him pics and he said he thinks I am in looks purgatory so I wanna know :feelswhat:
I mean its cuz u tag 6ft4 this guy will make essays about those topics
 
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Bro lets face it nothing will make up for lack of high school love and validation. And i was popular and NT, but wasn’t a slayer and just not being a slayer was enough to fuck me over.
Or maybe its just i can’t cope and refuse to be an oldcel. As an oldcel its over bro. Genuinely over. Even gigachad face can’t do shit. Its the real pill.
I want to nuke my account and cry ngl
 
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Bro lets face it nothing will make up for lack of high school love and validation. And i was popular and NT, but wasn’t a slayer and just not being a slayer was enough to fuck me over.
Or maybe its just i can’t cope and refuse to be an oldcel. As an oldcel its over bro. Genuinely over. Even gigachad face can’t do shit. Its the real pill.
I want to nuke my account and cry ngl
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What percentile looks puts you into the purgatory zone?

@6ft4, @MoggerGaston, @Broski and @Anstrum95

are examples of men in the looks purgatory zone.

But in cases where the hypergamy is extreme even @forevergymcelling can experience the treatment of the men above.
 
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Bro lets face it nothing will make up for lack of high school love and validation. And i was popular and NT, but wasn’t a slayer and just not being a slayer was enough to fuck me over.
Or maybe its just i can’t cope and refuse to be an oldcel. As an oldcel its over bro. Genuinely over. Even gigachad face can’t do shit. Its the real pill.
I want to nuke my account and cry ngl
Pretty much lol- life is all about being young and good looking and getting the validation you need at the right age
 
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@6ft4, @MoggerGaston, @Broski and @Anstrum95

are examples of men in the looks purgatory zone.

But in cases where the hypergamy is extreme even @forevergymcelling can experience the treatment of the men above.
Only irL

I’ve never struggled online
 
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Someone who is very clearly out of the looks purgatory zone is @Niko69

Because even though he's a manlet, he's a goodlooking + high trust pretty boy. His looks make it hard for him not to be treated well by foids.
 
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Hypergamy is one of the core aspects of the blackpill
 
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Sometimes I think all this hypergamy stuff is just a cope for LTNs to overrate themselves - Muh I’m HTN but an incel cos Muh hypergamy Muh chad only

Whenever I leave the house there’s plenty of girls I find attractive with not so good looking men

However then at times I get so frustrated with my own results I think I must be suffering from hypergamy to some extent - then I wonder if I’m just overrating myself? Or underrating my slays maybe? I do think this site on average overrates men and but and underrated girls as a cope tbh
This, i started cs study and the best looking guy here is aspie af and rot alone during lectures while 175cm recessed ginger (slav version of WW) has a cute gf and spend most of the time with her studying together, cuddling and kissing sometimes :( other ltns also can have easily ltn-mtn girl
 
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furthermore 99% girls dont care about so gl guy, he is indivisible as every other man. Im autistic observing the most attractive man in my uni and he doesnt get staring and attention from foids at all
 
What percentile looks puts you into the purgatory zone?



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From a relationship standpoint
HTN = Guaranteed Looks Purgatory

Reason Being:
It is too much of a risk for Stacey or StaceyLite to get in a relationship with a HTN because the preselection Halo he receives from this runs the risk of other girls seeing value in him, causing them to consider him a Chadlite, meaning he will then be able to cheat on her with girls of the same level as her, whereas he couldn't get those girls before her

Whereas if a Stacey/Staceylite gets with a MTN, girls will not look at him and think maybe he's a Chadlite so they will know that she is the best girl he can get and know the girl is in control of the power of the relationship

If a Stacey/Staceylite gets a relationship with a Chad/Chadlite it is seen as normal and she knows she is running the risk of him cheating on her with a girl of the same level as her but it's worth the lack of power she has over him because of the pleasure she gets from being with him. (I think most S/SL start off down this route in relationships from 14-20 but then start going for the MTNs when they see every relationship fails)

Even LTN has a chance of a relationship with a StaceyLite if she can stomach him
I was staying at an airBnB and in the space of 10 days I seen some couples with looks imbalances that blew my mind
Maybe even a Stacey could stomach a LTN for a relationship but I would hope for my own sanity he is not getting sex more than once per month

So what relationship options is the HTN left with:
He can fuck LTB and MTB from tinder and clubs on first meeting (atho even this is getting harder in 2022)
He can then ask her over to fuck a few more times until she starts to look for a relationship with him but he usually cannot feel a true desire to have a relationship with her due to seeing StaceyLites in relationships with LTNs every time he steps outside

So the last option left are HTBs, this should in theory be his looksmatch so he shouldn't struggle with them right?
Wrong, HTBs think their looksmatch is Chadlite so they will get into fuckbuddy scenarios with them thinking it will lead to relationships but it never does.
HTBs can't bring themselves to give up quick sex and fuckbuddy scenarios to HTN except in rare instances where he gets lucky and is in right place right time so she is rarely dealing with her true looksmatch.
HTN doesn't think he should have to go on dates with HTB before getting sex like he would with a StaceyLite so the HTN & HTB both see themselves as having the least to gain from pairing up with each other

I believe I was in the HTN range for 93/103 of my slays
I would say 5 of my slays were HTB
So it takes me 18.6 slays on average to slay 1 HTB
 
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From a relationship standpoint
HTN = Guaranteed Looks Purgatory

Reason Being:
It is too much of a risk for Stacey or StaceyLite to get in a relationship with a HTN because the preselection Halo he receives from this runs the risk of other girls seeing value in him, causing them to consider him a Chadlite, meaning he will then be able to cheat on her with girls of the same level as her, whereas he couldn't get those girls before her

Whereas if a Stacey/Staceylite gets with a MTN, girls will not look at him and think maybe he's a Chadlite so they will know that she is the best girl he can get and know the girl is in control of the power of the relationship

If a Stacey/Staceylite gets a relationship with a Chad/Chadlite it is seen as normal and she knows she is running the risk of him cheating on her with a girl of the same level as her but it's worth the lack of power she has over him because of the pleasure she gets from being with him. (I think most S/SL start off down this route in relationships from 14-20 but then start going for the MTNs when they see every relationship fails)

Even LTN has a chance of a relationship with a StaceyLite if she can stomach him
I was staying at an airBnB and in the space of 10 days I seen some couples with looks imbalances that blew my mind
Maybe even a Stacey could stomach a LTN for a relationship but I would hope for my own sanity he is not getting sex more than once per month

So what relationship options is the HTN left with:
He can fuck LTB and MTB from tinder and clubs on first meeting (atho even this is getting harder in 2022)
He can then ask her over to fuck a few more times until she starts to look for a relationship with him but he usually cannot feel a true desire to have a relationship with her due to seeing StaceyLites in relationships with LTNs every time he steps outside

So the last option left are HTBs, this should in theory be his looksmatch so he shouldn't struggle with them right?
Wrong, HTBs think their looksmatch is Chadlite so they will get into fuckbuddy scenarios with them thinking it will lead to relationships but it never does.
HTBs can't bring themselves to give up quick sex and fuckbuddy scenarios to HTN except in rare instances where he gets lucky and is in right place right time so she is rarely dealing with her true looksmatch.
HTN doesn't think he should have to go on dates with HTB before getting sex like he would with a StaceyLite so the HTN & HTB both see themselves as having the least to gain from pairing up with each other
I would happily go on actual date with a HTB, I go on dates with MTB/LTB quite often lol, but I’m trying to stop doing that now tbh
 
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