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I think everyone has heard of hypergamy, and knows what it is. But I researched and "studied" more deeply to find out why this thing is natural in women, and why many men accept this difference, unfortunately.
We will see everything from beginning to end.
I warn you that everything I am going to say does not necessarily come from a direct source, but that it can also be the perception that I may have had by myself.
So what is hypergamy ?
Hypergamy refers, in its original anthropological definition, to the tendency to unite with a partner of equal or higher social status. In its popular contemporary use, it is often presented as an immutable biological law according to which women would systematically look for men richer, larger, more powerful than them.
So for example the physical appearance:
A good example, and fortunately everyone see it.
When does the word hypergamy date from ?
The term hypergamy comes from the Greek "hyper" (above) and "gamos" (marriage). It was forged by 19th century anthropologists to refer to the practice by which a woman marries a man belonging to a caste or upper social class. In this original context, hypergamy is an institutional phenomenon, a codified social rule, not an individual instinct.
Today many people are against this word because they think it doesn't exist, or it's wrong but it's bullshit. It does exist. When we search on internet for information on this subject, it is often redirected to the fault of a toxic community of men, and that in reality people are often with people who are equal to them from a physical point of view. Don’t trust the misinformation.
Hypergamy also exists because men are naturally more beautiful than women, and if a man is not born with it, he will make more effort to become so than a woman. So proportionally, there are more handsome men than beautiful women.
The hypergamyfuel by women:
Women, no matter how they are, they will always have a tiny part of themselves that will have a high self-esteem, whether economically, socially or physically. We can notice this by several facts and examples that we can see in everyday life.
First example:
When you see a woman give false compliments, "you're so perfect"; "you're so beautiful" by addressing an obese or literally disfigured person. They do this so that the person does nothing to change and that fewer women are at the same "stage" of beauty. Because unconsciously they want to have more access to "fortune", no matter what, than other women. And it is linked to the fact of having easier access to love, of a man handsome enough for them.
Second example:
Makeup. It has been normalized and integrated in them more and more, that now women spend more time with a fake face, and think that we must rely on their made-up faces to put a real note of beauty. And so they themselves think that it is this face that must find a man of the same beauty. (Not natural+natural)
Mind you that’s probably the least shocking possible
Third example:
They lie, they manipulate the man they want, to make him believe that they are the ones he deserves. They can lie to him about other women who are possibly competitors. They can manipulate man so that he thinks he deserves nothing but her.
Why many men do not know that they are victims of hypergamy
First, men are more likely to underestimate themselves, like you're not going to tell me that you and I, we never said: "I'm so fucking horrible" and that we just said to ourselves that for the rest of our lives we will never find love for example. And it makes a man think he doesn't deserve a Stacy when he's a Chad
Secondly, a good part of men only ask to be loved, they want romanticism. You may not want it but many of us are looking for it. We need this to feel good, to know that we are loved by a charming woman, who takes care of us and vice versa. But too many men fall into the trap where they take the first woman they meet, one who does not deserve to have what the man offers her.
Third, today's society, make sure that women should not be judged by their beauty, people think that apparently women have always been subject to beauty standards and that men never. So, men think that even a woman who is too round is not ugly and is at the same level as a woman with a harmonious body. But men continue to be judged by their beauty, while just like women they have also always been subject to standards. But today only men suffer it.
Conclusion
Far too many men are victims of hypergamy that will harm their genetics for their children, they are stuck with heartless and toxic profiteers. We can never stop hypergamy again, because women are shits who don't realize how lucky they are to be able to blame someone and make someone look like a horrible person, because a man says no to her bad genetics that she will transmit.
I would like to clarify once again that there are not only things verified by professionals by reliable sources, but also my own feelings and the knowledge that I may have had by looking at how women behave.
To cheer you up, I can tell you that there are still beautiful women in this world but not at all enough unfortunately.
We will see everything from beginning to end.
I warn you that everything I am going to say does not necessarily come from a direct source, but that it can also be the perception that I may have had by myself.
So what is hypergamy ?
Hypergamy refers, in its original anthropological definition, to the tendency to unite with a partner of equal or higher social status. In its popular contemporary use, it is often presented as an immutable biological law according to which women would systematically look for men richer, larger, more powerful than them.
So for example the physical appearance:
A good example, and fortunately everyone see it.
When does the word hypergamy date from ?
The term hypergamy comes from the Greek "hyper" (above) and "gamos" (marriage). It was forged by 19th century anthropologists to refer to the practice by which a woman marries a man belonging to a caste or upper social class. In this original context, hypergamy is an institutional phenomenon, a codified social rule, not an individual instinct.
Today many people are against this word because they think it doesn't exist, or it's wrong but it's bullshit. It does exist. When we search on internet for information on this subject, it is often redirected to the fault of a toxic community of men, and that in reality people are often with people who are equal to them from a physical point of view. Don’t trust the misinformation.
Hypergamy also exists because men are naturally more beautiful than women, and if a man is not born with it, he will make more effort to become so than a woman. So proportionally, there are more handsome men than beautiful women.
The hypergamyfuel by women:
Women, no matter how they are, they will always have a tiny part of themselves that will have a high self-esteem, whether economically, socially or physically. We can notice this by several facts and examples that we can see in everyday life.
First example:
When you see a woman give false compliments, "you're so perfect"; "you're so beautiful" by addressing an obese or literally disfigured person. They do this so that the person does nothing to change and that fewer women are at the same "stage" of beauty. Because unconsciously they want to have more access to "fortune", no matter what, than other women. And it is linked to the fact of having easier access to love, of a man handsome enough for them.
Second example:
Makeup. It has been normalized and integrated in them more and more, that now women spend more time with a fake face, and think that we must rely on their made-up faces to put a real note of beauty. And so they themselves think that it is this face that must find a man of the same beauty. (Not natural+natural)
Mind you that’s probably the least shocking possible
Third example:
They lie, they manipulate the man they want, to make him believe that they are the ones he deserves. They can lie to him about other women who are possibly competitors. They can manipulate man so that he thinks he deserves nothing but her.
Why many men do not know that they are victims of hypergamy
First, men are more likely to underestimate themselves, like you're not going to tell me that you and I, we never said: "I'm so fucking horrible" and that we just said to ourselves that for the rest of our lives we will never find love for example. And it makes a man think he doesn't deserve a Stacy when he's a Chad
Secondly, a good part of men only ask to be loved, they want romanticism. You may not want it but many of us are looking for it. We need this to feel good, to know that we are loved by a charming woman, who takes care of us and vice versa. But too many men fall into the trap where they take the first woman they meet, one who does not deserve to have what the man offers her.
Third, today's society, make sure that women should not be judged by their beauty, people think that apparently women have always been subject to beauty standards and that men never. So, men think that even a woman who is too round is not ugly and is at the same level as a woman with a harmonious body. But men continue to be judged by their beauty, while just like women they have also always been subject to standards. But today only men suffer it.
Conclusion
Far too many men are victims of hypergamy that will harm their genetics for their children, they are stuck with heartless and toxic profiteers. We can never stop hypergamy again, because women are shits who don't realize how lucky they are to be able to blame someone and make someone look like a horrible person, because a man says no to her bad genetics that she will transmit.
I would like to clarify once again that there are not only things verified by professionals by reliable sources, but also my own feelings and the knowledge that I may have had by looking at how women behave.
To cheer you up, I can tell you that there are still beautiful women in this world but not at all enough unfortunately.
