I (22M) shaved my head and my girlfriend (23F) of 5 months hates it

[ifyouwannabemylover]

To provide a little backstory, a month or two ago I floated the idea to my girlfriend that I wanted to shave my head. This was partly for experimental reasons and partly because I have begun to grow self-conscious about my hairline receding. She was adamantly against this idea so I didn't end up doing it. Fast forward to yesterday when I got a particularly strong impulse to shave my head and ended up doing it. When I told my gf that I did it she became extremely upset and now does not want to talk to me. I am a bit conflicted about how to go about resolving this. On one hand, the fact that I shaved my head when she explicitly told me that she did not want me to is inconsiderate and I have apologized for not considering her feelings more before I did it. On the other hand, I feel that I should be able to decide what I do with my own body and me changing how my hair looks should not be a make or break issue for the relationship. If she wants to end the relationship over this, is it even worth trying to save?

 

[Manu le coq]

Female: boyfriend want me to not become fat
Reddit: what a disguting mysoginstic asshole, he is clearly manipulative and controlling, your bofy your choice, you should leave him queen

Male:girlfriend want me to not become bald
Reddit: you are s narcissist, you should look more forward to the feelings of your partener in the relationship, man up, don’t be so selfish

 

[Deleted member 19499]

If hair was the only thing saving him then it was over to begin with

 

[Cope]

Thanks for clarifying that ur gf is female OP, I definitely wasn't questioning that she is male!

 

[Deleted member 2403]

“women over x age dont like prettyboys anymore “

 

[Oberyn]

I feel that I should be able to decide what I do with my own body and me changing how my hair looks should not be a make or break issue for the relationship

Disneycel

 

[Deleted member 1660]

stolen from reddit:

fake and gay

 

[Deprived]

stolen from reddit:

fake and gay

We know retard

 

[Deleted member 19548]

@SubhumanCurrycel sigh, when will they learn my bhai

 

[SubhumanCurrycel]

If you feel more confident with your new look that should be all that matters. She should be at least mature enough to have a conversation about it after the fact.

 

[HerpDerpson]

I feel that I should be able to decide what I do with my own body

You're body exist to attract opposite gender.