I already forgave her cheating but now I saw details and can't cope with the way she had sex

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I am really freaking out right now and hope you guys can help me.
My girlfriend of 2,5 years has cheated and I already forgave her. Now I learned that the sex was much worse than I expected and I don't know how to handle this.
It happened about 2 month ago. My girlfriend was at a party at the shared apartment of some of her friends. Nothing special. I wasn't in town as I had to work in a different city.
The next day she called me crying and told me that she had cheated. I was shocked. When I came back the day after that, we had a long talk. She didn't tell me much details and I didn't ask for it. She said that she had had a few drinks and just went with the flow and then had sex there. I actually didn't ask with whom.
As she seemed to be really sorry, I tried to get over it. It took me some time but I actually managed to really forgive her and I thought our relationship was on a good track again - her cheating wasn't a topic at all anymore. I admit that I was wondering about details from time to time but I didn't want to talk about it and thought that it doesn't matter.
However, I was very, very wrong.
Yesterday I talked to a guy who was there as well and he seemed to be very surprised that I had been able to forgive her. I tried to explain to him that I appreciated her honesy and that she never tried to hide it at all. I wasn't able to understand his confusion until I was finally brave enough to ask about details.
I almost blacked out when he told me.
To cut a long story short: it wasn't just "normal" sex with one guy. She apparently slept with at least three of them and did things she'd never do with me. I still have no words for it.
Actually I thought he was making this up but he had proof and I can't get this off my mind now. I don't know how to ever cope with this.
I know that I didn't ask for details but it still feels like she lied to me, even though she technically maybe didn't.
I hate that I went through a lot of mental trouble to keep this relationship alive and now have to learn this.
I am completely freaking out right now
 
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I am really freaking out right now and hope you guys can help me.
My girlfriend of 2,5 years has cheated and I already forgave her. Now I learned that the sex was much worse than I expected and I don't know how to handle this.
It happened about 2 month ago. My girlfriend was at a party at the shared apartment of some of her friends. Nothing special. I wasn't in town as I had to work in a different city.
The next day she called me crying and told me that she had cheated. I was shocked. When I came back the day after that, we had a long talk. She didn't tell me much details and I didn't ask for it. She said that she had had a few drinks and just went with the flow and then had sex there. I actually didn't ask with whom.
As she seemed to be really sorry, I tried to get over it. It took me some time but I actually managed to really forgive her and I thought our relationship was on a good track again - her cheating wasn't a topic at all anymore. I admit that I was wondering about details from time to time but I didn't want to talk about it and thought that it doesn't matter.
However, I was very, very wrong.
Yesterday I talked to a guy who was there as well and he seemed to be very surprised that I had been able to forgive her. I tried to explain to him that I appreciated her honesy and that she never tried to hide it at all. I wasn't able to understand his confusion until I was finally brave enough to ask about details.
I almost blacked out when he told me.
To cut a long story short: it wasn't just "normal" sex with one guy. She apparently slept with at least three of them and did things she'd never do with me. I still have no words for it.
Actually I thought he was making this up but he had proof and I can't get this off my mind now. I don't know how to ever cope with this.
I know that I didn't ask for details but it still feels like she lied to me, even though she technically maybe didn't.
I hate that I went through a lot of mental trouble to keep this relationship alive and now have to learn this.
I am completely freaking out right now
Just get the cuck chair out atp ngl
 
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Cuck fanfiction. What do you get posting your homosexual fantasies to this forum? You make me sick.
 
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Cuck fanfiction. What do you get posting your homosexual fantasies to this forum? You make me sick.
reddit story
 
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Cheating Stories
Brad Keselowski Thumbs Up GIF by NASCAR
 
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written by indian cuckoldry fantasiser hands
 
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How can a man trust a foid, i never understand this. I live my life assuming that every woman is an unreliable bitch.

If you are in a relationship with a woman, she is cheating on you, it's that simple.
 
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How can a man trust a foid, i never understand this. I live my life assuming that every woman is an unreliable bitch.

If you are in a relationship with a woman, she is cheating on you, it's that simple.
except if you are chad
 
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holy cuck:forcedsmile:
 
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I am really freaking out right now and hope you guys can help me.
My girlfriend of 2,5 years has cheated and I already forgave her. Now I learned that the sex was much worse than I expected and I don't know how to handle this.
It happened about 2 month ago. My girlfriend was at a party at the shared apartment of some of her friends. Nothing special. I wasn't in town as I had to work in a different city.
The next day she called me crying and told me that she had cheated. I was shocked. When I came back the day after that, we had a long talk. She didn't tell me much details and I didn't ask for it. She said that she had had a few drinks and just went with the flow and then had sex there. I actually didn't ask with whom.
As she seemed to be really sorry, I tried to get over it. It took me some time but I actually managed to really forgive her and I thought our relationship was on a good track again - her cheating wasn't a topic at all anymore. I admit that I was wondering about details from time to time but I didn't want to talk about it and thought that it doesn't matter.
However, I was very, very wrong.
Yesterday I talked to a guy who was there as well and he seemed to be very surprised that I had been able to forgive her. I tried to explain to him that I appreciated her honesy and that she never tried to hide it at all. I wasn't able to understand his confusion until I was finally brave enough to ask about details.
I almost blacked out when he told me.
To cut a long story short: it wasn't just "normal" sex with one guy. She apparently slept with at least three of them and did things she'd never do with me. I still have no words for it.
Actually I thought he was making this up but he had proof and I can't get this off my mind now. I don't know how to ever cope with this.
I know that I didn't ask for details but it still feels like she lied to me, even though she technically maybe didn't.
I hate that I went through a lot of mental trouble to keep this relationship alive and now have to learn this.
I am completely freaking out right now
I genuinely from tbe bottom of my empty heart hope this is a reddit post, not a fellow .orgcel
 
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First mistake was that you forgave her for cheating everything that comes after that you deserved it
 
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Those bruises on her knees are from when she fell off her bike bro :soy:
 
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Kill yourself it will help bro trust me
 
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link of reddit post
 
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Crazyyy bro

Thank you, now I know what to do on the internet if maybe I would feel retarded or disabled and I'll feel better right away after seeing this posts
 
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