I always thought getting a gf would be easy

[Jamal2222]

But guess what, it isn’t. From 13 to 18 now I’ve tried but when girls reject you you’re stuck in limbo. You start to feel psychologically fucked up from longing and wanted *intimacy* not an orgasm. Literally isn’t even the sex that you crave, it’s psychological need for a mate. You’d masturbate to cope and end up feeling worse. Hollow release, you don’t feel anything because you feel intimacy is missing. Meanwhile you see everyone around you getting laid. It’s just a bad thing to deal with. “Put yourself out there “, once upon a time I was 16 and wanted a gf so I went to the mall and talked to 100s of girls. They give me theirs socials and then not respond, flake on me, or make if difficult, and lead me on. Oh man this is just soul crushing you feel defeated. I was straightforward with some of the girls and it didn’t work. They still didn’t want me, 79 excuses why. Then they show up with a new bf on Snapchat within a month. Then you realize they’d feel different about dating you if you were someone else. Then you have zero self esteem

 

[Jamal2222]

The lucky teenagers are in ltrs or they get a new girl every week

 

[Jamal2222]

Oh my god, I’ve been rejected by hundreds of teenage females. 100% rejection rated. I used to keep track when i was 16 to try to *improve* my approach and analyze my strategy further to pinpoint weakpoints. It was all I waste I talked to so many so many girls, I talked to girls on my swim team, at my D&D driving school, at my school, in the mall, mutual instagram friends, snapchat slides, closer friends. I really did everything in the book and I put in a tremendous amount of effort, i was talking to girls every day. But I’m still a virgin , many girls would want to see my face then lose interest immediately, so facial surgery is my only hope now.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

 

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How do you look like

 

[Albeacho]

But guess what, it isn’t. From 13 to 18 now I’ve tried but when girls reject you you’re stuck in limbo. You start to feel psychologically fucked up from longing and wanted *intimacy* not an orgasm. Literally isn’t even the sex that you crave, it’s psychological need for a mate. You’d masturbate to cope and end up feeling worse. Hollow release, you don’t feel anything because you feel intimacy is missing. Meanwhile you see everyone around you getting laid. It’s just a bad thing to deal with. “Put yourself out there “, once upon a time I was 16 and wanted a gf so I went to the mall and talked to 100s of girls. They give me theirs socials and then not respond, flake on me, or make if difficult, and lead me on. Oh man this is just soul crushing you feel defeated. I was straightforward with some of the girls and it didn’t work. They still didn’t want me, 79 excuses why. Then they show up with a new bf on Snapchat within a month. Then you realize they’d feel different about dating you if you were someone else. Then you have zero self esteem

The lucky teenagers are in ltrs or they get a new girl every week

Oh my god, I’ve been rejected by hundreds of teenage females. 100% rejection rated. I used to keep track when i was 16 to try to *improve* my approach and analyze my strategy further to pinpoint weakpoints. It was all I waste I talked to so many so many girls, I talked to girls on my swim team, at my D&D driving school, at my school, in the mall, mutual instagram friends, snapchat slides, closer friends. I really did everything in the book and I put in a tremendous amount of effort, i was talking to girls every day. But I’m still a virgin , many girls would want to see my face then lose interest immediately, so facial surgery is my only hope now.

Life as a sub 6 psl male is a scam, the effort we have to go through to ltr some becky is extremely high.

 

[Deleted member 13779]

From 13 to 18 now I’ve tried but when girls reject you you’re stuck in limbo.

You still have so much life left - don't let your high school experience color your expectations for the rest of it. You haven't even grown into your full self yet.

Oh my god, I’ve been rejected by hundreds of teenage females. 100% rejection rated. I used to keep track when i was 16 to try to *improve* my approach and analyze my strategy further to pinpoint weakpoints. It was all I waste I talked to so many so many girls, I talked to girls on my swim team, at my D&D driving school, at my school, in the mall, mutual instagram friends, snapchat slides, closer friends. I really did everything in the book and I put in a tremendous amount of effort, i was talking to girls every day. But I’m still a virgin , many girls would want to see my face then lose interest immediately, so facial surgery is my only hope now.

It sounds to me like you weren't interested in any of the girls individually - just in the abstract idea of having a girlfriend.