I am losing friends by the day

[Deleted member 105316]

I have gone from confidently saying I’m best friends with probably 12 people irl, to feeling like i’m harassing them by speaking to them.

I don’t think i’ve been invited more than once to a hangout with any of my closest friends in so long, i’m usually the second option.

And the only times we hang out are when I ask to hang out, and i genuinely don’t know how to tell them that i feel this way but it is what it is, and the sad part is i have to fucking resort to org for advice, fuck me man

 

[160cmcurry]

they’re not your friends if you’re always the one reaching out to them

 

[Embryo]

If you're the second option then they aren't your friends pal.

 

[Deleted member 105316]

they’re not your friends if you’re always the one reaching out to them

fuck bro

 

[Akihito]

I have gone from confidently saying I’m best friends with probably 12 people irl, to feeling like i’m harassing them by speaking to them.

I don’t think i’ve been invited more than once to a hangout with any of my closest friends in so long, i’m usually the second option.

And the only times we hang out are when I ask to hang out, and i genuinely don’t know how to tell them that i feel this way but it is what it is, and the sad part is i have to fucking resort to org for advice, fuck me man

I'm going through the same thing man they're not your freinds, just cut them off

 

[fairydustt]

like niggas are saying, they probably were never your friends, and as I assume you haven't had many before, this was a new thing for you.

if a nigga isn't going to sought out trying to talk to you, or hang out with you, they ARENT your friend.

 

[satangoy]

I have gone from confidently saying I’m best friends with probably 12 people irl, to feeling like i’m harassing them by speaking to them.

I don’t think i’ve been invited more than once to a hangout with any of my closest friends in so long, i’m usually the second option.

And the only times we hang out are when I ask to hang out, and i genuinely don’t know how to tell them that i feel this way but it is what it is, and the sad part is i have to fucking resort to org for advice, fuck me man

same shit maybe not 12 but i thought i had some irl friends also turns out I was just last option when they're bored and nobody else is reaching out, always quality over quantity brah remember it's a good thing ur loosing them that means ur like is getting pure from fakes