I am mostly likely a covert narcissist( the pathetic kind not the cool one)

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I hate to be one of then cringe self diagnosed people but it seems to make a lot of sense. I fit the almost of all the symptoms. I might have been neglected a bit as a child.(unsure what it would look like) It all fits together

An over-inflated sense of self-importance.
Lack of empathy.
A need for excessive admiration.
Sense of entitlement.
Surrounding yourself with superficial relationships.
Taking advantage of others for personal gain.
Resistance to change.
Hyper-focusing on fantasies of grandeur.
I suffer from all of these apart from Maybe lack of empathy.


These quotes from a article also seems to explain my personality alot
But while an overt narcissist might come off as combative, a covert narcissist will be defensive.

“Covert narcissists don’t want to feel humiliated or mocked, so they tend to turn criticism around and defend against it quite quickly,” says Dr. Albers. “With covert narcissists, back-handed statements and insults are more common even though they’re subtle.”

A lack of empathy makes it hard for someone with covert narcissism to step into other people’s shoes. When you’re constantly analyzing or critiquing your own self-image, it can be hard to connect with other people in genuine ways. In some cases, you may appear hyper-focused on your own needs and wants, while at times, disregarding the needs of others. And you may even experience increased social anxiety because you want to be loved and appreciated while also being understood.

I don’t think people ever really get to know them truly,” states Dr. Albers. “They often won’t show people their true selves, and I think it’s hard for them to connect socially because they’re not being very genuine in their social circles.”

Anxiety and depression are much more common with covert narcissism than overt narcissism, but it might also be much more obvious.

It doesn't matter if I do or don't doesn't change anything. Just thinking about it
 
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A large number of incels seems to fit these traits
 
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Bro thinks he’s johan libret or something
 
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Covert narcissist becomes overt narcissist when drunk
 
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covert narcissism doesnt exist those people are just too ugly to be overt narcissists

every covert narcissist would act like jeremy fragrance if they had his looks

 
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A large number of incels seems to fit these traits
I believe that abused dog syndrome is just another name for covert narcissism which is why so many incels fit the criteria to be diagnosed as such, the traits displayed can be explained as symptoms of chronic social/sexual isolation of the patient

I don't know if i can be diagnosed as one but i do have many of the traits, though i am very empathetic, i used to hate it because id even cry or feel bad for people that would never even give a shit about my suffering
 
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yes thats also 95% of forum users (atleast pre-2024) and why you retards have social anxiety

basically you're self aware enough to know everyone perceives you as a weirdo and since ur brain is overly status obsessed w a fragile ego ur too much of a pussy to risk losing even the smallest amount of social status. this makes you end up having no personality which makes you look like even more of a weirdo long-term
 
yes thats also 95% of forum users (atleast pre-2024) and why you retards have social anxiety

basically you're self aware enough to know everyone perceives you as a weirdo and since ur brain is overly status obsessed w a fragile ego ur too much of a pussy to risk losing even the smallest amount of social status. this makes you end up having no personality which makes you look like even more of a weirdo long-term
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I hate to be one of then cringe self diagnosed people but it seems to make a lot of sense. I fit the almost of all the symptoms. I might have been neglected a bit as a child.(unsure what it would look like) It all fits together

An over-inflated sense of self-importance.
Lack of empathy.
A need for excessive admiration.
Sense of entitlement.
Surrounding yourself with superficial relationships.
Taking advantage of others for personal gain.
Resistance to change.
Hyper-focusing on fantasies of grandeur.
I suffer from all of these apart from Maybe lack of empathy.


These quotes from a article also seems to explain my personality alot
But while an overt narcissist might come off as combative, a covert narcissist will be defensive.

“Covert narcissists don’t want to feel humiliated or mocked, so they tend to turn criticism around and defend against it quite quickly,” says Dr. Albers. “With covert narcissists, back-handed statements and insults are more common even though they’re subtle.”

A lack of empathy makes it hard for someone with covert narcissism to step into other people’s shoes. When you’re constantly analyzing or critiquing your own self-image, it can be hard to connect with other people in genuine ways. In some cases, you may appear hyper-focused on your own needs and wants, while at times, disregarding the needs of others. And you may even experience increased social anxiety because you want to be loved and appreciated while also being understood.

I don’t think people ever really get to know them truly,” states Dr. Albers. “They often won’t show people their true selves, and I think it’s hard for them to connect socially because they’re not being very genuine in their social circles.”

Anxiety and depression are much more common with covert narcissism than overt narcissism, but it might also be much more obvious.

It doesn't matter if I do or don't doesn't change anything. Just thinking about it
Psychological diagnoses are jewish liberal horseshit anyway you’re good
 
I honestly think I have this form of narcissism as well, as I share your symptoms. I have befriended people and kept them around to derive potential benefits. I don't really care about them. I then recognize that everyone in my life (no matter when I have met them) cannot give me what I want, therefore I stay home and fantasize about having a wild life that I really want. Many of these people still want to hang out with me. Since I don't really enjoy hanging out with them, I either cut contact, wait for them to reach out, or hop in and out of their lives. I come across as shy, quiet, humble, nice, easy-going, etc, however.

I also feel envy when others get positive attention. I also feel pleasure when others are in a situation I deem the same or worse than mine. I can go on and on. Let me know if you would like to know more.

This psychologist has great videos about it:
 

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