I asked out a girl today

[FastBananaCEO]

I swear these redditfags are something else smh

 

[MostGLSlayer]

If I get rejected, I don’t recover for weeks.

 

[FastBananaCEO]

If I get rejected, I don’t recover for weeks.

Depends, if it’s a oneitis then yeah it’s debilitating considering I had feelings for them

if it’s just a chick I wanted to ask cuz I was bored then no idc in the slightest

 

[Unmoggablegingercel]

Rejection is a sharp pain that dulls over time. Regret is a dull pain that sharpens over time

pick your poison

 

[getra]

Rejection is a sharp pain that dulls over time. Regret is a dull pain that sharpens over time

pick your poison

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Depends, if it’s a oneitis then yeah it’s debilitating considering I had feelings for them

if it’s just a chick I wanted to ask cuz I was bored then no idc in the slightest

True oneitis rejection actually sinks my heart, like I literally feel it sink. Its a terrible feeling.

 

[Deleted member 2403]

fuck i need to troll

 

[Chinacurry]

If I get rejected, I don’t recover for weeks.

Jfl tbh I have never actually been rejected (not since I was 14), not trying to brag at all, just that I have approached a girl so few times it's not even funny, less than & times, but that's because 99% of the time when I see a girl I am too scared to try, have generally always relied on foids approaching me.

3 years ago I got fucked up by a foid (oneitis, 8 SMV, fat Noodlewhore) who was really blunt with me and told me that looks wise I was bottom 2-5% of guys, so knowing that I think I never ever will try to ask a girl again, and instead will live the MGTOW life.

 

[Chinacurry]

True oneitis rejection actually sinks my heart, like I literally feel it sink. Its a terrible feeling.

I think they're all equally bad, but I think a oneitis rejection lasts longer. If a non-oneitis rejected me I'd just cope by saying ah well wasn't that into her anyway.

Or an even better cope is to tell urself that irl, if u remove frauding and simps worshipping foids, very few girls are actually better looking than us.

I recently saw pics and vids of one of my oneitis with zero frauding, and facially she is not better than me, she just has crazy vibe, body, and really good fucking and sucking technique. Someone even said she has horse face like RVN

 

[LooksOrDeath]

3 years ago I got fucked up by a foid (oneitis, 8 SMV, fat Noodlewhore) who was really blunt with me and told me that looks wise I was bottom 2-5% of guys, so knowing that I think I never ever will try to ask a girl again, and instead will live the MGTOW life.

Aren't you the guy who was getting into ltrs with htbs lmao

 

[Deleted member 7192]

View attachment 1512655I swear these redditfags are something else smh

asked his first girl out at 17 and got rejected

never began

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Jfl tbh I have never actually been rejected (not since I was 14), not trying to brag at all, just that I have approached a girl so few times it's not even funny, less than & times, but that's because 99% of the time when I see a girl I am too scared to try, have generally always relied on foids approaching me.

3 years ago I got fucked up by a foid (oneitis, 8 SMV, fat Noodlewhore) who was really blunt with me and told me that looks wise I was bottom 2-5% of guys, so knowing that I think I never ever will try to ask a girl again, and instead will live the MGTOW life.

How do foids approach you?
Do they start act like a little girl and start talking in a playful feminine voice about some random shit? Giggling? Foids are never direct it seems when they approach though.

 

[Chinacurry]

Aren't you the guy who was getting into ltrs with htbs lmao

Yes, arguably last one was LTS not HTB

 

[Chinacurry]

How do foids approach you?
Do they start act like a little girl and start talking in a playful feminine voice about some random shit? Giggling? Foids are never direct it seems when they approach though.

They can be direct, some examples

1) play with their hair, stare at u, bite lip, then walk past, brush u and giggle

2) just blatantly grab Ur arm or chest and start random conversation

3) come up to u giggling and say hey my friend is asking r u seeing anyone (this was a mulatta girl with hoop earrings, low class vibe)

4) giggling come up to u and ask for photo, this has only happened in Tokyo, Shanghai, and Manila tbh

5) come up to u when you're having a quiet drink and say hi are you xyz (some random dude in their extended circle) and I say no, and then they say oh, thought u wer, u look like him, and then start making convo.

The only thing that actually registers for me though is when they r more subtle and use body language or stand at different angles as ioi.

UK foids do this as do American, and it's fucking tragic, cos the ones who do this tend to be gym maxxed and love themselves too much. My boy told me my oneitis (not at all gymmaxxed) did this loads to manipulate me a lot and now I think back I agree with him and it used to make me wanna explode and punch walls and shit, which is shit my shrink is trying to fix. But yeah I'd say she was one foid who could do this non cringe.

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Yes, arguably last one was LTS not HTB

Mentalcel, you are top 90-95% of men not bottom 5% then jfl. A woman gave chico a 4/10 on a threadhere, a womans words mean jackshit.

 

[Chinacurry]

Mentalcel, you are top 90-95% of men not bottom 5% then jfl. A woman gave chico a 4/10 on a threadhere, a womans words mean jackshit.

No she didn't say I was 2/10 or anything, just said I was less PHYSICALLY appealing than nearly every guy she had been with, so it's an interpolation.

I could cope by saying beauty is subjective and I might be good in other people's eyes (TBF this foid is LTS, and that's why has very high expectations of men), but reality is beauty is objective, and I'm not objevtively attractive, but I am PASSABLE in many girls eyes, so I'm a failed normie, like most people here

 

[LooksOrDeath]

No she didn't say I was 2/10 or anything, just said I was less PHYSICALLY appealing than nearly every guy she had been with, so it's an interpolation.

I could cope by saying beauty is subjective and I might be good in other people's eyes (TBF this foid is LTS, and that's why has very high expectations of men), but reality is beauty is objective, and I'm not objevtively attractive, but I am PASSABLE in many girls eyes, so I'm a failed normie, like most people here

You're still not bottom 5%. Sound like a HTN - Chadlite to me. Deadass gets LTRs with stacylites and still thinks he's subhuman .

 

[LooksOrDeath]

My boy told me my oneitis (not at all gymmaxxed) did this loads to manipulate me a lot and now I think back I agree with him and it used to make me wanna explode and punch walls and shit, which is shit my shrink is trying to fix. But yeah I'd say she was one foid who could do this non cringe.

wdym here?

 

[Chinacurry]

You're still not bottom 5%. Sound like a HTN - Chadlite to me. Deadass gets LTRs with stacylites and still thinks he's subhuman .

1 stacylite, others are MTN Becky.

And that's LTR, doesn't mean shit, foids LTR with low value guys, ONS with high value

 

[Chinacurry]

wdym here?

What u mean Bhai? Which bit?

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Can you explain that part cause I don't get a single bit of it.

What u mean Bhai? Which bit?

 

[188centimetres]

"Uh she must've rejected me because of my personality"

 

[Chinacurry]

Can you explain that part cause I don't get a single bit of it.

Lot of foids I find try show IOI rather than blatantly speaking u and shit, they for no reason at all move near u and then try to stand in weird angles that makes their ass pop or their tits pop or they hips pop. Then they sort of randomly try to catch your glance and smile, which basically means they want u to talk to them.

I have found most girls who do this are the ones who have put in Hella work in the gym to get a bube butt or abs or shit like that. Maybe they r just doing it for ego or validation idk. Problem is, and maybe this is just me, but those girls have basically zero appeal to me sexually, foids need minimum 28% bf and an ass like a pillow for me to even double take on them. Hence I referenced my oneitis, who also did this and then that bitch glance and I know she was doing it to fuck with me and manipulate me

 

[Gonthar]

If I get rejected, I don’t recover for weeks.

Just keep asking, approach 10 girls every day for the next 100 days, we'll talk after that...

 

[Chinacurry]

Can you explain that part cause I don't get a single bit of it.

U just have to try and be aware when foids do shit, cos foids will never (almost) walk up to u and ask u out.

I am going to the city today, taking my mum and 2 other old women for hot pot in China town. I will look out for IOIs and make a trip report, most likely zero IOIs, like 90% of the time

 

[Chinacurry]

Mentalcel, you are top 90-95% of men not bottom 5% then jfl. A woman gave chico a 4/10 on a threadhere, a womans words mean jackshit.

If foids give chico 4/10 then that's bs social conditioning. Noodles have chosen a 2/10 recessed boneless framelet white incel I showed them over prime 18 inch biceps 8% bf Roshan and said it's cos he looks too scary his muscles r too big and the JBW incel had nice soft eyes.

Other noodles have told me, in a convo with me, an American white girl and a kiwi white girl that Momoa was gross and scary, when I asked the white girls first they said was I a retard asking people in a bar to rate guys, but then said they would WANT Momoa to do things to them they would never let future husband's do.

This is cos some foids want to manag face and the social conditioning outcomes of it

 

[Kroker]

Rejection is a sharp pain that dulls over time. Regret is a dull pain that sharpens over time

pick your poison

Basically regert is worse?