I cannot cope anymore.

[JohnDoe]

I coped for years and years with many different things. Video games, Movies/Television, Forums, the list goes on and on and on. But every cope has an end, and at the end of that cope is the realization of how over it is and crippling depression, you have this extreme sense of awareness and introspection regarding your life and it's impossible to cope. I am 28 years old, it is beyond abnormal to be single, virgin and have had no female contact with any young woman or even males around your age. On top of that my health is in the bottom of the fucking gutter thanks to a shit lifestyle for the past decade.

No man should have to suffer like this without having the touch of a woman at such an age. I wish i had just listened to my father and gotten married years ago. Every wrong decision i could have made, i made it.

What's worse is i firmly believe in God and yet i get nowhere, i don't get better healthwise, i can't get a job, i can't get any foids, i am stuck in the mud for eternity. My looks are whatever, probably low low LTN at best but atleast i would be able to cope if everythign else was normal, i would be fine with betabuxxing some MTB or even some cute LTB from here but it's over.
Every chance/opportunity is gone, it was snatched from me. My mother is the reason for 90% of my problems, she is the culprit and she doesn't even have the IQ to realize what she has done to me. And ofcourse the typical absent father who never wanted to take responsibility for his children. What a disaster.

Single mothers should be fucking culled, their children should be taken from them and given to a loving healthy couple who can't conceive. The child will lead an infinitely better life. If you have a child and there is no father around, you need to forfeit your child, the government needs to do something about this. Millions of boys have their lives ruined because of their stupid fucking single mother and deadbeat dad who is never around. Why do we allow such things to happen in modern society? it needs to stop, it must be stopped.

Everywhere i go outside, i see young happy men and women living their lives while i cannot, i wasted my youth, i am incapable of redeeming what little i have left of it if any, i stay inside and rot on my computer and want to kill myself, i go outside for a walk or drive and want to kill myself due to envy. I go on this shithole tiktokcel forum and all 15-20 year old kids worrying about mundane shit, it's a joke.

I was setup to fail from the very beginning, not just genetically but environmentally aswell. In a way it can't be over because it never fucking began, it was over in the fucking womb being born to my parents and in this environment.
I wish my mother had a miscarriage and i was never born, she 40 years old, why did it have to happen? the chances of it happening are so low and still it had to fucking happen. What a joke.
99% of my posts on here are just me coping, i don't care or mean any of it, it's just a distraction from my crippling loneliness and depression of how shit my life is.

 

[vanillaicecream]

OK the first thing i would say is don't write venting rants like this, keep it bottled up because people just do not care. This is not meant in a dismissive way in the sense that I'm saying your feelings and current mental state don't deserve to be acknowledged, but people are way too caught up in their own little bubbles with their own little problems to even bother to take the time to listen to your problems and show an inkling of empathy. I had to learn this the hard way.

 

[moreroidsmoredates]

Let me guess you’re fat?

 

[JohnDoe]

Let me guess you’re fat?

No i'm about 5'8-5'9 about 155lbs so yh fat according to forum standards but not really.

OK the first thing i would say is don't write venting rants like this, keep it bottled up because people just do not care. This is not meant in a dismissive way in the sense that I'm saying your feelings and current mental state don't deserve to be acknowledged, but people are way too caught up in their own little bubbles with their own little problems to even bother to take the time to listen to your problems and show an inkling of empathy. I had to learn this the hard way.

Buddy i know nobody on this forum gives a shit, i write these vents because it's cathartic and a form of therapy. It feels good to release my feelings and frustrations, just venting.

 

[zygomoggerr]

Listen fuck an escort and after you get that post but clarity you will realslse sex is over rated lasts very short and is a small part of life,your inceldom is dragging on being obsessed with women,become more nt get a job do more Hobby’s etc 28 is old and very young at the same time

 

[vanillaicecream]

Buddy i know nobody on this forum gives a shit, i write these vents because it's cathartic and a form of therapy. It feels good to release my feelings and frustrations, just venting.

I understand that, but in that case why not see a therapist, you get to release your feelings on a much more real level

 

[JohnDoe]

I understand that, but in that case why not see a therapist, you get to release your feelings on a much more real level

therapists cost money which i don't have.

 

[6PSLcel]

28 years old, brutal stuff man

 

[JohnDoe]

Listen fuck an escort and after you get that post but clarity you will realslse sex is over rated lasts very short and is a small part of life,your inceldom is dragging on being obsessed with women,become more nt get a job do more Hobby’s etc 28 is old and very young at the same time

I crave intimacy, not "sex", i would never have sex with a prostitute. I cannot do anything due to my health, i need money to fix my health and to get money i need to get a job which i can't do because of health. It's over.

 

[zygomoggerr]

I crave intimacy, not "sex", i would never have sex with a prostitute. I cannot do anything due to my health, i need money to fix my health and to get money i need to get a job which i can't do because of health. It's over.

What’s exactly what with your health?im also intamacy starved at 21 I realised that when I would rather cudddle with a girl over sex easily

 

[PlayersGetPlayed]

You are mistaking the help God will offer you. What He will not do is offer you a wife, instead, he helps you understand what it takes to get there. Which you clearly do to some extent, you're not stupid.

This is not what happens when you make all the wrong choices, it's what happens when you isolate yourself from your surroundings. We are still primates, you need social interaction to understand how things like this work.

You say you're ltn, I'm not sure. But what I can tell you is that it's not over until you give up. It's never over, you're still here and that means that there is still hope.

From tomorrow on I want you to cut all refined sugars, or at least try to make an effort to. I want you to do 5 minutes of cardio, that's all, 5 minutes, and to get some fresh air. Then, after a week of keeping that up, tell us how you feel.

 

[PeakIncels]

this type of posts make me sad because I see myself in them, just, I'm not 28

I want to let you know something though, you shouldn't care that much, and I know it's sound like a shitty advice, but you can't control your face or height, girls maybe ain't for you, but that doesn't mean the world is over now

you can still go out and enjoy yourself, alll of your mistakes and wasted time(if you had fun it wasn't wasted) doesn't matter, in the end, all of us die, chad or not, so beating yourself down for no reason because you can't have a gf is pure useless, but also for other stuff

life not only about slays sex and girls, there are other things too

tdlr; Enjoy your life shitty or not, you only have one of it, and wasting it here or somewhere else is useless because of things you can't change

 

[PeakIncels]

OK the first thing i would say is don't write venting rants like this, keep it bottled up because people just do not care. This is not meant in a dismissive way in the sense that I'm saying your feelings and current mental state don't deserve to be acknowledged, but people are way too caught up in their own little bubbles with their own little problems to even bother to take the time to listen to your problems and show an inkling of empathy. I had to learn this the hard way.

some people care, everytime I see people venting I try to help them, because most of the times they have my same problem, which ignoring would be futile, but I don't want to make myself appear like a god but some people here listen, very little quantities but some do bro

 

[JohnDoe]

You are mistaking the help God will offer you. What He will not do is offer you a wife, instead, he helps you understand what it takes to get there. Which you clearly do to some extent, you're not stupid.

This is not what happens when you make all the wrong choices, it's what happens when you isolate yourself from your surroundings. We are still primates, you need social interaction to understand how things like this work.

You say you're ltn, I'm not sure. But what I can tell you is that it's not over until you give up. It's never over, you're still here and that means that there is still hope.

From tomorrow on I want you to cut all refined sugars, or at least try to make an effort to. I want you to do 5 minutes of cardio, that's all, 5 minutes, and to get some fresh air. Then, after a week of keeping that up, tell us how you feel.

How am i mistaking it? help would be me getting better/cured, nto continuing like this for years. I am not ungrateful for few good things that happened but overall i am not "healed". I don't expect God to offer me a wife either although who doesn't want a wife offered up on a platter? lol. What it takes to get there? i can't because my situation simply won't allow it. My situation is simply because of the actions of my mother and the inactions of myself which have lead me to this very moment.
When i say i'm LTN i'm being generous, i'm probably subhuman hence me never getting nay women in my life, although i rot in my room but being subuhman and rotting away go hand-in-hand.
I stopped eating sugar starting the 31st of august, i go for 30 minute walks every day. It doesn't matter, none of it really does anything. Infact now that i can't cope with fast food and sugar, i just feel even more depressed not seeing any changes. Yh it hasn't even been a full week yet but i know it won't lead to anything.

 

[NZb6Air]

Single mothers should be fucking culled, their children should be taken from them and given to a loving healthy couple who can't conceive. The child will lead an infinitely better life. If you have a child and there is no father around, you need to forfeit your child, the government needs to do something about this. Millions of boys have their lives ruined because of their stupid fucking single mother and deadbeat dad who is never around. Why do we allow such things to happen in modern society? it needs to stop, it must be stopped.

Yes 511 Kinderheim should be mandatory for childs of low iq/absent parents

 

[JohnDoe]

What’s exactly what with your health?im also intamacy starved at 21 I realised that when I would rather cudddle with a girl over sex easily

This is why i don't understand when people say to just get an escort, it's not just fucking a wet hole, it's about intimacy which is not just sex with some random whore.

 

[PlayersGetPlayed]

How am i mistaking it? help would be me getting better/cured, nto continuing like this for years. I am not ungrateful for few good things that happened but overall i am not "healed". I don't expect God to offer me a wife either although who doesn't want a wife offered up on a platter? lol. What it takes to get there? i can't because my situation simply won't allow it. My situation is simply because of the actions of my mother and the inactions of myself which have lead me to this very moment.
When i say i'm LTN i'm being generous, i'm probably subhuman hence me never getting nay women in my life, although i rot in my room but being subuhman and rotting away go hand-in-hand.
I stopped eating sugar starting the 31st of august, i go for 30 minute walks every day. It doesn't matter, none of it really does anything. Infact now that i can't cope with fast food and sugar, i just feel even more depressed not seeing any changes. Yh it hasn't even been a full week yet but i know it won't lead to anything.

First of all, good. I'm proud of you, not that that matters lol. But it's good that you're making an effort. I strongly advice trying honey on biscuits, you'll learn to love them. Try to eat 4 of those as snacks, you'll never want donuts again or whatever you're into. With milk, always a glass of milk.

I'm saying that God will not offer you help in ways that He will solve your problems for you. God will not pull you out of your sinkhole, He will only offer you the ladder. I hope you understand.

And whether your problems are your fault or not, that's debatable and in my humble opinion, not important. The only thing that matters is that you can fix these problems. Like I said, you're smart, and God will not let you down because He loves you. Have some faith, it'll be fine. Persistance is key.

 

[vanillaicecream]

some people care, everytime I see people venting I try to help them, because most of the times they have my same problem, which ignoring would be futile, but I don't want to make myself appear like a god but some people here listen, very little quantities but some do bro

I mean it depends on how you approach it and the words you use to verbalize how you feel, I would at least avoid being too long and thorough with it, make sure you don't go too far down this rabbit hole

 

[PeakIncels]

I mean it depends on how you approach it and the words you use to verbalize how you feel, I would at least avoid being too long and throughout with it, make sure you don't go too far down this rabbit hole

makes sense, fair point

 

[JohnDoe]

First of all, good. I'm proud of you, not that that matters lol. But it's good that you're making an effort. I strongly advice trying honey on biscuits, you'll learn to love them. Try to eat 4 of those as snacks, you'll never want donuts again or whatever you're into. With milk, always a glass of milk.

I'm saying that God will not offer you help in ways that He will solve your problems for you. God will not pull you out of your sinkhole, He will only offer you the ladder. I hope you understand.

And whether your problems are your fault or not, that's debatable and in my humble opinion, not important. The only thing that matters is that you can fix these problems. Like I said, you're smart, and God will not let you down because He loves you. Have some faith, it'll be fine. Persistance is key.

The problem is that i have not been offered a ladder and why can't God give me a miracle and just cure me? i have been wronged and had a shit life since puberty, why can't i just be given a win for once? why no divine intervention? if anyone could do it and justify such a thing it would be for me. If there is a ladder offered, i don't see it, only despair.
The reason for my problems does matter because i have an incredible amount of resentment towards my parents, particularly my mother.

 

[PSLGODINCEL]

Bro, you were dealt shitty cards and it sucks. I do not understand your pain, but I think we can both share our pains with each other.

I'm a "chad", I've been cold approached close to 6 times(although subtly, as girls are scared af), but guess what? I'm still a virgin. Now, I'm only just 19 but you would expect that I should have at least some slays under my belt.

I was born a fat kid, got bullied, and my father was never present and eventually died. I lost the fat and became a "chad" (had the genetics already from my early childhood pictures and my dad was very attractive, although I'm taller at 6'1).

Everyone has problems buddy boyo. The rich have rich people problems, and the poor have poor people problems.

You have dreams don't you? You have things you would like to achieve and value you would like to add to the world, what's stopping you?

Kill yourself man, this version of you is just a liar. You achieve nothing until you gain control of your mind.

 

[PlayersGetPlayed]

The problem is that i have not been offered a ladder and why can't God give me a miracle and just cure me? i have been wronged and had a shit life since puberty, why can't i just be given a win for once? why no divine intervention? if anyone could do it and justify such a thing it would be for me. If there is a ladder offered, i don't see it, only despair.
The reason for my problems does matter because i have an incredible amount of resentment towards my parents, particularly my mother.

It's clear that you have, you've just missed it. How can you not see that the ladder you've been offered is the fact that you're clearly intelligent enough to figure these problems out, if you're really trying?

I'll show you another ladder right now, drop that resentment. You will not grow until you let go of resentment, even against the people who have hurt you the most. Do this, and you will find happiness.

 

[JohnDoe]

this type of posts make me sad because I see myself in them, just, I'm not 28

I want to let you know something though, you shouldn't care that much, and I know it's sound like a shitty advice, but you can't control your face or height, girls maybe ain't for you, but that doesn't mean the world is over now

you can still go out and enjoy yourself, alll of your mistakes and wasted time(if you had fun it wasn't wasted) doesn't matter, in the end, all of us die, chad or not, so beating yourself down for no reason because you can't have a gf is pure useless, but also for other stuff

life not only about slays sex and girls, there are other things too

tdlr; Enjoy your life shitty or not, you only have one of it, and wasting it here or somewhere else is useless because of things you can't change

This is cope, we were created man / woman to complement each other, we are supposed to get married at a young age, not be single and virgin at 28, that's not what God intended. Procreation is the purpose of life you think? A woman is necessary, we are slaves to our hormones and urges and only a female can satisfy certain things.

 

[Rea]

She's 40 and I'm 28

So she got raped by her uncle or smth at 12 or what's going on ?

 

[PeakIncels]

This is cope, we were created man / woman to complement each other, we are supposed to get married at a young age, not be single and virgin at 28, that's not what God intended. Procreation is the purpose of life you think? A woman is necessary, we are slaves to our hormones and urges and only a female can satisfy certain things.

this is not cope
you will have sex, then what, what after? Nothing, that's it, you gotta move on girls ain't for you, procreation ain't the purpose of life because there isn't a purpose, nothing, you are here for no reason, only because your parents had sex

 

[JohnDoe]

It's clear that you have, you've just missed it. How can you not see that the ladder you've been offered is the fact that you're clearly intelligent enough to figure these problems out, if you're really trying?

I'll show you another ladder right now, drop that resentment. You will not grow until you let go of resentment, even against the people who have hurt you the most. Do this, and you will find happiness.

No i haven't missed anything, i just haven't received any lifeline or way out, no solution, and again why can't i get some divine intervention or miracle?
I can't let go of the resentment because it defines who i am and my current situation. Every day i wake up i am reminded of every bad thing in my life and who is to blame.

 

[Rea]

Anyway your story is pretty sad, I'm a 22 virgin with no girls & no friends, 28 is next door, so i can only relate

 

[JohnDoe]

this is not cope
you will have sex, then what, what after? Nothing, that's it, you gotta move on girls ain't for you, procreation ain't the purpose of life because there isn't a purpose, nothing, you are here for no reason, only because your parents had sex

You are coping hard my friend. Intimacy is an essential aspect of life for men and even women. To live without it is not worth living at all.

 

[JohnDoe]

Bro, you were dealt shitty cards and it sucks. I do not understand your pain, but I think we can both share our pains with each other.

I'm a "chad", I've been cold approached close to 6 times(although subtly, as girls are scared af), but guess what? I'm still a virgin. Now, I'm only just 19 but you would expect that I should have at least some slays under my belt.

I was born a fat kid, got bullied, and my father was never present and eventually died. I lost the fat and became a "chad" (had the genetics already from my early childhood pictures and my dad was very attractive, although I'm taller at 6'1).

Everyone has problems buddy boyo. The rich have rich people problems, and the poor have poor people problems.

You have dreams don't you? You have things you would like to achieve and value you would like to add to the world, what's stopping you?

Kill yourself man, this version of you is just a liar. You achieve nothing until you gain control of your mind.

You simply aren't old enough to understand my friend, what you say is good but you can't understand the despair and hopelessness of someone in my situation because i am almost 10 years older than you and not lived a real life at all, only rotted.

 

[PlayersGetPlayed]

No i haven't missed anything, i just haven't received any lifeline or way out, no solution, and again why can't i get some divine intervention or miracle?
I can't let go of the resentment because it defines who i am and my current situation. Every day i wake up i am reminded of every bad thing in my life and who is to blame.

If that's what you want, then go ahead and stay in this pit you're in. But you should trust me when I say that one day resentment is going to be the death of you. And keep hoping for that lifeline, God will not give you one. I mean, to be fair He might give you one at this point, but I wouldn't count on you. God's lifeline is the gifts that he's given you.

You must be delusional if you think God will pick a wife for you and get you to hold her hand. You need to do that stuff on your own. You have intelligence, use it. You can do this.

 

[JohnDoe]

If that's what you want, then go ahead and stay in this pit you're in. But you should trust me when I say that one day resentment is going to be the death of you. And keep hoping for that lifeline, God will not give you one. I mean, to be fair He might give you one at this point, but I wouldn't count on you. God's lifeline is the gifts that he's given you.

You must be delusional if you think God will pick a wife for you and get you to hold her hand. You need to do that stuff on your own. You have intelligence, use it. You can do this.

It's jsut cope if i pretend like i've been given a lifelife or a way out because i simply don't see it. Resentment aside, where is this ladder that i can climb out of this pit? there is not one, it's over. If there was one, i would have seen it by now since it's been years.

 

[PeakIncels]

You are coping hard my friend. Intimacy is an essential aspect of life for men and even women. To live without it is not worth living at all.

seems like you think sex is the most important thing in life which is the most wrong thing, but everyone have their beliefs ig

 

[JohnDoe]

seems like you think sex is the most important thing in life which is the most wrong thing, but everyone have their beliefs ig

That's not what i said or have ever said. I said intimacy is very important and intimacy is not the same thing as sex, sex is a part of intimacy but not it entirely.

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

What's worse is i firmly believe in God and yet i get nowhere

I have never understood how anyone who believes in the nihilistic and predeterminist facets of the blackpill can also believe in judgement from some deity.

As a truecel, how can your situation be compared to that of a good-looking, nt, rich and tall chad? Neither of you chose your circumstances, whether than be genetic, epigenetic or socioeconomic. Why wouldn't a benevolent God foster the conditions for a truly egalitarian society on both a biological and environmental level? Why create suffering and inequalities in life to the point where some African village-cel is mining cadmium 12hrs a day with his bare hands, while some chad in the West lives a life of luxury the village-cel could not even comprehend? You have suffered so much more than chad, and for what?! There is no purpose to any of it.

Secondly I ask how could one reliably quantify the sins of one individual to another, when the circumstances of their existence vary so drastically? Like let's say some favela-cel that grew up in an impoverished slum already has a propensity to criminality due to a complex set of interactive effects between environmental influence, poverty and genetics. How can this be compared to someone that has never faced any discernible struggle in life, born in the right environment, with good genetics from a first world country?

And remediating actions from these complex, predetermined, interactive effects gets reduced to "seeking forgiveness" by"praying", when the favela-cel never asked for his subhuman existence to be. It just seems like a cheap cope that every Abrahamic religion uses to create more dogmatic followers.

Also, which religion you come into contact with is once again... purely based on randomness and luck. It just so happens that you were born to the right parents, and follow the teachings from the correct God when 100s of religions exist...

What would one be praying for, when it's already been determined by neuroscience that at least 70% of our thoughts arise from subconscious thinking that we have no control over?! We literally have neurons firing in predetermined patterns that is impossible for us to influence on a conscious level. Tbh, the more one reads about human nature, the more one realises we are just pseudo-simulacrum coping with our lack of purpose, and agency.

God is just another coping mechanism for the incel.

 

[anthony111553]

I have never understood how anyone who believes in the nihilistic and predeterminist facets of the blackpill can also believe in judgement from some deity.

As a truecel, how can your situation be compared to that of a good-looking, nt, rich and tall chad? Neither of you chose your circumstances, whether than be genetic, epigenetic or socioeconomic. Why wouldn't a benevolent God foster the conditions for a truly egalitarian society on both a biological and environmental level? Why create suffering and inequalities in life to the point where some African village-cel is mining cadmium 12hrs a day with his bare hands, while some chad in the West lives a life of luxury the village-cel could not even comprehend? You have suffered so much more than chad, and for what?! There is no purpose to any of it.

Secondly I ask how could one reliably quantify the sins of one individual to another, when the circumstances of their existence vary so drastically? Like let's say some favela-cel that grew up in an impoverished slum already has a propensity to criminality due to a complex set of interactive effects between environmental influence, poverty and genetics. How can this be compared to someone that has never faced any discernible struggle in life, born in the right environment, with good genetics from a first world country?

And remediating actions from these complex, predetermined, interactive effects gets reduced to "seeking forgiveness" by"praying", when the favela-cel never asked for his subhuman existence to be. It just seems like a cheap cope that every Abrahamic religion uses to create more dogmatic followers.

Also, which religion you come into contact with is once again... purely based on randomness and luck. It just so happens that you were born to the right parents, and follow the teachings from the correct God when 100s of religions exist...

What would one be praying for, when it's already been determined by neuroscience that at least 70% of our thoughts arise from subconscious thinking that we have no control over?! We literally have neurons firing in predetermined patterns that is impossible for us to influence on a conscious level. Tbh, the more one reads about human nature, the more one realises we are just pseudo-simulacrum coping with our lack of purpose, and agency.

God is just another coping mechanism for the incel.

whiny ass shit ngl

 

[PSLGODINCEL]

You simply aren't old enough to understand my friend, what you say is good but you can't understand the despair and hopelessness of someone in my situation because i am almost 10 years older than you and not lived a real life at all, only rotted.

What is despair going to do? You have two options. Rope or face a lifetime mediocrity (except you start taking action)

 

[PlayersGetPlayed]

It's jsut cope if i pretend like i've been given a lifelife or a way out because i simply don't see it. Resentment aside, where is this ladder that i can climb out of this pit? there is not one, it's over. If there was one, i would have seen it by now since it's been years.

A turtle can walk for an eternity and still end up at the same place. Time won't tell you what to do, God will. And He clearly trusts you enough to fix this, as I've said multiple times, you're a smart guy. You're being your own worst enemy right now.

Let me ask you this, suppose that you have just lost your leg. Will you cut off your other leg because there is no use in walking anyway? Or will you take the leg that you've left and care for it? Likewise, don't ruin your whole life over the bad cards that you've been given. Instead, learn to accept what is and God will appreciate your effort.

I've said it before, you can do this. I believe in you, you gotta start believing in yourself too. God doesn't want you to suffer, He wants you to be happy too.

 

[Rea]

Op is responding to everyone beside me

Was your mother raped? Don 't be shy answer me

 

[JohnDoe]

Op is responding to everyone beside me

Was your mother raped? Don 't be shy answer me

You didn't say anything of meaning buddy boyo

 

[anthony111553]

You didn't say anything of meaning buddy boyo

you can't be christian and blackpilled boyo

 

[JohnDoe]

you can't be christian and blackpilled boyo

says who? i'm muslim btw and yes you can be blackpilled and muslim, i refuse to believe otherwise.

 

[Rea]

You didn't say anything of meaning buddy boyo

I'll take that as a yes

 

[qFlodz]

I read every word

Life is shit for the vast majority of the population in one form or another, and those 5% who have better lives have inherited social, genetic and material resources from birth, with optimal contexts and circumstances handed to them on a plate

For the rest of us, and also those like you, all that's left is to find more ways of coping, until eventually their health worsens so severely that they die from complications of certain diseases (this will take many years anyway, so you still have plenty of time here, whether you want it or not)

But even for those coping methods, some are more expensive than others, or harder to maintain, and by the time you get them and secure them, you have bigger problems with not being able to secure the first levels of the pyramid of needs, which you should focus on first:

It is assumed that you have parents, and if they can't help to provide these things for you (as they are theoretically obligated by morality and law), it is assumed that you have extended family (grandparents, aunts, etc.) who are supposed to be able to help you

If they can't help you either, you should be able to contact the social authorities and tell them your story and your contexts and circumstances, and how they can help you in some way, so that at least you have more or less the first parts of the pyramid of needs more or less covered

Once you manage to secure an income you can survive on a monthly basis without depending on other people, you will begin the coping process as I said above, which will take more or less time depending on your wishes. Some days will be better, some will be worse, and your days are numbered anyway, like any of us

The next parts of the pyramid, however, are some bonuses and luxuries, which you can only get by having an abundance of the types of resources in the first 2 parts of the pyramid (which you will most likely never have to the extent necessary), which means you can live without them, and they don't have to happen to you, even if you sometimes feel you want them during the day, you can theoretically live from day to day without them

This is your entire existence. Nothing else will happen unfortunately

Others accepted their situation, and sooner or later tried another spawn, while others are still here doing shit like this:

 

[ivan.kuk]

What a magnificent "fuck you" to the world would it be if you turned it around.

 

[looksmaxxing223]

I wonder if i'm on the route for this. I guess only time will time, hopefully school doesn't cuck me

 

[Gengar]

It's definitely abnormal to be an 28 year old dateless KHHV, but we exist. What's even more abnormal is that we are religious.

 

[MoggerGaston]

My mother is the reason for 90% of my problems, she is the culprit and she doesn't even have the IQ to realize what she has done to me. And ofcourse the typical absent father who never wanted to take responsibility for his children. What a disaster.

very relatable. My mother also ruined me and is 90% of the reason why I am mentally ill, rotting and stuck here on this forum.

 

[L13]

I coped for years and years with many different things. Video games, Movies/Television, Forums, the list goes on and on and on. But every cope has an end, and at the end of that cope is the realization of how over it is and crippling depression, you have this extreme sense of awareness and introspection regarding your life and it's impossible to cope. I am 28 years old, it is beyond abnormal to be single, virgin and have had no female contact with any young woman or even males around your age. On top of that my health is in the bottom of the fucking gutter thanks to a shit lifestyle for the past decade.

No man should have to suffer like this without having the touch of a woman at such an age. I wish i had just listened to my father and gotten married years ago. Every wrong decision i could have made, i made it.

What's worse is i firmly believe in God and yet i get nowhere, i don't get better healthwise, i can't get a job, i can't get any foids, i am stuck in the mud for eternity. My looks are whatever, probably low low LTN at best but atleast i would be able to cope if everythign else was normal, i would be fine with betabuxxing some MTB or even some cute LTB from here but it's over.
Every chance/opportunity is gone, it was snatched from me. My mother is the reason for 90% of my problems, she is the culprit and she doesn't even have the IQ to realize what she has done to me. And ofcourse the typical absent father who never wanted to take responsibility for his children. What a disaster.

Single mothers should be fucking culled, their children should be taken from them and given to a loving healthy couple who can't conceive. The child will lead an infinitely better life. If you have a child and there is no father around, you need to forfeit your child, the government needs to do something about this. Millions of boys have their lives ruined because of their stupid fucking single mother and deadbeat dad who is never around. Why do we allow such things to happen in modern society? it needs to stop, it must be stopped.

Everywhere i go outside, i see young happy men and women living their lives while i cannot, i wasted my youth, i am incapable of redeeming what little i have left of it if any, i stay inside and rot on my computer and want to kill myself, i go outside for a walk or drive and want to kill myself due to envy. I go on this shithole tiktokcel forum and all 15-20 year old kids worrying about mundane shit, it's a joke.

I was setup to fail from the very beginning, not just genetically but environmentally aswell. In a way it can't be over because it never fucking began, it was over in the fucking womb being born to my parents and in this environment.
I wish my mother had a miscarriage and i was never born, she 40 years old, why did it have to happen? the chances of it happening are so low and still it had to fucking happen. What a joke.
99% of my posts on here are just me coping, i don't care or mean any of it, it's just a distraction from my crippling loneliness and depression of how shit my life is.

it legit sounds like you know you can improve things:
- cut your mom off
- improve your lifestyle

even if it fails, at least u tried. nothing to lose

 

[JohnDoe]

It's definitely abnormal to be an 28 year old dateless KHHV, but we exist. What's even more abnormal is that we are religious.

bhai i think you are the person on thisforum who can most relate to and understand what i'm going through, same situation/age/ethnicity/etc, all these 15 year olds can't relate and i don't blame them. Secular aswell but he's a MTN and a standardcel while we're subhuman and he's not a virgin
It's abnormal even for curries here, i see 5'5 subhuman curries married at 25. Saw one the other day married to a cute foid, she brutally mogged him but i wasn't evne surprised because is ee it so often and i know curry guys can easily get girls better looking than them here, just the dynamics and how it works. And she wasn't even FOB. So beyond abnormal for us to be 28 and like this.

 

[beniman]

I coped for years and years with many different things. Video games, Movies/Television, Forums, the list goes on and on and on. But every cope has an end, and at the end of that cope is the realization of how over it is and crippling depression, you have this extreme sense of awareness and introspection regarding your life and it's impossible to cope. I am 28 years old, it is beyond abnormal to be single, virgin and have had no female contact with any young woman or even males around your age. On top of that my health is in the bottom of the fucking gutter thanks to a shit lifestyle for the past decade.

No man should have to suffer like this without having the touch of a woman at such an age. I wish i had just listened to my father and gotten married years ago. Every wrong decision i could have made, i made it.

What's worse is i firmly believe in God and yet i get nowhere, i don't get better healthwise, i can't get a job, i can't get any foids, i am stuck in the mud for eternity. My looks are whatever, probably low low LTN at best but atleast i would be able to cope if everythign else was normal, i would be fine with betabuxxing some MTB or even some cute LTB from here but it's over.
Every chance/opportunity is gone, it was snatched from me. My mother is the reason for 90% of my problems, she is the culprit and she doesn't even have the IQ to realize what she has done to me. And ofcourse the typical absent father who never wanted to take responsibility for his children. What a disaster.

Single mothers should be fucking culled, their children should be taken from them and given to a loving healthy couple who can't conceive. The child will lead an infinitely better life. If you have a child and there is no father around, you need to forfeit your child, the government needs to do something about this. Millions of boys have their lives ruined because of their stupid fucking single mother and deadbeat dad who is never around. Why do we allow such things to happen in modern society? it needs to stop, it must be stopped.

Everywhere i go outside, i see young happy men and women living their lives while i cannot, i wasted my youth, i am incapable of redeeming what little i have left of it if any, i stay inside and rot on my computer and want to kill myself, i go outside for a walk or drive and want to kill myself due to envy. I go on this shithole tiktokcel forum and all 15-20 year old kids worrying about mundane shit, it's a joke.

I was setup to fail from the very beginning, not just genetically but environmentally aswell. In a way it can't be over because it never fucking began, it was over in the fucking womb being born to my parents and in this environment.
I wish my mother had a miscarriage and i was never born, she 40 years old, why did it have to happen? the chances of it happening are so low and still it had to fucking happen. What a joke.
99% of my posts on here are just me coping, i don't care or mean any of it, it's just a distraction from my crippling loneliness and depression of how shit my life is.

Well you should atleast try bettering yourself? You have been on this forum for close to 2 years and from what I hear u havnt even tried. 2 years on this forum waisted. Why not just rot in a random discord server all dsy if ur not even here to try and looksmaxx?

But then again I dont knoe whats wrong with ur health so it might not be worth it. But women arnt everything but thst prob goes from person to person but just know there are more important things in life