I can't connect with people IRL or online

[RecessedCels]

I can always never build any real connections. It always feels very surface level. I don't have a single person who I've ever ACTUALLY felt a strong enough connection to IRL to talk about feelings. Even online I they almost always last 1-2 months. I talk to someone a lot for maybe a few weeks or months and then it just falls apart at some point. I've never had a best friend because I know other people have friends they're way closer to. Sometimes people online try to talk to me but it just feels so artificial. Why is connecting so hard

 

[RecessedCels]

This shit pisses me off

 

[Mainlander]

We can be friends

 

[mtn4life]

I’m the same,hopefully at my first job I’m starting next month I make some friends,slot of them are around my age I just gotta be low inhib and nt but they will probs detect I’m an incel instantly

 

[RecessedCels]

We can be friends

Sometimes people online try to talk to me but it just feels so artificial

 

[Mainlander]

Im real

 

[RecessedCels]

I’m the same,hopefully at my first job I’m starting next month I make some friends,slot of them are around my age I just gotta be low inhib and nt but they will probs detect I’m an incel instantly

So you have to pretend to fit in

 

[RecessedCels]

Im real

I'm not saying you aren't but trying to force a friendship just doesn't work

 

[trench]

one of the realest posters

 

[Alias!]

I can always never build any real connections. It always feels very surface level. I don't have a single person who I've ever ACTUALLY felt a strong enough connection to IRL to talk about feelings. Even online I they almost always last 1-2 months. I talk to someone a lot for maybe a few weeks or months and then it just falls apart at some point. I've never had a best friend because I know other people have friends they're way closer to. Sometimes people online try to talk to me but it just feels so artificial. Why is connecting so hard

The only genuine friendships you will have is when a child

 

[dawooddX]

I can always never build any real connections. It always feels very surface level. I don't have a single person who I've ever ACTUALLY felt a strong enough connection to IRL to talk about feelings. Even online I they almost always last 1-2 months. I talk to someone a lot for maybe a few weeks or months and then it just falls apart at some point. I've never had a best friend because I know other people have friends they're way closer to. Sometimes people online try to talk to me but it just feels so artificial. Why is connecting so hard

holy shit exactly
esp irl i know its all superficial and that they wont truly be able to understand me or my thoughts etc i support them and help them but i wld never ask for their input etc i dont think iv ever had a ''bro'' who im fully compatible with or will ever have

even online communities wld js find me weird etc even on my interest sum good ppl i liked talking to but 2-4 months we stop talking

 

[Сигма Бой]

This shit pisses me off

ts pmo
Normie detected, opinion rejected.

 

[Mainlander]

I'm not saying you aren't but trying to force a friendship just doesn't work

No one likes me

 

[RecessedCels]

one of the realest posters

Thanks bhai

 

[Сигма Бой]

The only genuine friendships you will have is when a child

Goatis disagrees wiz dis!

 

[RecessedCels]

The only genuine friendships you will have is when a child

I had this one friend I was pretty close to

 

[RecessedCels]

holy shit exactly
esp irl i know its all superficial and that they wont truly be able to understand me or my thoughts etc i support them and help them but i wld never ask for their input etc i dont think iv ever had a ''bro'' who im fully compatible with or will ever have

even online communities wld js find me weird etc even on my interest sum good ppl i liked talking to but 2-4 months we stop talking

The 2-3 months are so brutal. Even if I don't do anything wrong it still fails.

 

[RecessedCels]

ts pmo
Normie detected, opinion rejected.

I wanted to make it sound more sophisticated by using the longer version

 

[RecessedCels]

No one likes me

Man I'm not Shakti don't like you

 

[Alias!]

Goatis disagrees wiz dis!

Goatis thinks raw meat solves everything?

 

[Сигма Бой]

I wanted to make it sound more sophisticated by using the longer version

Nigger of those be is sophisticated.

 

[RecessedCels]

Nigger of those be is sophisticated.

 

[Сигма Бой]

Goatis thinks raw meat solves everything?

Goatis beliebs yo fine ass so rapeable, fasho.

 

[New Poster]

Probably self esteem. If you feel like shit about yourself, you end up being afraid and defensive around people.

 

[Сигма Бой]

 

[RecessedCels]

Probably self esteem. If you feel like shit about yourself, you end up being afraid and defensive around people.

Well I can admit that people wouldn't be comfortable if I told them what I really think

 

[RecessedCels]

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[piec]

to talk about feelings

bro not a single male thats not homosexual will talk with you about feelings even if u have 20 years of friendship

 

[Сигма Бой]

Well I can admit that people wouldn't be comfortable if I told them what I really think

 

[Alias!]

Goatis beliebs yo fine ass so rapeable, fasho.

Do you not have shame look at what you just typed???

 

[RecessedCels]

bro not a single male thats not homosexual will talk with you about feelings even if u have 20 years of friendship

Well not really feelings but about life and their views in general

 

[RecessedCels]

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[New Poster]

Well I can admit that people wouldn't be comfortable if I told them what I really think

Yeah, and you won’t risk it if you think you’re low value and only holding on by a thread.

Or you’re just a hateful, nasty person and you have the self-awareness to know not to say openly hostile and antisocial shit

 

[shia.jihadist]

I can always never build any real connections. It always feels very surface level. I don't have a single person who I've ever ACTUALLY felt a strong enough connection to IRL to talk about feelings. Even online I they almost always last 1-2 months. I talk to someone a lot for maybe a few weeks or months and then it just falls apart at some point. I've never had a best friend because I know other people have friends they're way closer to. Sometimes people online try to talk to me but it just feels so artificial. Why is connecting so hard

relatable lowkey

 

[RecessedCels]

Or you’re just a hateful, nasty person and you have the self-awareness to know not to say openly hostile and antisocial shit

I'm not a bad person but I wouldn't be able to explain my feelings to people without sounding like a horrendous person

 

[Сигма Бой]

Do you not have shame look at what you just typed???

Ace finner beez crankin' dat azz wiz ore wizout shane.

 

[New Poster]

I'm not a bad person but I wouldn't be able to explain my feelings to people without sounding like a horrendous person

Let me guess. You’re a nazi pedo.

 

[Сигма Бой]

relatable lowkey

Normies is lowkey relatable.

 

[IKnowYourStats]

Or when you call someone and they pick up the phone, you say “Hi” and then followed by “How are you”, but you say How Are You with a very stilted autistic tone and it comes off as forced. That could be what’s turning people off

 

[Сигма Бой]

Let me guess. You’re a nazi pedo.

Normie!

 

[nobodylovesme]

Same, i'm just invisible to everyone. Like I don't even exist, brutal reality

 

[RecessedCels]

Let me guess. You’re a nazi pedo.

I'm mostly a left winger and I'm not a pedo

 

[RecessedCels]

Same, i'm just invisible to everyone. Like I don't even exist, brutal reality

YEAH. The worst part is those "friendships" that people have out of pity

 

[Alias!]

Ace finner beez crankin' dat azz wiz ore wizout shane.

 

[RecessedCels]

Or when you call someone and they pick up the phone, you say “Hi” and then followed by “How are you”, but you say How Are You with a very stilted autistic tone and it comes off as forced. That could be what’s turning people off

I don't call people

 

[RecessedCels]

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Me

 

[New Poster]

I'm mostly a left winger and I'm not a pedo

Then what are people going to object to?

 

[Сигма Бой]

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W nigger

 

[nobodylovesme]

YEAH. The worst part is those "friendships" that people have out of pity

ye, I don't bother with those anymore, just spikes anxiety and you get nothing of it.

 

[RecessedCels]

Then what are people going to object to?

I'm not gonna say