Deleted member 2854
Sphinx
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I think it's just time to accept that I'll never be good enough for them.
I've spent thousands of hours online dating just to fuck a bunch of 4's. Not a single 5+ has ever in my life shown me a single IOI and I've been flaked on constantly ( this is happening as we speak).
I :
- Can't be bothered seeing the looks of disappointment on their face when I turn up to meet them from online anymore.
- Can't be bothered pretending I don't just want to fuck them anymore, having to make inane conversation, while good looking guys can be straight forward and not risk losing the girl.
- Can't be bothered having to text back and forth just to set up a date and then show up and she be 1-2 points lower than photos.
- Can't be bothered to be rejected 30+ times in cold approach just to get one lead with a 5/10.
- Can't be bothered to have to put myself out there just to be deemed not attractive enough for a slightly above average girl.
- Can't deal with the constant IOD's anymore.
I feel myself being pulled towards MGTOW. After 130+ dates and just under 50 lays, I think I'm done.
Yes, being in love with a woman and having her love you back (whether it's a 'cope' 'fake' feeling or not like some of you would argue) is an amazing feeling.
But it's not worth the effort, humiliation and degradation that it takes to get there as a sub-chad. You have to put your entire self-worth as a man in the world on the line every day, even when you clearly mog the girl in intellect.
I was just not built to be able to succeed with women without extreme effort, and the reward is not worth it.
I truly believe that you're either born attractive to women or you're not.
You're thinking about getting surgery or other looksmaxing techniques, but the truth is, if you found these forums, you already lost the battle. It's too late, the psychological damage from lack of validation and love from women runs too deep for most of us to recover from.
I've spent thousands of hours online dating just to fuck a bunch of 4's. Not a single 5+ has ever in my life shown me a single IOI and I've been flaked on constantly ( this is happening as we speak).
I :
- Can't be bothered seeing the looks of disappointment on their face when I turn up to meet them from online anymore.
- Can't be bothered pretending I don't just want to fuck them anymore, having to make inane conversation, while good looking guys can be straight forward and not risk losing the girl.
- Can't be bothered having to text back and forth just to set up a date and then show up and she be 1-2 points lower than photos.
- Can't be bothered to be rejected 30+ times in cold approach just to get one lead with a 5/10.
- Can't be bothered to have to put myself out there just to be deemed not attractive enough for a slightly above average girl.
- Can't deal with the constant IOD's anymore.
I feel myself being pulled towards MGTOW. After 130+ dates and just under 50 lays, I think I'm done.
Yes, being in love with a woman and having her love you back (whether it's a 'cope' 'fake' feeling or not like some of you would argue) is an amazing feeling.
But it's not worth the effort, humiliation and degradation that it takes to get there as a sub-chad. You have to put your entire self-worth as a man in the world on the line every day, even when you clearly mog the girl in intellect.
I was just not built to be able to succeed with women without extreme effort, and the reward is not worth it.
I truly believe that you're either born attractive to women or you're not.
You're thinking about getting surgery or other looksmaxing techniques, but the truth is, if you found these forums, you already lost the battle. It's too late, the psychological damage from lack of validation and love from women runs too deep for most of us to recover from.
