I can't love non-virgin women HELP

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I've been around a lot of women, I've experienced nightlife from all perspectives. But I just can't fall in love unless the woman is a vrigin, I didn't realize this until I looked back. After that, I realized I was cooked, most girls will never meet my unrealistic requirements for marriage so I'll just have to date and leave when I'm bored. It's really sad, and I wish life was more than this.
 
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Why do you think those requirements are unrealistic? Women like this are out there, you just wont ever find them in nightlife settings, it's completely natural to be unable to fall in love with a woman that has already made a permanent bond with another man.
 
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Why do you think those requirements are unrealistic? Women like this are out there, you just wont ever find them in nightlife settings, it's completely natural to be unable to fall in love with a woman that has already made a permanent bond with another man.
Because I'm 21 and I'm only getting older, as the years pass my chances of finding another virgin with model tier looks that I genuinely enjoy being around becomes slimmer and slimmer. I can either get a model that's hot or a virgin that is mid, and both options are bleak.

I wish I prioritized getting a wife from 18-21 vs getting as many girls as possible.
 
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@Sloppyseconds rip 🥀
 
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No need to love, use.
 
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i’ll probably never find a woman i really love

idk why but non virgins just don’t seem attractive to me and just weird
 
Because I'm 21 and I'm only getting older, as the years pass my chances of finding another virgin with model tier looks that I genuinely enjoy being around becomes slimmer and slimmer. I can either get a model that's hot or a virgin that is mid, and both options are bleak.

I wish I prioritized getting a wife from 18-21 vs getting as many girls as possible.
I'm 22, why do you think we should be getting married this early in life? Men peak far later then women. And as for getting as many girls as possible from 18 to 21, I did the same thing and I think it's absolutely necessary for a man to experience that, no woman will ever want an inexperienced man, we still have a decade of slaying before we need to lock in and find a wife. Besides, it's not like you cant do both, you just have to accept that finding the one might take a very long time, just keep a roster on hand while still going on serious dates.
 
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What do you need "help" for? You want us to make you love non-virgin women?
 
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No need to love, use.
That makes me want to rope, "using" is against my nature and I feel emptier every time I do it. But I still do it to avoid being a sucker.

I'm cooked, I'll only ever have meaningless hookups based on attraction/status. Mutual love is something that is likely beyond my luck.
 
I've been around a lot of women, I've experienced nightlife from all perspectives. But I just can't fall in love unless the woman is a vrigin, I didn't realize this until I looked back. After that, I realized I was cooked, most girls will never meet my unrealistic requirements for marriage so I'll just have to date and leave when I'm bored. It's really sad, and I wish life was more than this.
idk bro then wait until your homeboy have daughter and wait till she's old (not 12) otherwise there's nothing else fr
 
That makes me want to rope, "using" is against my nature and I feel emptier every time I do it. But I still do it to avoid being a sucker.

I'm cooked, I'll only ever have meaningless hookups based on attraction/status. Mutual love is something that is likely beyond my luck.
You are in a sucker situation.
 
What do you need "help" for? You want us to make you love non-virgin women?
I just don't know what to live for anymore. I have no purpose other than women and money.

Love is something too rare/fleeting to live for and it kills me internally.
 
You are in a sucker situation.
What do you mean? I have people's dream girls willing to love/commit to me, buI can't love/commit to those women because my standards are higher and I feel nothing for them due to greed and accessibility.
 
What do you mean? I have people's dream girls willing to love/commit to me, buI can't love/commit to those women because my standards are higher and I feel nothing for them due to greed and accessibility.
Exactly, your side isn't in it. It wont lead to shit.
 
i’ll probably never find a woman i really love

idk why but non virgins just don’t seem attractive to me and just weird
Bro it hurts so much, I don't care about the fact that I can pull. It just hurts that love is really a lottery, it's all based on luck, whether you meet the right one at the right time (along with genetics). I guess it helps that majority of people (male and female) will never find love, they just lie to themselves. Truly painful when you actually care about people.
 
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Why do you think those requirements are unrealistic? Women like this are out there, you just wont ever find them in nightlife settings, it's completely natural to be unable to fall in love with a woman that has already made a permanent bond with another man.
so on point I'm fuckin followin u brah
 
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This is normal, it shows you aren’t completely mind fucked
 
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How bro? It makes me cry when I think about the woman I love having someone inside her in the past (doesn't matter if I'm better). This is the girl I want to have children with, grow old with, give a kidney to if she needs, even die for her, I just can't have that type of love for a girl if someone else has been inside her, and it really hurts.
 
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How bro? It makes me cry when I think about the woman I love having someone inside her in the past (doesn't matter if I'm better). This is the girl I want to have children with, grow old with, give a kidney to if she needs, even die for her, I just can't have that type of love for a girl if someone else has been inside her, and it really hurts.
You explained it amazingly and i completley understand but for you to have that perpective whilst yourself not being virgin seems hypocritical. Your relationship can be based off more than just sex
 
This is normal, it shows you aren’t completely mind fucked
Bro but I'm empty, I look forward to nothing but money and sexual degeneracy. I highly doubt I'll ever get what I want (I'm getting too old *21*), a virgin beautiful wife and a family, that's getting rarer every year, I'm almost 22.
 
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Bro but I'm empty, I look forward to nothing but money and sexual degeneracy. I highly doubt I'll ever get what I want (I'm getting too old *21*), a virgin beautiful wife and a family, that's getting rarer every year, I'm almost 22.
Go for 18 year olds if you want better chances, I know that’s semi controversial but it’s more likely to result in what you want for a relationship
 
You explained it amazingly and i completley understand but for you to have that perpective whilst yourself not being virgin seems hypocritical. Your relationship can be based off more than just sex
I'm not anywhere near a virgin, but my emotional / pair bonding abiltiies are at the level of a virgin.

I've slept with over 20 women and I only truly loved 2 of them, one of them was my high school sweetheart (first for both of us, but I broke up with her because I saw things as irreplaceable while she didn't *typical female nature*, 5 years later she still wants me bad after having 4 others boyfriends while I just slayed and was unable to catch feelings for any woman, except for one this year, which didn't work out and made me realize I'm getting too old to keep finding what i'm truly looking for in a woman.
 
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unrealistic standards are a woman wanting a man that's at least 6 foot and makes atleast 6 figures. not wanting a woman whos a virgin
 
Go for 18 year olds if you want better chances, I know that’s semi controversial but it’s more likely to result in what you want for a relationship
That's already the strategy, idgaf about controversy as long as it is legal and I love her because I know normies are low iq cattle.
 
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unrealistic standards are a woman wanting a man that's at least 6 foot and makes atleast 6 figures. not wanting a woman whos a virgin
Virgin is not enough for me, she has to also be beautiful and pleasant to be around. By that, I mean a model that is also a virgin, she lowkey imprinted me and I can't feel love in the same way anymore.

Also, I'm 6 ft and will easily make 6 figures soon, most likely 7 figures at a later age (I'm only 21 rn).
 
I'm not anywhere near a virgin, but my emotional / pair bonding abiltiies are at the level of a virgin.

I've slept with over 20 women and I only truly loved 2 of them, one of them was my high school sweetheart (first for both of us, but I broke up with her because I saw things as irreplaceable while she didn't *typical female nature*, 5 years later she still wants me bad after having 4 others boyfriends while I just slayed and was unable to catch feelings for any woman, except for one this year, which didn't work out and made me realize I'm getting too old to keep finding what i'm truly looking for in a woman.
cant you find out of a girl has the pair bonding abiltiies are at the level of a virgin though?
 
That's already the strategy, idgaf about controversy as long as it is legal and I love her because I know normies are low iq cattle.
Just try to steer them away from college or whatever dumb shit the Js send their way to ruin their femininity

Obviously much of the brainwashing modernity brings is prior to adulthood however there’s more hope in an 18 year old female than 21+
 
cant you find out of a girl has the pair bonding abiltiies are at the level of a virgin though?
That's my plan b, just marrying a white girl that I know has been around but still cares about me, at least I won't feel bad about it. With the virgin arab girls it literaly kills me when I find out anyone even touched them. White girls I can love regardless of that because I know it doesn't mean much with them.
 
I've been around a lot of women, I've experienced nightlife from all perspectives. But I just can't fall in love unless the woman is a vrigin, I didn't realize this until I looked back. After that, I realized I was cooked, most girls will never meet my unrealistic requirements for marriage so I'll just have to date and leave when I'm bored. It's really sad, and I wish life was more than this.
I had this take for a long time. It's unfortunate, but you have to come to the realization that this expectation is not realistic. It's a pretty brutal fucking pill to swallow. I lowered it to nothing more than 3-4 and found a great chick. It definitely sucks but you just have to look past it...



It's a pretty decent video from Zherka, and it has a lot of truth in it. You could find a girl who's around MTB-HTB with a 2-3 body count at least in my experience. However, this is a rare find.

This is the truth.
 
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