I can’t stop thinking about her

[heightmax]

Ah fuck that sucks. I had a really cute onitis who was that height and also HTB but I got rejected so I know what it's like. At least she wasn't a bitch about it and was always nice and considerate after that

mine ignores me for some reason even though she stares at me in the hallway
not that im so sociable and talkative with bitches tho

 

[User28823]

are u brown?

 

[heightmax]

Decimate the shrine you made of her bro, all women are the same, albeit some slightly better than others. You're ultimately not doing yourself a favour by kneeling down and thinking she's the "one", there's no point being whipped to a woman that's not even thinking about you.

straight from chat gpt


MODS!!!

 

[heightmax]

are u brown?

milk white

 

[User28823]

milk white

then how about u stop being a CUCK and fuck her.

 

[heightmax]

then how about u stop being a CUCK and fuck her.

ok sir yessir

 

[SplashJuice]

straight from chat gpt


MODS!!!

You want ChatGPT?
It sounds like you’re really overwhelmed by your feelings for her, and that can be a tough place to sit in. A couple of things stand out in what you wrote:

1. The intensity of your focus​

You’re describing her in such detail that it shows how much attention you’ve given her. That level of focus can make the feelings feel even bigger and harder to manage. Sometimes when we idealize someone, they can start to take up more mental space than they actually occupy in reality.

2. Guilt and self-judgment​

You mentioned feeling “dumb and guilty” for even talking about her body. That’s understandable — you clearly care about not reducing her to physical traits. But noticing her looks doesn’t make you bad or wrong. Attraction is normal; the guilt is more about how you’re judging yourself for those feelings.

3. The “why can’t I have her / why do I have to be short” loop​

This is where your mind seems to be getting stuck. You’re tying her being “out of reach” directly to your height, which creates a painful cycle: desire → self-comparison → frustration → back to desire. That spiral can fuel the obsession.

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What might help​

• Grounding in reality: Try reminding yourself that you don’t know how she feels or what she values in others — height may not even matter to her. Attraction is complex.
• Balance: When you catch yourself thinking about her, gently redirect to something that gives you meaning — hobbies, gym, friends, even journaling. This reduces the obsessive hold.
• Self-compassion: Instead of “why can’t I have her, I’m short,” shift toward “I’m feeling pain because I want connection.” That’s a very human need, not a personal failing.
• Connection: Whether with her (in a respectful, genuine way) or others, taking small social risks can help break the cycle of longing without action.

---

A question for you: Do you feel like this is mostly about her specifically, or is it more that she’s become a symbol of something you wish you had (love, acceptance, intimacy)? That answer might change how you work through it.

 

[iblamegenetics7681]

So there’s this girl, she’s beautiful and really a cute type of beauty, nice features and overall harmony but nothing too striking and mind of “hot” if you know what i’m saying.
She has green eyes (real green eyes not like mine @Jager) and a very feminine eye shape kind of like deer eyes with a little hooding but not too much to seem asian, very small and harmonious nose, full red lips with a very nice smile, brown wavy hair that come down to around to the middle of her traps.
She’s approximately 167/168 cms tall (5’6) with a lean physique but nice tits i would say b cup but i not sure, nicely shaped ass but not too big.

i feel dumb and guilty even talking about her body i think i love her

@FramePillGymMaxx @Petsmart @iaia
why can’t i have her why do i have to be short

i hope she falls in love with you bhai, and when you get her, dont fuck up like me, just go up and make small talk trust me, its worth it

 

[heightmax]

You want ChatGPT?
It sounds like you’re really overwhelmed by your feelings for her, and that can be a tough place to sit in. A couple of things stand out in what you wrote:

1. The intensity of your focus​

You’re describing her in such detail that it shows how much attention you’ve given her. That level of focus can make the feelings feel even bigger and harder to manage. Sometimes when we idealize someone, they can start to take up more mental space than they actually occupy in reality.

2. Guilt and self-judgment​

You mentioned feeling “dumb and guilty” for even talking about her body. That’s understandable — you clearly care about not reducing her to physical traits. But noticing her looks doesn’t make you bad or wrong. Attraction is normal; the guilt is more about how you’re judging yourself for those feelings.

3. The “why can’t I have her / why do I have to be short” loop​

This is where your mind seems to be getting stuck. You’re tying her being “out of reach” directly to your height, which creates a painful cycle: desire → self-comparison → frustration → back to desire. That spiral can fuel the obsession.

---

What might help​

• Grounding in reality: Try reminding yourself that you don’t know how she feels or what she values in others — height may not even matter to her. Attraction is complex.
• Balance: When you catch yourself thinking about her, gently redirect to something that gives you meaning — hobbies, gym, friends, even journaling. This reduces the obsessive hold.
• Self-compassion: Instead of “why can’t I have her, I’m short,” shift toward “I’m feeling pain because I want connection.” That’s a very human need, not a personal failing.
• Connection: Whether with her (in a respectful, genuine way) or others, taking small social risks can help break the cycle of longing without action.

---

A question for you: Do you feel like this is mostly about her specifically, or is it more that she’s become a symbol of something you wish you had (love, acceptance, intimacy)? That answer might change how you work through it.

add hgh to

“What might help”

 

[Koji]

im a junior with this cute girl in my french class. only reason i dont make a move is because
1. i dont know what to fucking say
2. she could literally be freshmen jfl
also cause im an incel i get nervous when a mmtb talks to me

 

[SplashJuice]

add hgh to

“What might help”

Maybe worth it to get LL at one point

 

[heightmax]

im a junior with this cute girl in my french class. only reason i dont make a move is because
1. i dont know what to fucking say
2. she could literally be freshmen jfl
also cause im an incel i get nervous when a mmtb talks to me

koji why u lying man we both know you’re tall and not chalant AT ALL bro you’re goated twin never tell yourself you’re an incel

 

[Im sorry mother]

So there’s this girl, she’s beautiful and really a cute type of beauty, nice features and overall harmony but nothing too striking and mind of “hot” if you know what i’m saying.
She has green eyes (real green eyes not like mine @Jager) and a very feminine eye shape kind of like deer eyes with a little hooding but not too much to seem asian, very small and harmonious nose, full red lips with a very nice smile, brown wavy hair that come down to around to the middle of her traps.
She’s approximately 167/168 cms tall (5’6) with a lean physique but nice tits i would say b cup but i not sure, nicely shaped ass but not too big.

i feel dumb and guilty even talking about her body i think i love her

@FramePillGymMaxx @Petsmart @iaia
why can’t i have her why do i have to be short

the start of smth horrible

 

[heightmax]

Maybe worth it to get LL at one point

cmon bruh 5’9 isnt so bad and im still growing

 

[Koji]

koji why u lying man we both know you’re tall and not chalant AT ALL bro you’re goated twin never tell yourself you’re an incel

haha thanks bhai

 

[SplashJuice]

cmon bruh 5’9 isnt so bad and im still growing

Damnn bro, yeah have some hope then lol

 

[m0ss26]

So there’s this girl, she’s beautiful and really a cute type of beauty, nice features and overall harmony but nothing too striking and mind of “hot” if you know what i’m saying.
She has green eyes (real green eyes not like mine @Jager) and a very feminine eye shape kind of like deer eyes with a little hooding but not too much to seem asian, very small and harmonious nose, full red lips with a very nice smile, brown wavy hair that come down to around to the middle of her traps.
She’s approximately 167/168 cms tall (5’6) with a lean physique but nice tits i would say b cup but i not sure, nicely shaped ass but not too big.

Reminds me exactly of the girl i liked over summer except mine had grey eyes

She ended up liking me back but she’s also dating my hb who snaked me and wouldn’t break up with him

Never get infatuated with a girl twin it’s always brutal no matter what happens

 

[heightmax]

Reminds me exactly of the girl i liked over summer except mine had grey eyes

She ended up liking me back but she’s also dating my hb who snaked me and wouldn’t break up with him

Never get infatuated with a girl twin it’s always brutal no matter what happens

isnt brutal only if you mog her in that case whatever happens you’re just better looking yk

 

[heightmax]

Reminds me exactly of the girl i liked over summer except mine had grey eyes

She ended up liking me back but she’s also dating my hb who snaked me and wouldn’t break up with him

Never get infatuated with a girl twin it’s always brutal no matter what happens

ill personally rape your homeboy dw

 

[m0ss26]

ill personally rape your homeboy dw

Thanks bro ur a real one

Even more brutal is he’s sub 5 and a depressed bozo

But we cut em off and move.

 

[heightmax]

Thanks bro ur a real one

Even more brutal is he’s sub 5 and a depressed bozo

But we cut em off and move.

ong bro that nigga ain’t worth 1 minute of your time