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I’ve been running into a problem when it comes to girls I actually like, especially when I know they like me back and are giving me signs (flirting with me, touching me, having their friends ship us, adding me on social media, etc.)
I can talk to girls I don’t have feelings for pretty easily, even if I know they like me. But when it’s someone I genuinely like, I get scared and start overthinking everything. I start picking apart my body, worrying about my body fat, comparing myself to other guys I know she likes (Even tho every guy i run into gives me compliments abt my looks), and even getting insecure about my size. I convince myself that I’m not good enough or that I’m going to fail before I’ve even given myself a chance.
I can talk to girls I don’t have feelings for pretty easily, even if I know they like me. But when it’s someone I genuinely like, I get scared and start overthinking everything. I start picking apart my body, worrying about my body fat, comparing myself to other guys I know she likes (Even tho every guy i run into gives me compliments abt my looks), and even getting insecure about my size. I convince myself that I’m not good enough or that I’m going to fail before I’ve even given myself a chance.